r/survivinginfidelity is a subreddit with 321k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses cheating, struggling, relationship, betrayal, and infidelity.
Welcome to Surviving Infidelity.
If you're here, it's because you are surviving, or have survived, infidelity in a relationship that you thought was life-long. This is a support sub, a safe place to ask for advice and guidance on the cognitive, emotional, social, and family effects of infidelity. Regardless of your decision to stay in your relationship or to go, we are here to support you on your path to recovery.
We ask that you please read our sub rules before posting.
Popular Themes in r/survivinginfidelity
#1
Advice Requests
: "Should I reply to her message?"
22 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "Wife had affair with contractor"
21 posts
Popular Topics in r/survivinginfidelity
#1
Cheating
24 posts
#2
Struggling
16 posts
#3
Relationship
8 posts
#4
Betrayal
8 posts
#5
Infidelity
7 posts
#6
Emotional
5 posts
#7
Affair
5 posts
#8
Reconciliation
4 posts
#9
Advice
3 posts
#10
Trust
3 posts
Flair Used in r/survivinginfidelity
#1
Advice
: "Wife had affair with contractor"
67 posts
#2
Need Support
: "I finally grew a spine"
59 posts
#3
Rant
: "Tomorrow will be one year since I had an abortion after my ex husband decided to have an affair during my ivf"
22 posts
#4
Post-Separation
: "I'm so confused by my husbands actions after separation"
9 posts
#5
Progress
: "12 months of healing"
6 posts
#6
Reconciliation
: "Has anyone stayed and actually not regretted doing so?"
3 posts
#7
Building Trust
: "Why can’t I get past this"
2 posts
#8
Meta
: "The Default Advice: "Just Leave""
1 post
Member Growth in r/survivinginfidelity
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+26k members(8.9%)
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Last updated: July 29, 2026