r/survivinginfidelity is a subreddit with 318k members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses cheating, infidelity, relationship, heartbreak, and trust.
Welcome to Surviving Infidelity.
If you're here, it's because you are surviving, or have survived, infidelity in a relationship that you thought was life-long. This is a support sub, a safe place to ask for advice and guidance on the cognitive, emotional, social, and family effects of infidelity. Regardless of your decision to stay in your relationship or to go, we are here to support you on your path to recovery.
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Popular Themes in r/survivinginfidelity
#1
Pain & Anger
: "WH birthday tomorrow. He has planned a sexcapade with his AP over the weekend. Just found out a few hours ago."
50 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "She says she wants counseling, but won’t stop seeing AP"
20 posts
Popular Topics in r/survivinginfidelity
#1
Cheating
: "I (25M) recently broke up with my serial Cheating ex (30F) and wanted to share my story and talk a bit"
159 posts
#2
Infidelity
: "Just found out about my partner’s Infidelity"
81 posts
#3
Relationship
: "Update: she says she wants counseling, but she won’t stop seeing AP"
57 posts
#4
Heartbreak
: "The truth after 15 years but it feels like yesterday"
37 posts
#5
Trust
: "How do you Trust yourself when your partner tries to convince you to forgive them?"
32 posts
#6
Reconciliation
: "My wife only confessed after AP got caught. Can Reconciliation still work when the truth wasn’t voluntary?"
22 posts
#7
Advice
: "Update: she says she wants counseling, but she won’t stop seeing AP"
19 posts
#8
Children
: "Gave Her Another Chance, She had Been talking to a Coworker for Years"
19 posts
#9
Struggling
: "Female, late 20s, Struggling after discovery"
16 posts
#10
Moving On
: "Update after nearly 2 years"
15 posts
Flair Used in r/survivinginfidelity
#1
Need Support
: "My wife, who I have known for 19 years and married for 8 years, I have caught with my best friend."
75 posts
#2
Advice
: "My [31M] 9-year marriage is officially over. The 1-year divorce was legally "easy," but the DNA results were devastating."
52 posts
#3
Rant
: "I left my wife after 14 years – and I’m not sure I was wrong"
39 posts
#4
Progress
: "Wife Cheated in Jamaica Update, Separation"
16 posts
#5
Post-Separation
: "A Small addendum, wife cheated in Jamaica update."
12 posts
#6
Therapy
: "Peace *breathe in. Breathe out”."
2 posts
#7
Meta
: "Sure seems to be a LOT of posts by betrayed men lately...."
1 post
#8
Reconciliation
: "Wife has been cheating on me"
1 post
Member Growth in r/survivinginfidelity
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+25k members(8.4%)
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Last updated: June 15, 2026