r/vaginismus
55k members
r/vaginismus is a subreddit with 55k members. The community frequently discusses vaginismus, dilators, pain, struggling, and sex, and they frequently recommend/review lube, menstrual cup, and period underwear, and the most common flair used is seeking support/advice, vent, success!, dilators, and progress.
This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus.
We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles.
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Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing with the pain personally.
Popular Topics in r/vaginismus
#1
Vaginismus
183 posts
#2
Dilators
32 posts
#3
Pain
28 posts
#4
Struggling
27 posts
#5
Sex
24 posts
#6
Tired
16 posts
#7
Dilating
12 posts
#8
Hate
10 posts
#9
Botox
9 posts
#10
Success
8 posts
Products Discussed in r/vaginismus
Lube
18 reviews
#1
Slippery Stuff
5.0★ from 7 reviews
#2
One Oasis
4.0★ from 2 reviews
#3
Astroglide
5.0★ from 1 review
Menstrual Cup
5 reviews
#1
Venus Menstrual Cup
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Sunny Cup
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Lumma
4.0★ from 1 review
Period Underwear
3 reviews
#1
Thinx
4.0★ from 2 reviews
#2
Reusable Pads
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/vaginismus
#1
Seeking Support/Advice
: "Pelvic floor exercises made me cry?"
65 posts
#2
Vent
: "I'm sick of sex being an ordeal."
13 posts
#3
Success!
: "Update - 2 years later"
9 posts
#4
Dilators
: "does sex actually feel good?"
7 posts
#5
Progress
: "Sex has never been so good"
5 posts
#6
Undiagnosed
: "possible vaginismus"
5 posts
#7
Experience with Doctor / Physical Therapy
: "If you haven’t been officially diagnosed, you should see a gyno because it might not be vaginismus"
4 posts
#8
Relationship Question
: "is it possible to date men if you have vaginismus?"
3 posts
#9
Promotional Post
: "Gynecology instruments"
2 posts
#10
Partner Post
: "Pain when using 2 Fingers"
1 post
Member Growth in r/vaginismus
Yearly
+11k members(25.8%)
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Last updated: September 18, 2026