r/ActualLesbiansOver25 is a subreddit with 49k members. The community frequently discusses dating, lesbian, advice, relationships, and struggling, and they frequently recommend/review sapphic, travel destinations, and perfumes, and the most common flair used is entertainment.
We're lesbians over 25 who felt like the sub r/ActualLesbians was excellent, inclusive of all WLW, did a good job of enforcing no TERFs, & wanted to replicate that for the 25+ crowd. Simply put, WLW life in adulthood is much different, and as much as we're a part of r/ActualLesbians, we wanted a space where WLW 25+ can discuss more specific 25+ things separate from teens or the younger crowd.
We do NOT tolerate TERFs, anti-trans rhetoric, or any form of bigotry.
Popular Topics in r/ActualLesbiansOver25
#1
Dating
80 posts
#2
Lesbian
38 posts
#3
Advice
28 posts
#4
Relationships
26 posts
#5
Struggling
26 posts
#6
Relationship
25 posts
#7
Lesbians
24 posts
#8
Hard Time
20 posts
#9
Love
19 posts
#10
Breakup
16 posts
Products Discussed in r/ActualLesbiansOver25
Sapphic
48 reviews
Travel Destinations
13 reviews
#1
Portugal
5.0★ from 1 review
#2
Curacao
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Argentina
5.0★ from 1 review
Perfumes
10 reviews
#1
Clinique
5.0★ from 1 review
#2
Zoologist
3.0★ from 1 review
#3
Givenchy
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/ActualLesbiansOver25
#1
entertainment
: "How is everyone?"
1 post
Member Growth in r/ActualLesbiansOver25
Yearly
+17k members(51.5%)
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Last updated: June 2, 2026