r/datingadvice

34k members
r/datingadvice is a subreddit with 34k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses dating, relationship, struggling, communication, and anxiety, and they frequently recommend/review dating app and dating apps.
A subreddit where you can seek advice and get feedback on dating.

Popular Themes in r/datingadvice

#1
Advice Requests
: "Do I (28 F) 'cut off' this unready guy (31 M) ?"
70 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "Guy asked for a second date/meeting and then ghosted?"
6 posts

Popular Topics in r/datingadvice

#1

Dating

: "Dating app experiences lately have made me rethink giving strangers my number"
28 posts
#2

Relationship

17 posts
#3

Struggling

17 posts
#4

Communication

4 posts
#5

Anxiety

4 posts
#6

Looking

3 posts
#7

Breakup

3 posts
#8

Flirting

: "Do guys use Flirting as compatability testing?"
3 posts
#9

Hard Time

2 posts
#10

Interest

2 posts

Products Discussed in r/datingadvice

Dating App

2 reviews
#1
eHarmony
5.0 from 1 review
#2
Hinge
4.0 from 1 review

Dating Apps

2 reviews
#1
Coffee Meets Bagel
4.0 from 1 review
#2
Hinge
4.0 from 1 review

Flair Used in r/datingadvice

#1
I need advice
: "I never get compliments or get flirted with"
109 posts
#2
Advice
: "Dating app experiences lately have made me rethink giving strangers my number"
9 posts

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Yearly
+16k members(85.8%)

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Last updated: September 2, 2026