/r/PurplePillDebate/

r/PurplePillDebate

154k members
r/PurplePillDebate is a subreddit with 154k members. The community frequently discusses men, women, dating, relationships, and looking for, and the most common flair used is debate, question for women, discussion, question for men, and question for redpill.
PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to r/TheBluePill and r/TheRedPill.

Popular Topics in r/PurplePillDebate

#1

Men

116 posts
#2

Women

89 posts
#3

Dating

77 posts
#4

Relationships

54 posts
#5

Looking For

42 posts
#6

Sex

22 posts
#7

Struggling

20 posts
#8

Attraction

19 posts
#9

Gender

19 posts
#10

Feminism

13 posts

Flair Used in r/PurplePillDebate

#1
Debate
: "Women Can't Be "Used" For Sex If They Consented. That's Feminist Victim Mentality Rhetoric."
56 posts
#2
Question For Women
: "What do you think about this quote from Bell Hooks?"
10 posts
#3
Discussion
: "Could having standards that are too high be helped with therapy?"
9 posts
#4
Question For Men
: "What explains the difference in how some men respond to authority, admiration, and emotion when it comes from women versus other men."
6 posts
#5
Question for RedPill
: "What Tactics/Tips do you Follow to get Women?"
5 posts
#6
Question for BluePill
: "We pathologize male passivity in dating but reward female passivity and nobody can explain why without circular logic"
3 posts

Member Growth in r/PurplePillDebate

Yearly
+14k members(9.7%)

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Last updated: July 30, 2026