r/AskMen is a subreddit with 7.3M members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses men, relationship, dating, women, and looking for a relationship, and they frequently recommend/review brand, underwear, and undershirts.
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Popular Themes in r/AskMen
#1
Advice Requests
: "Men who have met an amazing woman but felt as if they weren’t “ready” why did you feel that way? How did you handle it?"
9 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "Men's Mental Health Month: Why does society seem so comfortable ignoring men's struggles?"
4 posts
#3
Money Talk
: "How am I supposed to afford biologics? How are people affording them?"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/AskMen
#1
Men
: "Men who have met an amazing woman but felt as if they weren’t “ready” why did you feel that way? How did you handle it?"
53 posts
#2
Relationship
: "Why do so many guys stay in Relationships that they’re not happy in?"
41 posts
#3
Dating
: "25F Dating an overthinker and it's starting to exhaust me. How do you handle this?"
30 posts
#4
Women
18 posts
#5
Looking For A Relationship
16 posts
#6
Relationships
: "25F dating an overthinker and it's starting to exhaust me. How do you handle this?"
15 posts
#7
Looking
13 posts
#8
Sex
: "Anyone here experienced making love with your partner with no romance just purely Sex or lust?"
13 posts
#9
Emotions
: "How many baby daddies/ ex-husbands would a woman have to have, for you to not want to date her?"
10 posts
#10
Partner
8 posts
Products Discussed in r/AskMen
Brand
95 reviews
#1
Under Armour
4.7★ from 6 reviews
#2
Pair of Thieves
4.6★ from 5 reviews
#3
Lululemon
4.0★ from 5 reviews
Underwear
54 reviews
#1
David Archy
4.5★ from 4 reviews
#2
Saxx
4.5★ from 4 reviews
#3
Pair of Thieves
4.7★ from 3 reviews
Undershirts
39 reviews
#1
Stafford
4.0★ from 4 reviews
#2
Hanes
3.7★ from 3 reviews
#3
Pair of Thieves
5.0★ from 3 reviews
Flair Used in r/AskMen
#1
🛑 Answers From Men Only 🛑
: "What could I do for my husband to make him feel special?"
26 posts
#2
Weird Question
: "What is an open secret in your industry that the general public would be shocked to find out?"
10 posts
#3
Good Fucking Question
: "How to form relationships that aren’t shallow?"
2 posts
#4
Holy Shit Who Cares
: "am i the only man who thinks those big hoop earrings are one of the most attractive things women can wear? what do you think"
1 post
#5
Frequently Asked
: "If you could be in your early 30’s again, what would you do different?"
1 post
#6
Existential post
: "What's a skill everyone should learn but most people don't?"
1 post
#7
How do I human?
: "How do i tell my underage cousin I won’t buy him bullets"
1 post
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Last updated: June 4, 2026