r/vaginismus
56k members
r/vaginismus is a subreddit with 56k members. The community frequently discusses vaginismus, dilators, pain, struggling, and sex, and they frequently recommend/review lube, menstrual cup, and period underwear, and the most common flair used is seeking support/advice, success!, vent, dilators, and progress.
This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus.
We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles.
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Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing with the pain personally.
Popular Topics in r/vaginismus
#1
Vaginismus
183 posts
#2
Dilators
32 posts
#3
Pain
28 posts
#4
Struggling
27 posts
#5
Sex
24 posts
#6
Tired
16 posts
#7
Dilating
12 posts
#8
Hate
10 posts
#9
Botox
9 posts
#10
Success
8 posts
Products Discussed in r/vaginismus
Lube
18 reviews
#1
Slippery Stuff
5.0★ from 7 reviews
#2
One Oasis
4.0★ from 2 reviews
#3
Astroglide
5.0★ from 1 review
Menstrual Cup
5 reviews
#1
Venus Menstrual Cup
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Sunny Cup
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Lumma
4.0★ from 1 review
Period Underwear
3 reviews
#1
Thinx
4.0★ from 2 reviews
#2
Reusable Pads
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/vaginismus
#1
Seeking Support/Advice
: "Why can one finger go in but anything bigger feels impossible?"
42 posts
#2
Success!
: "WE HAD SEXXXXXX"
11 posts
#3
Vent
: "Even without PiV, sex is sex!"
10 posts
#4
Dilators
: "How to get past entrance pain? Is that something more than vaginismus?"
7 posts
#5
Progress
: "Had a vaginal birth with vaginismus!!"
4 posts
#6
Experience with Doctor / Physical Therapy
: "I feel so validated"
3 posts
#7
Undiagnosed
: "I think I have vaginismus and I'm not sure what to do about it"
3 posts
#8
Relationship Question
: "Getting into a relationship without sex"
2 posts
#9
:snoo_joy: Haha for Hooha (humor)
: "I wish I knew what vaginismus looked like back in the day"
1 post
#10
Promotional Post
: "Australian ethics approved survey seeks ~50 more participants to improve vaginismus health resource"
1 post
Member Growth in r/vaginismus
Yearly
+12k members(26.0%)
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Last updated: October 2, 2026