r/actuallesbians is a subreddit with 654k members. The community frequently discusses lesbian, looking for a, struggling, relationship, and dating, and they frequently recommend/review sapphic, lesbian book, and perfume, and the most common flair used is venting, image, question, satire/humor, and support.
/r/actuallesbians — a place for cis and trans lesbians, bisexual girls, chicks who like chicks, bi-curious folks, dykes, butches, femmes, girls who kiss girls, birls, bois, aces, anyone in the LGBT+ community, or anyone else interested! We're not a militant or exclusive group, feel free to join up!
Popular Topics in r/actuallesbians
#1
Lesbian
89 posts
#2
Looking For A
43 posts
#3
Struggling
39 posts
#4
Relationship
36 posts
#5
Dating
26 posts
#6
Tired
20 posts
#7
Hate
19 posts
#8
Sapphic
19 posts
#9
Struggles
13 posts
#10
Struggle
13 posts
Products Discussed in r/actuallesbians
Sapphic
98 reviews
#1
Girli
4.0★ from 5 reviews
#2
Tamsyn Muir
5.0★ from 4 reviews
#3
King Princess
4.3★ from 3 reviews
Lesbian Book
81 reviews
#1
Casey McQuiston
5.0★ from 4 reviews
#2
Haley Cass
4.8★ from 4 reviews
#3
Kelly Quindlen
4.7★ from 3 reviews
Perfume
34 reviews
#1
Giorgio Armani
4.7★ from 3 reviews
#2
Maison Margiela
5.0★ from 3 reviews
#3
Yves Saint Laurent
5.0★ from 2 reviews
Flair Used in r/actuallesbians
#1
Venting
: "anti trans lurkers in the sub"
30 posts
#2
Image
: "POV: When straight men truly see lesbians"
29 posts
#3
Question
: "When do I bring up having money while dating?"
28 posts
#4
Satire/Humor
: "I love us ❤️🤭"
18 posts
#5
Support
: "I think i’ve unlocked a new type of loving a women"
17 posts
#6
Link
: "Made these stickers today, really happy with how they turned out"
12 posts
#7
News
: "I haven't seen any discussion going on so far, this needs to be brought to attention. Indonesia is designating LGBT as a "National Security Threat"...In other words, The LGBT in Indonesia are now considered a Capital Offense. In a country with hundreds of millions."
1 post
#8
Text
: "I know I'm a little late to the party but anybody else watching The Pitt??"
1 post
#9
Article
: "homeless or free?"
1 post
Member Growth in r/actuallesbians
Yearly
+77k members(13.4%)
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Last updated: August 1, 2026