r/PurplePillDebate is a subreddit with 156k members. The community frequently discusses men, women, dating, relationships, and looking for, and the most common flair used is debate, question for women, discussion, question for men, and question for redpill.
PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to r/TheBluePill and r/TheRedPill.
Popular Topics in r/PurplePillDebate
#1
Men
116 posts
#2
Women
89 posts
#3
Dating
77 posts
#4
Relationships
54 posts
#5
Looking For
42 posts
#6
Sex
22 posts
#7
Struggling
20 posts
#8
Attraction
19 posts
#9
Gender
19 posts
#10
Feminism
13 posts
Flair Used in r/PurplePillDebate
#1
Debate
: "If you're a man and a woman you're into doesnt reciprocate you should completely move on and stop trying."
114 posts
#2
Question For Women
: "Genuine question for women who think dating apps are hard for women, what type of men do you swipe right on?"
27 posts
#3
Discussion
: "Things you refuse to do now in the name of fashion and beauty"
21 posts
#4
Question For Men
: "If beauty is what is most valued by a man then what is the point of a relationship for a woman?"
11 posts
#5
Question for RedPill
: "Why do Redpill men tell men to not get married and to “protect their peace”, yet scorn women who choose to stay single/unmarried/childless?"
7 posts
#6
Question for BluePill
: "Why is the perpetrator’s mental health used to elicit sympathy when the perpetrator is a woman?"
2 posts
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Last updated: September 8, 2026