/r/LesbianActually/

r/LesbianActually

389k members
r/LesbianActually is a subreddit with 389k members. The community frequently discusses lesbian, dating, relationship, love, and relationships, and they frequently recommend/review lesbian book, wlw book recommendations, and dating apps, and the most common flair used is relationships / dating, questions / advice wanted, life, picture, and safe space (postive comments only).
Lesbian Actually is a place to discuss WLW life and culture.

Popular Topics in r/LesbianActually

#1

Lesbian

90 posts
#2

Dating

77 posts
#3

Relationship

40 posts
#4

Love

29 posts
#5

Relationships

25 posts
#6

Advice

23 posts
#7

Hate

22 posts
#8

Struggling

21 posts
#9

Looking For A

20 posts
#10

Looking

16 posts

Products Discussed in r/LesbianActually

Lesbian Book

23 reviews
#1
Nina LaCour
5.0 from 2 reviews
#2
Sarah Waters
4.5 from 2 reviews
#3
Charmaine Wilkerson
4.0 from 1 review
#1
Elle Spencer
4.5 from 2 reviews
#2
Ronica Black
4.0 from 1 review
#3
Jennifer Dugan
4.0 from 1 review

Dating Apps

15 reviews
#1
Hinge
4.0 from 7 reviews
#2
Bumble
3.7 from 3 reviews
#3
HER
3.0 from 2 reviews

Flair Used in r/LesbianActually

#1
Relationships / Dating
: "My gf doesn’t want to drive 20 min for me, AIO?"
70 posts
#2
Questions / Advice Wanted
: "Very little to no sex in marriage - advice/wisdom welcome"
39 posts
#3
Life
: "Felt cute at my new job :)"
24 posts
#4
Picture
: "I’ve felt insecure about my body for awhile, this weekend was first time wearing a two piece :)"
14 posts
#5
Safe Space (Postive Comments Only)
: "i will admit it- i hate being lesbian."
14 posts
#6
News/Pop Culture
: "Orlando Lesbians!!!"
8 posts

Member Growth in r/LesbianActually

Yearly
+63k members(19.4%)

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Last updated: August 13, 2026