r/survivinginfidelity is a subreddit with 325k members. The community frequently discusses cheating, struggling, betrayal, infidelity, and relationship, and the most common flair used is need support, advice, rant, progress, and post-separation.
Welcome to Surviving Infidelity.
If you're here, it's because you are surviving, or have survived, infidelity in a relationship that you thought was life-long. This is a support sub, a safe place to ask for advice and guidance on the cognitive, emotional, social, and family effects of infidelity. Regardless of your decision to stay in your relationship or to go, we are here to support you on your path to recovery.
We ask that you please read our sub rules before posting.
Popular Topics in r/survivinginfidelity
#1
Cheating
23 posts
#2
Struggling
16 posts
#3
Betrayal
7 posts
#4
Infidelity
6 posts
#5
Relationship
5 posts
#6
Affair
4 posts
#7
Struggle
3 posts
#8
Divorce
3 posts
#9
Emotional
3 posts
#10
Advice
2 posts
Flair Used in r/survivinginfidelity
#1
Need Support
: "Wife living secret life, affair with married coworker. We have a young child."
55 posts
#2
Advice
: "He finally became the husband I wanted after destroying our marriage. What if it’s too late?"
46 posts
#3
Rant
: "Cheats on girls trip. Zero remorse. Shocked we didn’t sleep in same bed the day I found out."
20 posts
#4
Progress
: "I finally has the balls to step up"
6 posts
#5
Post-Separation
: "I feel like I’m cheating"
5 posts
#6
Reconciliation
: "How long did it take to go from “I’m not leaving” to “I’m staying”"
5 posts
#7
Building Trust
: "For those whose WS started off doing all the “right” things…"
2 posts
#8
Therapy
: "Just started therapy and relieved to hear it’s ok to be undecided."
1 post
#9
Meta
: "M25 I _ am new here...."
1 post
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Last updated: September 13, 2026