r/DecidingToBeBetter is a subreddit with 1.4M members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses looking for a, self improvement, motivation, mental health, and accountability, and they frequently recommend/review hobby, podcast recommendations, and fitness apps.
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Popular Themes in r/DecidingToBeBetter
#1
Advice Requests
: "How do I stop limerence as a married woman?"
51 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "Guilt while reading Adult Children of emotionally immature parents."
13 posts
Popular Topics in r/DecidingToBeBetter
#1
Looking For A
48 posts
#2
Self Improvement
: "I’m A “NPC” and Want to Change"
47 posts
#3
Motivation
: "I noticed consistency became easier once I stopped using shame as Motivation."
31 posts
#4
Mental Health
: "I don't want to die, but I don't feel like living either"
16 posts
#5
Accountability
15 posts
#6
Mental Health
13 posts
#7
Personal Growth
: "For the first time in years, I actually feel in control"
12 posts
#8
Relationships
: "How do I (28M) stop making conversations feel like interviews for my partner (27F)?"
11 posts
#9
Change
: "I was a terrible person, I've learned, and I've been trying to Change. How do I handle people who keep bringing up my bad past and spreading it to other people?"
11 posts
#10
Frustrating
10 posts
Products Discussed in r/DecidingToBeBetter
Hobby
2 reviews
#1
Scrapbooking
5.0★ from 1 review
#2
Needling Felting
5.0★ from 1 review
Podcast Recommendations
1 review
#1
Adult Child Podcast
5.0★ from 1 review
Fitness Apps
1 review
#1
Ironwolf Pact
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/DecidingToBeBetter
#1
Seeking Advice
: "How do I stop limerence as a married woman?"
147 posts
#2
Discussion
: "Guilt while reading Adult Children of emotionally immature parents."
22 posts
#3
Progress Update
: "Day 39, I'm Overcoming My Phone Addiction."
12 posts
#4
Spreading Positivity
: "Be the one who makes it happen"
7 posts
#5
Success Story
: "I haven't touched heroin in months"
6 posts
#6
Sharing Helpful Tips
: "Real healing is when you stop letting the worst thing that happened to you introduce you to every room."
6 posts
Member Growth in r/DecidingToBeBetter
Yearly
+103k members(8.2%)
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Last updated: June 11, 2026