r/AskMen is a subreddit with 7.3M members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses frustration, dating, men, worst experiences, and relationship, and they frequently recommend/review boxer briefs, brand, and hand tool.
We're a community for men to discuss men's lived experiences. Or, whatever.
Popular Themes in r/AskMen
#1
Advice Requests
: "What experience do you have where an obstacle became the turning point that changed your life or even created your fortune?"
11 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "How do you deal with the anger of learning a loved one is a victim of SA?"
2 posts
#3
Money Talk
: "What are some things you consider worth the money?"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/AskMen
#1
Frustration
14 posts
#2
Dating
8 posts
#3
Men
8 posts
#4
Worst Experiences
5 posts
#5
Relationship
5 posts
#6
Pain
4 posts
#7
Relationships
3 posts
#8
Women
3 posts
#9
Mental Health
3 posts
#10
Sexual Frustration
2 posts
Products Discussed in r/AskMen
Boxer Briefs
97 reviews
#1
Duluth Trading Co.
4.0★ from 6 reviews
#2
Calvin Klein
3.4★ from 5 reviews
#3
Hanes
4.4★ from 5 reviews
Brand
95 reviews
#1
Under Armour
4.7★ from 6 reviews
#2
Pair of Thieves
4.6★ from 5 reviews
#3
Lululemon
4.0★ from 5 reviews
Hand Tool
56 reviews
#1
DeWalt
5.0★ from 5 reviews
#2
Leatherman
5.0★ from 5 reviews
#3
Milwaukee
5.0★ from 3 reviews
Flair Used in r/AskMen
#1
🛑 Answers From Men Only 🛑
: "How do you see your wives after becoming parents?"
14 posts
#2
Weird Question
: "What’s the biggest animal you think you could beat in a fight, and the smallest animal that you think would beat you in a fight?"
12 posts
#3
Frequently Asked
: "What experience do you have where an obstacle became the turning point that changed your life or even created your fortune?"
2 posts
#4
Good Fucking Question
: "How do you make peace with the fact that life is unfair? Especially to 3rd world country people"
2 posts
#5
How do I human?
: "how exactly did you build your mental fortitude?"
2 posts
#6
We're All Virgins
: "Men who struggled with finishing too quickly in a long-term relationship: what actually helped?"
1 post
#7
High Sodium Content
: "What the actual fuck?"
1 post
#8
Yes
: "What is the nicest random person encounter you’ve had?"
1 post
#9
Literally nothing
: "Do you wish it was more socially acceptable for men to 'crossdress'?"
1 post
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Last updated: August 4, 2026