r/vaginismus
57k members
r/vaginismus is a subreddit with 57k members. The community frequently discusses vaginismus, dilators, pain, struggling, and sex, and they frequently recommend/review lube, menstrual cup, and period underwear, and the most common flair used is seeking support/advice, vent, progress, undiagnosed, and relationship question.
This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus.
We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles.
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Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing with the pain personally.
Popular Topics in r/vaginismus
#1
Vaginismus
183 posts
#2
Dilators
32 posts
#3
Pain
28 posts
#4
Struggling
27 posts
#5
Sex
24 posts
#6
Tired
16 posts
#7
Dilating
12 posts
#8
Hate
10 posts
#9
Botox
9 posts
#10
Success
8 posts
Products Discussed in r/vaginismus
Lube
18 reviews
#1
Slippery Stuff
5.0★ from 7 reviews
#2
One Oasis
4.0★ from 2 reviews
#3
Astroglide
5.0★ from 1 review
Menstrual Cup
5 reviews
#1
Venus Menstrual Cup
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Sunny Cup
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Lumma
4.0★ from 1 review
Period Underwear
3 reviews
#1
Thinx
4.0★ from 2 reviews
#2
Reusable Pads
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/vaginismus
#1
Seeking Support/Advice
: "Penetration is now possible, but not pleasurable"
45 posts
#2
Vent
: "I am wearing a woman costume"
12 posts
#3
Progress
: "Finally feels like I have a vagina"
7 posts
#4
Undiagnosed
: "(TW:CSA) Vaginismus or just a virgjn ?"
5 posts
#5
Relationship Question
: "How did you guys feel about your partners using porn?"
4 posts
#6
Success!
: "Guys I did it!!!!"
3 posts
#7
:snoo_joy: Haha for Hooha (humor)
: "Someone tried to insult me today and i just laughed"
1 post
#8
Dilators
: "How did y’all started your dilator journey?"
1 post
#9
Experience with Doctor / Physical Therapy
: "experience with Vagina Rehab Doctor?"
1 post
#10
Promotional Post
: "Secondary Vaginismus research participation 🩷"
1 post
Member Growth in r/vaginismus
Yearly
+12k members(25.6%)
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Last updated: November 5, 2026