r/HLCommunity is a subreddit with 25k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses sex, relationship, libido, struggling, and hate.
This sex positive community offers support to higher libido partners as they navigate sex in long term relationships.
Popular Themes in r/HLCommunity
#1
Advice Requests
: "Advice to the LL woman"
4 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "I think I'm done"
2 posts
Popular Topics in r/HLCommunity
#1
Sex
: "I just want a woman who wants Sex."
66 posts
#2
Relationship
: "HLF that was in a LL Relationship and am finally with a HLM"
59 posts
#3
Libido
: "Can someone with a very high Libido be happy in life without sexual fulfillment?"
59 posts
#4
Struggling
15 posts
#5
Hate
14 posts
#6
Marriage
13 posts
#7
Partner
9 posts
#8
Dead Bedroom
9 posts
#9
Hl
8 posts
#10
Pattern
8 posts
Flair Used in r/HLCommunity
#1
Discussion
: "I Made A Journal Comic On Some Recent Thoughts On Being In A Sexless Marriage."
36 posts
#2
Advice Welcome
: "Wife said she isn’t interested in sex with me"
28 posts
#3
Vent Only, No Advice
: "Frustrated"
17 posts
#4
Support Wanted, No Advice
: "Dear HL Women, Thank You For Keeping Us Mentally Sane"
12 posts
#5
Humor
: "Happy Fathers Day to those who are concerned."
5 posts
#6
LL Participation Welcome
: "Sometimes it’s effort aversion (not sex aversion) from low libido spouse"
3 posts
#7
Success Story
: "I broke up with him- I’m free!!!"
2 posts
#8
Advice - Leaving NOT an option
: ""I don't have to want to. It should be enough that I'm willing to.""
2 posts
#9
What's Next?
: "Starting to feel like change will never happen"
2 posts
#10
HLM Only
: "Has porn ever helped your HL/LL marriage?"
1 post
Member Growth in r/HLCommunity
Yearly
+2k members(9.5%)
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Last updated: June 29, 2026