r/AsOneAfterInfidelity is a subreddit with 122k members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses reconciliation, infidelity, struggling, betrayal, and emotional, and they frequently recommend/review books/podcasts, medication, and books.
AOAI is an online Peer Support Group and safe space for individuals (betrayed or wayward) who are actively attempting to reconcile after infidelity. _Peer Support is sharing your own personal experiences_, which provides emotional and practical support between people who are reconciling after infidelity. (Observers are strictly limited to messages of support only.) Kindly read the rules before participating.
Popular Themes in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
#1
Pain & Anger
: "I'm losing my mind."
18 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "How to get over the gut punch feeling of them choosing someone else over you?"
15 posts
Popular Topics in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
#1
Reconciliation
: "What does "justice" look like in your Reconciliation process?"
59 posts
#2
Infidelity
: "I think my partners cyber Infidelity has triggered an eating disorder"
44 posts
#3
Struggling
40 posts
#4
Betrayal
: "The trouble of forgetting"
37 posts
#5
Emotional
: "Wife had Emotional affair with her boss"
33 posts
#6
Trust
: "What’s allowed you to rebuild Trust?"
27 posts
#7
Forgiveness
: "How do you live with the permanent loss of what made the marriage feel sacred to you?"
19 posts
#8
Affair
: "WP perspective wanted on sex after physical Affair"
15 posts
#9
Reflection
: "6 months post DDay Reflection"
12 posts
#10
Cheating
: "My husband is shocked that his Cheating might actually have consequences"
11 posts
Products Discussed in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
Books/podcasts
10 reviews
#1
Linda J MacDonald
5.0★ from 2 reviews
#2
Shirley Glass
5.0★ from 2 reviews
#3
Dr Kathy Nickerson
5.0★ from 1 review
Medication
3 reviews
#1
Fluoxetine
2.0★ from 1 review
#2
Sertraline
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Venlafaxine
3.0★ from 1 review
Books
2 reviews
#1
Shirley Glass
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Susan Johnson
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
#1
Reconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed)
: "I'm losing my mind."
78 posts
#2
Advice MUST include examples of your R. Not prescriptive advice.
: "The trouble of forgetting"
46 posts
#3
No advice, just support.
: "My husband is shocked that his cheating might actually have consequences"
39 posts
#4
Betrayed Perspective Only
: "Closure after 20 yrs of numbing"
27 posts
#5
Wayward Perspective Only
: "How did you know you wouldn’t cheat again?"
8 posts
Member Growth in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
Yearly
+17k members(15.7%)
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Last updated: June 29, 2026