/r/AskMenRelationships/

r/AskMenRelationships

51k members
r/AskMenRelationships is a subreddit with 51k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses struggling, relationship, boyfriend, dating, and girlfriend.
Relationship advice for dating, romantic, platonic, marital, school, work, family, or even neighborly relationships. Ask men for their advice on relationships.

Popular Themes in r/AskMenRelationships

#1
Advice Requests
: "Ghost Pepper Bj"
58 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "Wife of 18 years broke the "not in the house" rule of our open marriage. Have I overreacted?"
10 posts

Popular Topics in r/AskMenRelationships

#1

Struggling

19 posts
#2

Relationship

19 posts
#3

Boyfriend

7 posts
#4

Dating

4 posts
#5

Girlfriend

3 posts
#6

Male Perspective

3 posts
#7

Support

2 posts
#8

Sexual

2 posts
#9

Settling

1 post
#10

Playboys

1 post

Flair Used in r/AskMenRelationships

#1
Dating
: "How many dates are you willing to wait before having sex? How about if she is at least getting you off anther way?"
56 posts
#2
Love
: "Ghost Pepper Bj"
17 posts
#3
Friendship
: "I'm confused, inexperienced a bit and full of emotions I can't understand."
6 posts
#4
Infidelity
: "Disclosure"
5 posts
#5
Breakup
: "Feeling betrayed and that I was the problem. Heart and brain are arguing about this. Vent."
4 posts
#6
Family
: "Wife of 18 years broke the "not in the house" rule of our open marriage. Have I overreacted?"
3 posts
#7
Platonic
: "can a guy stay platonic with a married woman he likes?"
2 posts
#8
Abusive
: "Why would he do this?"
2 posts
#9
Work
: "Confused"
1 post
#10
Neighbor
: "Guy at the gym following me in a non-creepy way"
1 post

Member Growth in r/AskMenRelationships

Yearly
+32k members(168.7%)

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Last updated: October 28, 2026