r/PurplePillDebate is a subreddit with 152k members. The community frequently discusses men, women, dating, relationships, and looking for, and the most common flair used is debate, question for women, question for men, discussion, and question for redpill.
PurplePillDebate is a neutral community to discuss sex and gender issues, specifically those pertaining to r/TheBluePill and r/TheRedPill.
Popular Topics in r/PurplePillDebate
#1
Men
116 posts
#2
Women
89 posts
#3
Dating
77 posts
#4
Relationships
54 posts
#5
Looking For
42 posts
#6
Sex
22 posts
#7
Struggling
20 posts
#8
Attraction
19 posts
#9
Gender
19 posts
#10
Feminism
13 posts
Flair Used in r/PurplePillDebate
#1
Debate
: "We can’t moralize women’s selection of men, but we somehow moralize men’s inability to be selected."
150 posts
#2
Question For Women
: "Why do some women, especially on Reddit, instantly assume that men who simply vent about dating struggles are entitled to a relationship?"
26 posts
#3
Question For Men
: "Why do Men degrade and insult Women who have sex with them?"
10 posts
#4
Discussion
: "I don’t understand the big deal about going Dutch"
8 posts
#5
Question for RedPill
: "Why do you ask your Partner to do Sex Acts she Does not Like?"
3 posts
#6
Question for BluePill
: "How does feminism fight "the redpill"?"
1 post
Member Growth in r/PurplePillDebate
Yearly
+13k members(9.0%)
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Last updated: June 6, 2026