r/actuallesbians is a subreddit with 646k members. The community frequently discusses lesbian, looking for a, struggling, relationship, and dating, and they frequently recommend/review sapphic, lesbian book, and perfume, and the most common flair used is image, question, venting, link, and support.
/r/actuallesbians — a place for cis and trans lesbians, bisexual girls, chicks who like chicks, bi-curious folks, dykes, butches, femmes, girls who kiss girls, birls, bois, aces, anyone in the LGBT+ community, or anyone else interested! We're not a militant or exclusive group, feel free to join up!
Popular Topics in r/actuallesbians
#1
Lesbian
89 posts
#2
Looking For A
43 posts
#3
Struggling
39 posts
#4
Relationship
36 posts
#5
Dating
26 posts
#6
Tired
20 posts
#7
Hate
19 posts
#8
Sapphic
19 posts
#9
Struggles
13 posts
#10
Struggle
13 posts
Products Discussed in r/actuallesbians
Sapphic
98 reviews
#1
Girli
4.0★ from 5 reviews
#2
Tamsyn Muir
5.0★ from 4 reviews
#3
King Princess
4.3★ from 3 reviews
Lesbian Book
81 reviews
#1
Casey McQuiston
5.0★ from 4 reviews
#2
Haley Cass
4.8★ from 4 reviews
#3
Kelly Quindlen
4.7★ from 3 reviews
Perfume
34 reviews
#1
Giorgio Armani
4.7★ from 3 reviews
#2
Maison Margiela
5.0★ from 3 reviews
#3
Yves Saint Laurent
5.0★ from 2 reviews
Flair Used in r/actuallesbians
#1
Image
: "Love supporting women no matter what 🏳️🌈🤝🏳️⚧️"
38 posts
#2
Question
: "Lesbian group chats"
36 posts
#3
Venting
: "Im still young and its a little hard for me to control my emotions and urges for other girls."
23 posts
#4
Link
: "Wall Slam"
12 posts
#5
Support
: "Completely destroyed my moms's only copy of a book she wrote that SHE WANTED ME TO READ, depicting gay people as "unnatural"."
11 posts
#6
Satire/Humor
: "Why can't they understand we're non-men loving non-men? 🌈"
9 posts
#7
Text
: "Women's bodies are perfect the way they are"
5 posts
#8
Blog
: "Pressure makes diamonds"
3 posts
Member Growth in r/actuallesbians
Yearly
+73k members(12.8%)
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Last updated: July 1, 2026