r/datingadvice

35k members
r/datingadvice is a subreddit with 35k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses dating, relationship, struggling, communication, and attraction, and they frequently recommend/review dating app and dating apps.
A subreddit where you can seek advice and get feedback on dating.

Popular Themes in r/datingadvice

#1
Advice Requests
: "My friend said a woman who gives out their number first makes them desperate. Have other people encountered this?"
42 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "He was still seeing another girl when we started dating and didn’t tell me"
2 posts
#3
Solution Requests
: "Where to create an easy Date E-vite?"
1 post

Popular Topics in r/datingadvice

#1

Dating

: "I (24F) am wondering how or when to have a conversation about Dating casually/having sex with other people."
52 posts
#2

Relationship

: "Relationship"
19 posts
#3

Struggling

17 posts
#4

Communication

: "Is it cringe to ask a date about their Communication style?"
15 posts
#5

Attraction

: "M21 Got asked on a date by F30"
6 posts
#6

Feelings

: "am i catching Feelings or is he just attractive"
6 posts
#7

Texting

: "Had a first date, but we’re not Texting?"
5 posts
#8

Anxiety

4 posts
#9

Looking

3 posts
#10

Breakup

3 posts

Products Discussed in r/datingadvice

Dating App

2 reviews
#1
eHarmony
5.0★ from 1 review
#2
Hinge
4.0★ from 1 review

Dating Apps

2 reviews
#1
Coffee Meets Bagel
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Hinge
4.0★ from 1 review

Flair Used in r/datingadvice

#1
I need advice
: "My friend said a woman who gives out their number first makes them desperate. Have other people encountered this?"
70 posts
#2
Advice
: "You will never date someone solely based on looks again after reading this (my experience)"
12 posts

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Yearly
+16k members(87.1%)

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Last updated: September 20, 2026