r/survivinginfidelity is a subreddit with 323k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses cheating, struggling, relationship, hard time, and betrayal.
Welcome to Surviving Infidelity.
If you're here, it's because you are surviving, or have survived, infidelity in a relationship that you thought was life-long. This is a support sub, a safe place to ask for advice and guidance on the cognitive, emotional, social, and family effects of infidelity. Regardless of your decision to stay in your relationship or to go, we are here to support you on your path to recovery.
We ask that you please read our sub rules before posting.
Popular Themes in r/survivinginfidelity
#1
Advice Requests
: "Coparenting after the betrayal"
45 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "I finally learned the truth, and somehow it was even worse than I imagined"
41 posts
Popular Topics in r/survivinginfidelity
#1
Cheating
: "6 months after being cheated and dummoed by my fiancée"
29 posts
#2
Struggling
18 posts
#3
Relationship
: "I don't think the affair just broke my heart I think it changed who I am."
16 posts
#4
Hard Time
12 posts
#5
Betrayal
: "I don't think the affair just broke my heart I think it changed who I am."
12 posts
#6
Infidelity
: "Many years after the Infidelity and poor treatment I’m at a cross roads and not sure the way forward is that clear"
10 posts
#7
Frustration
: "Just need to vent a little"
6 posts
#8
Affair
5 posts
#9
Heartbreak
: "I don't think the affair just broke my heart I think it changed who I am."
4 posts
#10
Emotional
4 posts
Flair Used in r/survivinginfidelity
#1
Advice
: "Wife had an affair with co worker"
64 posts
#2
Need Support
: "I finally learned the truth, and somehow it was even worse than I imagined"
59 posts
#3
Rant
: "Ex’s affair partner dumped him…"
28 posts
#4
Post-Separation
: "I had his baby. He resented me for it and then he cheated."
13 posts
#5
Progress
: "Update: I gave her an ultimatum. She chose me."
11 posts
#6
Reconciliation
: "I ran into my ex wife's affair partner and his wife in a store today."
5 posts
#7
Building Trust
: "How do I trust her again"
2 posts
#8
Therapy
: "How do I deal with it?"
1 post
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Last updated: August 14, 2026