r/actuallesbians is a subreddit with 668k members. The community frequently discusses lesbian, looking for a, struggling, relationship, and dating, and they frequently recommend/review sapphic, lesbian book, and perfume, and the most common flair used is question, venting, link, image, and satire/humor.
/r/actuallesbians — a place for cis and trans lesbians, bisexual girls, chicks who like chicks, bi-curious folks, dykes, butches, femmes, girls who kiss girls, birls, bois, aces, anyone in the LGBT+ community, or anyone else interested! We're not a militant or exclusive group, feel free to join up!
Popular Topics in r/actuallesbians
#1
Lesbian
89 posts
#2
Looking For A
43 posts
#3
Struggling
39 posts
#4
Relationship
36 posts
#5
Dating
26 posts
#6
Tired
20 posts
#7
Hate
19 posts
#8
Sapphic
19 posts
#9
Struggles
13 posts
#10
Struggle
13 posts
Products Discussed in r/actuallesbians
Sapphic
98 reviews
#1
Girli
4.0★ from 5 reviews
#2
Tamsyn Muir
5.0★ from 4 reviews
#3
King Princess
4.3★ from 3 reviews
Lesbian Book
81 reviews
#1
Casey McQuiston
5.0★ from 4 reviews
#2
Haley Cass
4.8★ from 4 reviews
#3
Kelly Quindlen
4.7★ from 3 reviews
Perfume
34 reviews
#1
Giorgio Armani
4.7★ from 3 reviews
#2
Maison Margiela
5.0★ from 3 reviews
#3
Yves Saint Laurent
5.0★ from 2 reviews
Flair Used in r/actuallesbians
#1
Question
: "any Philly lesbians who like makeup?"
12 posts
#2
Venting
: "My ex situationship was inconsiderate af re intimacy"
9 posts
#3
Link
: "Do y'all think these pics are okay for this dating app???"
8 posts
#4
Image
: "Was grocery shopping and came across this lil one. My lady likes dolphins and Minecraft so I bought it for her. I’m going to gift it to her during my next visit (LDR)"
5 posts
#5
Satire/Humor
: "bzz bzz bzz ❌ bzzzzz ✅"
5 posts
#6
Support
: "Not sure where to post this"
4 posts
#7
Text
: "Elementary school health class."
1 post
#8
News
: "Tommy is My New Role Model"
1 post
#9
Article
: "Erin Reed Has Been Hiding AI-Generated Text in Her Reporting For Years"
1 post
Member Growth in r/actuallesbians
Yearly
+86k members(14.7%)
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Last updated: October 1, 2026