r/AsOneAfterInfidelity is a subreddit with 127k members. The community frequently discusses struggling, reconciliation, affair, infidelity, and betrayal, and they frequently recommend/review books/podcasts, medication, and books, and the most common flair used is reconcilers only (other comments auto-removed), advice must include examples of your r. not prescriptive advice., betrayed perspective only, no advice, just support., and wayward perspective only.
AOAI is an online Peer Support Group and safe space for individuals (betrayed or wayward) who are actively attempting to reconcile after infidelity. _Peer Support is sharing your own personal experiences_, which provides emotional and practical support between people who are reconciling after infidelity. (Observers are strictly limited to messages of support only.) Kindly read the rules before participating.
Popular Topics in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
#1
Struggling
25 posts
#2
Reconciliation
13 posts
#3
Affair
11 posts
#4
Infidelity
9 posts
#5
Betrayal
8 posts
#6
Cheating
8 posts
#7
Looking For
7 posts
#8
Dday
7 posts
#9
Support
4 posts
#10
Trust
3 posts
Products Discussed in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
Books/podcasts
10 reviews
#1
Linda J MacDonald
5.0★ from 2 reviews
#2
Shirley Glass
5.0★ from 2 reviews
#3
Dr Kathy Nickerson
5.0★ from 1 review
Medication
3 reviews
#1
Fluoxetine
2.0★ from 1 review
#2
Sertraline
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Venlafaxine
3.0★ from 1 review
Books
2 reviews
#1
Shirley Glass
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Susan Johnson
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
#1
Reconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed)
: "10+ Years into reconciliation. Should we tell our grown children about my WW’s affair?"
28 posts
#2
Advice MUST include examples of your R. Not prescriptive advice.
: "Friends who supported the affair"
20 posts
#3
Betrayed Perspective Only
: "am i the only one who sometimes want to betray my WP too ..?"
10 posts
#4
No advice, just support.
: "He has too many flaws to me now."
7 posts
#5
Wayward Perspective Only
: "Husbands who have cheated - what does it feel like to know you destroyed your marriage?"
3 posts
Member Growth in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
Yearly
+19k members(17.3%)
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Last updated: October 15, 2026