/r/PurplePillDebate/

r/PurplePillDebate

157k members
r/PurplePillDebate is a subreddit with 157k members. The community frequently discusses men, women, dating, relationships, and looking for, and the most common flair used is debate, question for women, question for men, discussion, and question for bluepill.
PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to r/TheBluePill and r/TheRedPill.

Popular Topics in r/PurplePillDebate

#1

Men

116 posts
#2

Women

89 posts
#3

Dating

77 posts
#4

Relationships

54 posts
#5

Looking For

42 posts
#6

Sex

22 posts
#7

Struggling

20 posts
#8

Attraction

19 posts
#9

Gender

19 posts
#10

Feminism

13 posts

Flair Used in r/PurplePillDebate

#1
Debate
: "Women hate the average man for what the men they dated did to them"
36 posts
#2
Question For Women
: "Are women with high sex drives really that rare?"
10 posts
#3
Question For Men
: "I am genuinely confused by the “most men will die alone” argument. What are the women doing in that scenario?"
4 posts
#4
Discussion
: "Don't women find it hypocritical to hate on female pick-mes while lambasting men who hate on male simps ?"
3 posts
#5
Question for BluePill
: "Is your current partner your best sexual partner and has your best sexy night been with them?"
1 post
#6
Question for RedPill
: "I feel most red pill men should be feminist."
1 post

Member Growth in r/PurplePillDebate

Yearly
+15k members(10.9%)

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Last updated: September 23, 2026