/r/LesbianActually/

r/LesbianActually

378k members
r/LesbianActually is a subreddit with 378k members. The community frequently discusses lesbian, dating, relationship, love, and relationships, and they frequently recommend/review lesbian book, wlw book recommendations, and dating apps, and the most common flair used is picture, relationships / dating, questions / advice wanted, life, and news/pop culture.
Lesbian Actually is a place to discuss WLW life and culture.

Popular Topics in r/LesbianActually

#1

Lesbian

90 posts
#2

Dating

77 posts
#3

Relationship

40 posts
#4

Love

29 posts
#5

Relationships

25 posts
#6

Advice

23 posts
#7

Hate

22 posts
#8

Struggling

21 posts
#9

Looking For A

20 posts
#10

Looking

16 posts

Products Discussed in r/LesbianActually

Lesbian Book

23 reviews
#1
Nina LaCour
5.0 from 2 reviews
#2
Sarah Waters
4.5 from 2 reviews
#3
Charmaine Wilkerson
4.0 from 1 review
#1
Elle Spencer
4.5 from 2 reviews
#2
Ronica Black
4.0 from 1 review
#3
Jennifer Dugan
4.0 from 1 review

Dating Apps

15 reviews
#1
Hinge
4.0 from 7 reviews
#2
Bumble
3.7 from 3 reviews
#3
HER
3.0 from 2 reviews

Flair Used in r/LesbianActually

#1
Picture
: "Would this pic on a dating app be a turn off?"
60 posts
#2
Relationships / Dating
: "Remember us? Just two “straight” best friends that met as nurses, fell in love, and just celebrated our SECOND year together"
50 posts
#3
Questions / Advice Wanted
: "What Actor Would You Like to See Play A Sapphic Role the Most?"
37 posts
#4
Life
: "i went to a gay bar last night as a lesbian and i’m irrationally irritated"
33 posts
#5
News/Pop Culture
: "When Mentioning Pride Month, Never Forget Stormé DeLarverie."
11 posts
#6
Safe Space (Postive Comments Only)
: "Wearing a bikini to sunbath as a trans girl is so liberating! my first ever pic in a bikini 🥰"
9 posts

Member Growth in r/LesbianActually

Yearly
+60k members(18.8%)

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Last updated: June 16, 2026