r/LDR is a subreddit with 89k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses ldr, relationship, advice, long distance, and breakup, and they frequently recommend/review messaging app.
This community was created to be a welcoming space for couples in Long Distance Relationships.
Popular Themes in r/LDR
#1
Advice Requests
: "She's not talking to me anymore after we met"
34 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "LDR Broke Me"
14 posts
#3
Solution Requests
: "Any ldr dating ideas?"
3 posts
#4
Ideas
: "First Time Meeting LDR Partner -- Need some ideas!"
2 posts
Popular Topics in r/LDR
#1
Ldr
: "Finance: Is this normal for Ldr? I pay for everything. Her rent, pocket money, travels etc."
164 posts
#2
Relationship
: "I (23M) Love Her (23F) Deeply, But I’m Starting to Feel Emotionally Alone in My Own Relationship"
163 posts
#3
Advice
: "Need some Advice"
67 posts
#4
Long Distance
: "[23M] [21F] how common is it for Long Distance relationship to finally close but not wanting intimacy?"
46 posts
#5
Breakup
: "LDR Breakup/ love bombed? Overwhelmed?"
45 posts
#6
Struggling
: "Am I being insecure in my LDR or is this normal discomfort?"
36 posts
#7
Long Distance Relationship
: "I am in a LDR(Long Distance Relationship) and all I can think is sex"
33 posts
#8
Communication
: "How to handle non-Communication"
23 posts
#9
Distance
: "How do I make my girlfriend feel loved in a long Distance relationship when physical touch is her love language?"
22 posts
#10
Looking For
16 posts
Products Discussed in r/LDR
Messaging App
7 reviews
#1
Discord
4.5★ from 4 reviews
#2
WhatsApp
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Telegram
5.0★ from 1 review
Member Growth in r/LDR
Yearly
+12k members(15.0%)
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Last updated: June 15, 2026