r/survivinginfidelity is a subreddit with 327k members. The community frequently discusses cheating, struggling, betrayal, infidelity, and relationship, and the most common flair used is need support, advice, rant, post-separation, and reconciliation.
Welcome to Surviving Infidelity.
If you're here, it's because you are surviving, or have survived, infidelity in a relationship that you thought was life-long. This is a support sub, a safe place to ask for advice and guidance on the cognitive, emotional, social, and family effects of infidelity. Regardless of your decision to stay in your relationship or to go, we are here to support you on your path to recovery.
We ask that you please read our sub rules before posting.
Popular Topics in r/survivinginfidelity
#1
Cheating
23 posts
#2
Struggling
16 posts
#3
Betrayal
7 posts
#4
Infidelity
6 posts
#5
Relationship
5 posts
#6
Affair
4 posts
#7
Struggle
3 posts
#8
Divorce
3 posts
#9
Emotional
3 posts
#10
Advice
2 posts
Flair Used in r/survivinginfidelity
#1
Need Support
: "My wife had an affair. Now I am questioning whether any of our 7-year relationship was real."
29 posts
#2
Advice
: "My wife admitted to an emotional affair after months of denials and changing explanations. I’m struggling to know what, if anything, I can still believe."
23 posts
#3
Rant
: "Update - didn't survive"
7 posts
#4
Post-Separation
: "Update 13 months post DDay"
2 posts
#5
Reconciliation
: "How to proceed with our marriage?"
2 posts
#6
Therapy
: "Another update: I think I know why"
1 post
#7
Progress
: "My story - partner had affair after 19 years together"
1 post
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+29k members(9.7%)
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Last updated: October 1, 2026