/r/LongDistance/

r/LongDistance

2.5M members
r/LongDistance is a subreddit with 2.5M members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses looking for, relationship, long distance, ldr, and long distance relationship, and they frequently recommend/review cloud storage, video games, and gifts.
r/LongDistance is a subreddit for and about long distance relationships. For anyone considering(but not seeking), currently in, or who used to be, this is the community for you! We are here for support, advice, and community who can relate to your experiences. We are people who met online, students studying across the country and abroad, people separated by jobs and the military, and more.

Popular Themes in r/LongDistance

#1
Advice Requests
: "Is My (30F) Long-Distance Relationship With My Boyfriend (32M) Still Worth Fighting For?"
17 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "I (19f) and my girlfriend (19f) have been dating for a few weeks now. And I'm terified"
3 posts
#3
Solution Requests
: "me(18M) My girlfriend(18F)s birthday is coming up and we’re in an LDR so need gift ideas"
1 post

Popular Topics in r/LongDistance

#1

Looking For

17 posts
#2

Relationship

15 posts
#3

Long Distance

11 posts
#4

Ldr

10 posts
#5

Long Distance Relationship

5 posts
#6

Apps

4 posts
#7

Job

4 posts
#8

Game

4 posts
#9

Gift

3 posts
#10

Co Op

3 posts

Products Discussed in r/LongDistance

Cloud Storage

7 reviews
#1
Filen
3.0★ from 1 review
#2
Scramble Cloud
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Vult.Network
5.0★ from 1 review

Video Games

7 reviews
#1
Square Enix
5.0★ from 1 review
#2
Divinity
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Bloons
5.0★ from 1 review

Gifts

5 reviews
#1
John Lewis
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Kendra Scott
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
The Chocolate Box by Charlotte
4.0★ from 1 review

Flair Used in r/LongDistance

#1
Question
: "Am I suitable for relationship or LDR?"
25 posts
#2
Need Advice
: "20F and 25M long distance relationship ended with him blocking me without explanation"
22 posts
#3
Venting
: "Narcissistic LDR partner (36M) messaged me (35F) I responded only to be left on seen again for hours"
3 posts
#4
Breakup
: "Heartbroken. I guess love wasn't enough."
2 posts
#5
Discussion
: "Is my boyfriend (30M) too dependent on me? (25M)"
2 posts
#6
Success
: "my bf is too sweet let me brag about him for a sec lol"
2 posts
#7
Image/Video
: "Why I (19f) think that (20m) bf is weird"
1 post
#8
App/Software
: "Couple Private Space"
1 post
#9
Meeting
: "After spending two weeks together, my bf missed me so much that he kept sacrificing his sleep even though I kept telling him to sleep🥹🤣"
1 post
#10
Need Support
: "Feeling worst...."
1 post

Member Growth in r/LongDistance

Yearly
+51k members(2.1%)

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Last updated: October 1, 2026