r/HLCommunity is a subreddit with 25k members. The community frequently discusses sex, relationship, libido, struggling, and hate, and the most common flair used is discussion, advice welcome, vent only, no advice , support wanted, no advice, and humor.
This sex positive community offers support to higher libido partners as they navigate sex in long term relationships.
Popular Topics in r/HLCommunity
#1
Sex
66 posts
#2
Relationship
59 posts
#3
Libido
59 posts
#4
Struggling
15 posts
#5
Hate
14 posts
#6
Marriage
13 posts
#7
Partner
9 posts
#8
Dead Bedroom
9 posts
#9
Hl
8 posts
#10
Pattern
8 posts
Flair Used in r/HLCommunity
#1
Discussion
: "I Made A Journal Comic On Some Recent Thoughts On Being In A Sexless Marriage."
41 posts
#2
Advice Welcome
: "Hot take: Sex isn't a bonus. It's core intimacy, and treating it as optional corrodes a relationship"
36 posts
#3
Vent Only, No Advice
: "I'm done with this. I'm leaving her"
15 posts
#4
Support Wanted, No Advice
: "Sick of the religious shame of having a high libido"
11 posts
#5
Humor
: "Why settle for cheap hamburgers if you have a gourmet chef at home?"
6 posts
#6
LL Participation Welcome
: "Sometimes it’s effort aversion (not sex aversion) from low libido spouse"
3 posts
#7
Advice - Leaving NOT an option
: "35FHL I am so confused by him 35mLL"
3 posts
#8
Success Story
: "I broke up with him- I’m free!!!"
2 posts
#9
What's Next?
: "First time I wasn't able to have sex with her..."
2 posts
#10
Trigger Warning
: "Listen, I know I'm meeting an asshole, but.."
1 post
Member Growth in r/HLCommunity
Yearly
+2k members(10.6%)
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Last updated: August 2, 2026