r/DecidingToBeBetter is a subreddit with 1.4M members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses looking for a, self improvement, accountability, mental health, and motivation, and they frequently recommend/review hobby, podcast recommendations, and fitness apps.
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Popular Themes in r/DecidingToBeBetter
#1
Advice Requests
: "People who clawed their way out of a really dark place, what actually helped?"
72 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "Happy marriage, constant FOMO, and thoughts about the life I never had"
20 posts
#3
Ideas
: "Building a social platform around life's biggest questions, would you use something like this?"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/DecidingToBeBetter
#1
Looking For A
48 posts
#2
Self Improvement
: "learning to forgive yourself?"
30 posts
#3
Accountability
13 posts
#4
Mental Health
11 posts
#5
Motivation
: "Does anyone ever feel like when they plan on doing something, the moment you get there, you no longer feel like doing it and sit in your car that’s idled instead?"
10 posts
#6
Relationships
7 posts
#7
Hard Time
7 posts
#8
Hate Myself
6 posts
#9
Mental Health
6 posts
#10
Change
5 posts
Products Discussed in r/DecidingToBeBetter
Hobby
2 reviews
#1
Scrapbooking
5.0★ from 1 review
#2
Needling Felting
5.0★ from 1 review
Podcast Recommendations
1 review
#1
Adult Child Podcast
5.0★ from 1 review
Fitness Apps
1 review
#1
Ironwolf Pact
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/DecidingToBeBetter
#1
Seeking Advice
: "People who clawed their way out of a really dark place, what actually helped?"
150 posts
#2
Discussion
: "Getting a prenup before buying a house together was the best thing we almost didn't do"
22 posts
#3
Success Story
: "100 Days Sober from Drinking Today 🎉"
10 posts
#4
Sharing Helpful Tips
: "Things I applied in my life that helped with my intrusive thoughts and rumination"
8 posts
#5
Progress Update
: "153 days without weed and alcohol"
8 posts
#6
Spreading Positivity
: "People who once wanted to die but turned their lives around, what changed?"
2 posts
Member Growth in r/DecidingToBeBetter
Yearly
+109k members(8.6%)
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Last updated: July 2, 2026