r/actuallesbians is a subreddit with 637k members. The community frequently discusses lesbian, looking for a, struggling, relationship, and dating, and they frequently recommend/review sapphic, lesbian book, and perfume, and the most common flair used is image, question, venting, link, and support.
/r/actuallesbians — a place for cis and trans lesbians, bisexual girls, chicks who like chicks, bi-curious folks, dykes, butches, femmes, girls who kiss girls, birls, bois, aces, anyone in the LGBT+ community, or anyone else interested! We're not a militant or exclusive group, feel free to join up!
Popular Topics in r/actuallesbians
#1
Lesbian
89 posts
#2
Looking For A
43 posts
#3
Struggling
39 posts
#4
Relationship
36 posts
#5
Dating
26 posts
#6
Tired
20 posts
#7
Hate
19 posts
#8
Sapphic
19 posts
#9
Struggles
13 posts
#10
Struggle
13 posts
Products Discussed in r/actuallesbians
Sapphic
98 reviews
#1
Girli
4.0★ from 5 reviews
#2
Tamsyn Muir
5.0★ from 4 reviews
#3
King Princess
4.3★ from 3 reviews
Lesbian Book
81 reviews
#1
Casey McQuiston
5.0★ from 4 reviews
#2
Haley Cass
4.8★ from 4 reviews
#3
Kelly Quindlen
4.7★ from 3 reviews
Perfume
34 reviews
#1
Giorgio Armani
4.7★ from 3 reviews
#2
Maison Margiela
5.0★ from 3 reviews
#3
Yves Saint Laurent
5.0★ from 2 reviews
Flair Used in r/actuallesbians
#1
Image
: "You can’t make this up yall"
40 posts
#2
Question
: "am i still a lesbian?"
30 posts
#3
Venting
: "She said she liked plushies, bats, and eevee"
29 posts
#4
Link
: "Comic: Do you know the real story of Lia Thomas"
14 posts
#5
Support
: "i’m going to conversion therapy (update from previous post)"
9 posts
#6
Satire/Humor
: "Definition of real Friends 😉"
6 posts
#7
TW
: "My daughter just came out to me"
3 posts
#8
News
: "Dog Mom"
2 posts
#9
CW
: "Vampiric Yearning"
2 posts
#10
Article
: "Man arrested for pulling down trans woman’s skirt in front of children at Ohio amusement park"
1 post
Member Growth in r/actuallesbians
Yearly
+68k members(11.9%)
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Last updated: June 2, 2026