r/AskMenRelationships is a subreddit with 35k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses relationship, struggling, trust, attraction, and boundaries.
Relationship advice for dating, romantic, platonic, marital, school, work, family, or even neighborly relationships. Ask men for their advice on relationships.
Popular Themes in r/AskMenRelationships
#1
Advice Requests
: "My (33M) close friendship with another guy is getting awkward after our wives had a falling out – how do I handle this?"
32 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "I(30F) am in a dilemma of not being good enough for someone and being selfish for not caring enough who lost his(31M) parents. Sorry for my English."
5 posts
#3
Solution Requests
: "Gave oral to get money to pay bills, what can I do?"
1 post
#4
Money Talk
: "[18M] My girlfriend [18F] gets mad and feels guilty when I spend money on her. How do I handle this?"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/AskMenRelationships
#1
Relationship
: "situation with my fiancé"
20 posts
#2
Struggling
19 posts
#3
Trust
: "Is my wife gaslighting me?"
10 posts
#4
Attraction
: "Men, how much pubic hair do you expect a woman to have/whats “normal”?"
10 posts
#5
Boundaries
: "Is this normal? or should i be offended?"
8 posts
#6
Boyfriend
7 posts
#7
Cheating
: "Am I being cheated on by my girlfriend?"
7 posts
#8
Jealousy
: "Why do men in relationships stare at other woman?"
7 posts
#9
Mental Health
: "How to navigate moments of weakness?"
6 posts
#10
Intimacy
: "What more does it take for a romantic connection?"
5 posts
Flair Used in r/AskMenRelationships
#1
Dating
: "Expecting the guy to pay for every single date in 2026 is getting completely unreasonable"
130 posts
#2
Love
: "Are men really that simple?"
34 posts
#3
Breakup
: "Men who felt like they lost themselves in a relationship: did leaving actually bring you peace, or were you able to rebuild the relationship?"
11 posts
#4
Friendship
: "My (33M) close friendship with another guy is getting awkward after our wives had a falling out – how do I handle this?"
7 posts
#5
Platonic
: "Men who were the other man"
5 posts
#6
Family
: "Is my wife gay"
4 posts
#7
Infidelity
: "Found secret photos GF has been sending to people online unsure what to do"
4 posts
#8
Abusive
: "Is my wife gaslighting me?"
2 posts
#9
Addiction
: "How to get rid of masturbation?"
1 post
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+19k members(115.7%)
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Last updated: August 1, 2026