r/AsOneAfterInfidelity is a subreddit with 128k members. The community frequently discusses struggling, reconciliation, affair, infidelity, and betrayal, and they frequently recommend/review books/podcasts, medication, and books, and the most common flair used is reconcilers only (other comments auto-removed), advice must include examples of your r. not prescriptive advice., betrayed perspective only, no advice, just support., and wayward perspective only.
AOAI is an online Peer Support Group and safe space for individuals (betrayed or wayward) who are actively attempting to reconcile after infidelity. _Peer Support is sharing your own personal experiences_, which provides emotional and practical support between people who are reconciling after infidelity. (Observers are strictly limited to messages of support only.) Kindly read the rules before participating.
Popular Topics in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
#1
Struggling
25 posts
#2
Reconciliation
13 posts
#3
Affair
11 posts
#4
Infidelity
9 posts
#5
Betrayal
8 posts
#6
Cheating
8 posts
#7
Looking For
7 posts
#8
Dday
7 posts
#9
Support
4 posts
#10
Trust
3 posts
Products Discussed in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
Books/podcasts
10 reviews
#1
Linda J MacDonald
5.0★ from 2 reviews
#2
Shirley Glass
5.0★ from 2 reviews
#3
Dr Kathy Nickerson
5.0★ from 1 review
Medication
3 reviews
#1
Fluoxetine
2.0★ from 1 review
#2
Sertraline
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Venlafaxine
3.0★ from 1 review
Books
2 reviews
#1
Shirley Glass
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Susan Johnson
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
#1
Reconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed)
: "Two years since my wife's affair. I never thought I'd be writing this post."
46 posts
#2
Advice MUST include examples of your R. Not prescriptive advice.
: "Anniversaries and the PTSD"
18 posts
#3
Betrayed Perspective Only
: "Are mornings / waking up the worst for anyone else?"
10 posts
#4
No advice, just support.
: "My husband had an affair throughout my pregnancy, and everyone knew"
5 posts
#5
Wayward Perspective Only
: "Any waywards want to offer some perspective?"
2 posts
#6
Farewell, R is over
: "So long, and thanks for all the fish..."
1 post
#7
Announcement
: "Predatory Therapists"
1 post
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Last updated: October 30, 2026