r/vaginismus
53k members
r/vaginismus is a subreddit with 53k members. The community frequently discusses vaginismus, dilators, pain, struggling, and sex, and they frequently recommend/review lube, menstrual cup, and period underwear, and the most common flair used is seeking support/advice, vent, success!, dilators, and progress.
This subreddit is for those who suffer or have suffered from vaginismus.
We are a community offering support, advice, laughs, and a haven when you need to talk about the struggles.
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Partners and friends of vaginismus sufferers are welcome to join in the discussions, but please keep in mind this is first and foremost a place for those dealing with the pain personally.
Popular Topics in r/vaginismus
#1
Vaginismus
183 posts
#2
Dilators
32 posts
#3
Pain
28 posts
#4
Struggling
27 posts
#5
Sex
24 posts
#6
Tired
16 posts
#7
Dilating
12 posts
#8
Hate
10 posts
#9
Botox
9 posts
#10
Success
8 posts
Products Discussed in r/vaginismus
Lube
18 reviews
#1
Slippery Stuff
5.0★ from 7 reviews
#2
One Oasis
4.0★ from 2 reviews
#3
Astroglide
5.0★ from 1 review
Menstrual Cup
5 reviews
#1
Venus Menstrual Cup
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Sunny Cup
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Lumma
4.0★ from 1 review
Period Underwear
3 reviews
#1
Thinx
4.0★ from 2 reviews
#2
Reusable Pads
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/vaginismus
#1
Seeking Support/Advice
: "For men dating women with vaginismus"
89 posts
#2
Vent
: "Is this thread even safe at this point??"
27 posts
#3
Success!
: "i had sex!!!!"
25 posts
#4
Dilators
: "A short guide to dilating from a sex and relationship counsellor (because I keep seeing posts about"
19 posts
#5
Progress
: "i told my bf i have vaginismus (kind of)"
10 posts
#6
Undiagnosed
: "Is vaginismus worth curing for everyone that has it or can you just ignore it?"
9 posts
#7
Relationship Question
: "My boyfriend has grown resentful because I waited too long to make a doctor’s appointment"
8 posts
#8
Experience with Doctor / Physical Therapy
: "Physical therapist asked if I had a vibrator?"
6 posts
#9
Partner Post
: "We have done it!!"
3 posts
#10
:snoo_joy: Haha for Hooha (humor)
: "why do we have to suffer in order to please men ?"
3 posts
Member Growth in r/vaginismus
Yearly
+11k members(25.0%)
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Last updated: July 25, 2026