r/DecidingToBeBetter is a subreddit with 1.4M members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses looking for a, self improvement, relationships, mental health, and accountability, and they frequently recommend/review hobby, podcast recommendations, and fitness apps.
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Popular Themes in r/DecidingToBeBetter
#1
Advice Requests
: "19M stuck in an emotional 8 months relationship with a 36F who's married with kids. I need urgent advice."
57 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "Today, i decided to stop relying on ai"
28 posts
Popular Topics in r/DecidingToBeBetter
#1
Looking For A
48 posts
#2
Self Improvement
: "How do I start being better?"
25 posts
#3
Relationships
: "I lost my job today and 2 months ago got dumped from a decade old relationship. But there is Hope"
19 posts
#4
Mental Health
: "Having a hard time accepting life as it is"
18 posts
#5
Accountability
13 posts
#6
Motivation
: "I don’t want to fight for anything in life,"
13 posts
#7
Mental Health
6 posts
#8
Depression
: "I was stuck in bed for years. I decided to create something instead."
6 posts
#9
Breakup
: "The hardest lesson my Breakup taught me"
6 posts
#10
Change
5 posts
Products Discussed in r/DecidingToBeBetter
Hobby
2 reviews
#1
Scrapbooking
5.0★ from 1 review
#2
Needling Felting
5.0★ from 1 review
Podcast Recommendations
1 review
#1
Adult Child Podcast
5.0★ from 1 review
Fitness Apps
1 review
#1
Ironwolf Pact
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/DecidingToBeBetter
#1
Seeking Advice
: "19M stuck in an emotional 8 months relationship with a 36F who's married with kids. I need urgent advice."
150 posts
#2
Discussion
: "finally woke up to my people pleasing and the damage it causes"
20 posts
#3
Progress Update
: "Recently experienced first psychosis episode."
6 posts
#4
Sharing Helpful Tips
: "The hardest lesson my breakup taught me"
5 posts
#5
Success Story
: "I was stuck in bed for years. I decided to create something instead."
5 posts
#6
Spreading Positivity
: "I lost my job today and 2 months ago got dumped from a decade old relationship. But there is Hope"
4 posts
Member Growth in r/DecidingToBeBetter
Yearly
+111k members(8.7%)
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Last updated: August 7, 2026