r/HLCommunity is a subreddit with 26k members. The community frequently discusses sex, relationship, libido, struggling, and hate, and the most common flair used is advice welcome, discussion, vent only, no advice , advice - leaving not an option, and support wanted, no advice.
This sex positive community offers support to higher libido partners as they navigate sex in long term relationships.
Popular Topics in r/HLCommunity
#1
Sex
66 posts
#2
Relationship
59 posts
#3
Libido
59 posts
#4
Struggling
15 posts
#5
Hate
14 posts
#6
Marriage
13 posts
#7
Partner
9 posts
#8
Dead Bedroom
9 posts
#9
Hl
8 posts
#10
Pattern
8 posts
Flair Used in r/HLCommunity
#1
Advice Welcome
: "Hot take: Sex isn't a bonus. It's core intimacy, and treating it as optional corrodes a relationship"
52 posts
#2
Discussion
: "I stopped pursuing. I stopped expecting. I stopped wanting."
35 posts
#3
Vent Only, No Advice
: "I'm done with this. I'm leaving her"
15 posts
#4
Advice - Leaving NOT an option
: "Given Hall Pass - pros & cons"
7 posts
#5
Support Wanted, No Advice
: "Got kicked out of a sub for having high libido"
4 posts
#6
Humor
: "Excuse/Argument Bingo From LL (Type2)"
3 posts
#7
Success Story
: "I broke up with him- I’m free!!!"
2 posts
#8
Trigger Warning
: "I should have left sooner or addressed the elephant clearly. I lost my humanity. Be better than me."
2 posts
#9
What's Next?
: "Really struggling with shame after leaving"
2 posts
#10
HLF Only
: "Thoughts on trying this?"
2 posts
Member Growth in r/HLCommunity
Yearly
+3k members(11.3%)
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Last updated: August 25, 2026