r/HLCommunity is a subreddit with 25k members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses sex, relationship, libido, struggling, and hate.
This sex positive community offers support to higher libido partners as they navigate sex in long term relationships.
Popular Themes in r/HLCommunity
#1
Pain & Anger
: "HL married man, in sexless marriage."
15 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "Advice to the LL woman"
3 posts
Popular Topics in r/HLCommunity
#1
Sex
: "I dont get LL partners, even when im not "horny" im still always down for Sex cause its fun"
66 posts
#2
Relationship
: "HLF that was in a LL Relationship and am finally with a HLM"
59 posts
#3
Libido
: "New marriage, love my husband but I have a very high Libido"
59 posts
#4
Struggling
15 posts
#5
Hate
14 posts
#6
Marriage
: "18 years, two kids, no sex — but hey, at least I’ve got abs now?"
13 posts
#7
Partner
9 posts
#8
Dead Bedroom
: "Looking back on your relationship, what were some early subtle signs that predicted if your sex life will flourish or turn into a Dead Bedroom?"
9 posts
#9
Hl
: "Hl married man, in sexless marriage."
8 posts
#10
Pattern
8 posts
Flair Used in r/HLCommunity
#1
Discussion
: "I Made A Journal Comic On Some Recent Thoughts On Being In A Sexless Marriage."
30 posts
#2
Advice Welcome
: "How do you ask for more without making your partner feel pressured?"
29 posts
#3
Vent Only, No Advice
: "They fundamentally don't get it."
21 posts
#4
Support Wanted, No Advice
: "Dear HL Women, Thank You For Keeping Us Mentally Sane"
9 posts
#5
Advice - Leaving NOT an option
: ""I don't have to want to. It should be enough that I'm willing to.""
5 posts
#6
Humor
: "When does “tomorrow” actually become “today”"
5 posts
#7
Success Story
: "A Manifesto for Relentless Intimacy (a perspective from two decades of marriage)"
2 posts
#8
LL Participation Welcome
: "Sometimes it’s effort aversion (not sex aversion) from low libido spouse"
1 post
#9
What's Next?
: "Starting to feel like change will never happen"
1 post
#10
HLM Only
: "Has porn ever helped your HL/LL marriage?"
1 post
Member Growth in r/HLCommunity
Yearly
+2k members(8.3%)
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Last updated: June 1, 2026