r/LDR is a subreddit with 95k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and they frequently recommend/review messaging app.
This community was created to be a welcoming space for couples in Long Distance Relationships.
Popular Themes in r/LDR
#1
Advice Requests
: "She came from Germany to meet me after 3–4 months of talking, but ended things days later. Is reconciliation possible?"
27 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "i feel like we’re about to break up"
16 posts
#3
Solution Requests
: "Anything better than discord for long distance movie nights? (both of us are 18+)"
1 post
#4
Money Talk
: "Should I skip his family’s Thanksgiving because of high flight prices?"
1 post
Products Discussed in r/LDR
Messaging App
7 reviews
#1
Discord
4.5★ from 4 reviews
#2
WhatsApp
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Telegram
5.0★ from 1 review
Member Growth in r/LDR
Yearly
+15k members(19.2%)
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Last updated: October 15, 2026