r/vaginismus
55k members
r/vaginismus is a subreddit with 55k members. The community frequently discusses vaginismus, dilators, pain, struggling, and sex, and they frequently recommend/review lube, menstrual cup, and period underwear, and the most common flair used is seeking support/advice, vent, success!, progress, and dilators.
This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus.
We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles.
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Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing with the pain personally.
Popular Topics in r/vaginismus
#1
Vaginismus
183 posts
#2
Dilators
32 posts
#3
Pain
28 posts
#4
Struggling
27 posts
#5
Sex
24 posts
#6
Tired
16 posts
#7
Dilating
12 posts
#8
Hate
10 posts
#9
Botox
9 posts
#10
Success
8 posts
Products Discussed in r/vaginismus
Lube
18 reviews
#1
Slippery Stuff
5.0★ from 7 reviews
#2
One Oasis
4.0★ from 2 reviews
#3
Astroglide
5.0★ from 1 review
Menstrual Cup
5 reviews
#1
Venus Menstrual Cup
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Sunny Cup
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Lumma
4.0★ from 1 review
Period Underwear
3 reviews
#1
Thinx
4.0★ from 2 reviews
#2
Reusable Pads
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/vaginismus
#1
Seeking Support/Advice
: "Thought i had vaginismus, but turns it out is worse. Clarity is scary"
100 posts
#2
Vent
: "devil couldn’t reach me so he made me a freak w vaginismus"
29 posts
#3
Success!
: "Finally had PIV sex!! + Emotional Freedom Technique (Tip 6)"
16 posts
#4
Progress
: "Things that helped me and may help you too"
16 posts
#5
Dilators
: "Dilators to give away"
12 posts
#6
Experience with Doctor / Physical Therapy
: "Vaginal Botox - My experience"
7 posts
#7
Undiagnosed
: "Traumatised after gyno appointment; please help is this vaginismus?"
6 posts
#8
Relationship Question
: "Positive partner stories"
5 posts
#9
Promotional Post
: "“thighs wide shut” by hayley fleming"
4 posts
#10
Partner Post
: "For my anxiously attached girls with Vaginismus"
3 posts
Member Growth in r/vaginismus
Yearly
+11k members(25.2%)
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Last updated: September 11, 2026