r/AsOneAfterInfidelity is a subreddit with 127k members. The community frequently discusses struggling, reconciliation, affair, infidelity, and betrayal, and they frequently recommend/review books/podcasts, medication, and books, and the most common flair used is reconcilers only (other comments auto-removed), advice must include examples of your r. not prescriptive advice., betrayed perspective only, no advice, just support., and wayward perspective only.
AOAI is an online Peer Support Group and safe space for individuals (betrayed or wayward) who are actively attempting to reconcile after infidelity. _Peer Support is sharing your own personal experiences_, which provides emotional and practical support between people who are reconciling after infidelity. (Observers are strictly limited to messages of support only.) Kindly read the rules before participating.
Popular Topics in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
#1
Struggling
25 posts
#2
Reconciliation
13 posts
#3
Affair
11 posts
#4
Infidelity
9 posts
#5
Betrayal
8 posts
#6
Cheating
8 posts
#7
Looking For
7 posts
#8
Dday
7 posts
#9
Support
4 posts
#10
Trust
3 posts
Products Discussed in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
Books/podcasts
10 reviews
#1
Linda J MacDonald
5.0★ from 2 reviews
#2
Shirley Glass
5.0★ from 2 reviews
#3
Dr Kathy Nickerson
5.0★ from 1 review
Medication
3 reviews
#1
Fluoxetine
2.0★ from 1 review
#2
Sertraline
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Venlafaxine
3.0★ from 1 review
Books
2 reviews
#1
Shirley Glass
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Susan Johnson
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
#1
Reconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed)
: "Disappointed"
30 posts
#2
Advice MUST include examples of your R. Not prescriptive advice.
: "Offered a Hall pass, I don't want a damn Hall pass"
27 posts
#3
Betrayed Perspective Only
: "Trickled to wits end"
10 posts
#4
No advice, just support.
: "Finally, a good representation of this situation in a TV series."
7 posts
#5
Wayward Perspective Only
: "My gf cheated and doesn't know I know. I'm considering forgiving her and waiting for her to confess, WP who've cheated, how would you have wanted your partner to handle it?"
3 posts
#6
Farewell, R is over
: "And that’s a wrap to R"
1 post
Member Growth in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
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Last updated: September 30, 2026