r/LDR is a subreddit with 92k members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses struggling, ldr, relationship, distance, and breakup, and they frequently recommend/review messaging app.
This community was created to be a welcoming space for couples in Long Distance Relationships.
Popular Themes in r/LDR
#1
Pain & Anger
: "I think my girlfriend(20F) drifts apart from me(22M) slowly and i wonder what i can do"
2 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "Cheating advice"
2 posts
#3
Self-Promotion
: "I have no idea if people will actually use this 😂
But I built a digital bouquet website anyway. 🌷
Now I'm looking for my first users. A bouquet.
Your photos.
Your message.
One link. 🌷💌
'DM' ME OR COMMENT 'YES' I'LL SEND YOU LINK..."
2 posts
#4
Solution Requests
: "A free couples app that me and my girlfriend have been using"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/LDR
#1
Struggling
35 posts
#2
Ldr
30 posts
#3
Relationship
28 posts
#4
Distance
19 posts
#5
Breakup
7 posts
#6
Love
7 posts
#7
Advice
6 posts
#8
Worst
3 posts
#9
Long Distance
3 posts
#10
Waiting
2 posts
Products Discussed in r/LDR
Messaging App
7 reviews
#1
Discord
4.5★ from 4 reviews
#2
WhatsApp
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Telegram
5.0★ from 1 review
Member Growth in r/LDR
Yearly
+13k members(17.1%)
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Last updated: August 28, 2026