r/AsOneAfterInfidelity is a subreddit with 124k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses struggling, betrayal, looking for, reconciliation, and infidelity, and they frequently recommend/review books/podcasts, medication, and books.
AOAI is an online Peer Support Group and safe space for individuals (betrayed or wayward) who are actively attempting to reconcile after infidelity. _Peer Support is sharing your own personal experiences_, which provides emotional and practical support between people who are reconciling after infidelity. (Observers are strictly limited to messages of support only.) Kindly read the rules before participating.
Popular Themes in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
#1
Advice Requests
: "I betrayed my husband. How do we move forward?"
15 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "Feeling like I lost everything"
9 posts
Popular Topics in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
#1
Struggling
32 posts
#2
Betrayal
8 posts
#3
Looking For
7 posts
#4
Reconciliation
7 posts
#5
Infidelity
7 posts
#6
Trust
3 posts
#7
Forgiveness
2 posts
#8
Moving Forward
2 posts
#9
Struggle
2 posts
#10
Healing
2 posts
Products Discussed in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
Books/podcasts
10 reviews
#1
Linda J MacDonald
5.0★ from 2 reviews
#2
Shirley Glass
5.0★ from 2 reviews
#3
Dr Kathy Nickerson
5.0★ from 1 review
Medication
3 reviews
#1
Fluoxetine
2.0★ from 1 review
#2
Sertraline
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Venlafaxine
3.0★ from 1 review
Books
2 reviews
#1
Shirley Glass
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Susan Johnson
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
#1
Reconcilers Only (other comments auto-removed)
: "Really wish"
56 posts
#2
Advice MUST include examples of your R. Not prescriptive advice.
: "Feeling like I lost everything"
34 posts
#3
Betrayed Perspective Only
: "Infidelity may have just killed how I view my husband, myself, our past, present, and future."
20 posts
#4
No advice, just support.
: "I was reminded why I don’t track WH anymore…"
13 posts
#5
Wayward Perspective Only
: "WPs - After the affair, have you seen clarity about the AP?"
7 posts
#6
Farewell, R is over
: "I think I’m done"
2 posts
Member Growth in r/AsOneAfterInfidelity
Yearly
+18k members(16.7%)
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Last updated: August 10, 2026