r/AskMenRelationships is a subreddit with 40k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses relationship, struggling, partner, boyfriend, and dating.
Relationship advice for dating, romantic, platonic, marital, school, work, family, or even neighborly relationships. Ask men for their advice on relationships.
Popular Themes in r/AskMenRelationships
#1
Advice Requests
: "How do I [M26] stop being insecure over my partner[F26] clothes?"
52 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "I feel like i'm in a fake relationship? (31m/29f)"
7 posts
#3
Money Talk
: "32M 22F what’s a fair way to split 1750$ rent?"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/AskMenRelationships
#1
Relationship
: "I feel like i'm in a fake Relationship? (31m/29f)"
20 posts
#2
Struggling
16 posts
#3
Partner
: "My Partner intentionally didn’t get me lunch, and then used work as an excuse when I got upset — am I overreacting?"
7 posts
#4
Boyfriend
6 posts
#5
Dating
4 posts
#6
Male Perspective
4 posts
#7
Girlfriend
3 posts
#8
Past
: "GF Past effects my mental health"
3 posts
#9
Advice
: "Advice Needed"
3 posts
#10
Women
: "35F, quiet and not very assertive, do men actually want Women like me?"
3 posts
Flair Used in r/AskMenRelationships
#1
Dating
: "Should I consider leaving him for good after he told me I wasn’t the prettiest girl he had been with?"
68 posts
#2
Love
: "I (22M) got really close to a married woman (34F), and now things feel different"
40 posts
#3
Platonic
: "What does it mean when a guy I know sings at me (looking right at me) when I'm near them on a night out, but doesn't dance with me?"
5 posts
#4
Breakup
: "I don’t know what to feel about this"
5 posts
#5
Family
: "I could really use a dad pep talk...."
3 posts
#6
Update
: "So, I'm trying to convince the hot British guy who rejected me to give me one more chance..."
2 posts
#7
Friendship
: "Why did my [30sM] best friend suddenly become cold and distant after I helped him get into college? Is it over?"
2 posts
#8
Work
: "No response to text messages from female work colleague."
1 post
#9
Infidelity
: "Did he proposition me"
1 post
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+23k members(130.5%)
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Last updated: September 2, 2026