r/AskMenOver40 is a subreddit with 26k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses age, health, aging, career, and relationships, and they frequently recommend/review shirt and products.
Ask men over 40 about life.
Popular Themes in r/AskMenOver40
#1
Advice Requests
: "42M and coping with the transitional reality of entering my second half of life"
24 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "Gentleman help me sort this out - I’m losing it!"
3 posts
#3
Solution Requests
: "Best multivitamin for men over 40 for low energy and brain fog?"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/AskMenOver40
#1
Age
: "42M and coping with the transitional reality of entering my second half of life"
17 posts
#2
Health
: "Fitness and Health Maintenance when life gets too busy- looking for tips/strategy"
16 posts
#3
Aging
: "what do guys have to deal with physically when they age?"
15 posts
#4
Career
: "If you had the option to re-do your Career trajectory, would you pick a better work-life balance or more money?"
13 posts
#5
Relationships
: "Is going to a strip club worth losing your relationship"
11 posts
#6
Men
9 posts
#7
Parenting
: "Fathers of adult children: should I save every handmade item my children give me?"
8 posts
#8
Advice
: "What is some Advice you would give to yourself before your first child was born?"
7 posts
#9
Life
: "42M and coping with the transitional reality of entering my second half of Life"
5 posts
#10
Fitness
: "Fitness and Health Maintenance when life gets too busy- looking for tips/strategy"
5 posts
Products Discussed in r/AskMenOver40
Flair Used in r/AskMenOver40
#1
General
: "Turning 44 and I'm struggling with the sad drift of my life. How have you navigated past this?"
60 posts
#2
Medical & mental health experiences
: "How did you handle the slow decline/death of your parents?"
32 posts
#3
Community Chat
: "Am I the only one struggling with the feeling that I’ve outgrown my friends?"
14 posts
#4
Relationships/dating
: "Is going to a strip club worth losing your relationship"
9 posts
#5
Career Jobs Work
: "Switching careers in your 40s. Anyone else thinking of this or has done it?"
8 posts
#6
Financial experiences
: "Anyone made an effort to downsize your life?"
2 posts
#7
Legal experiences
: "Dealing with the estate of a passed family member - guns and more!"
1 post
#8
Handyman/mechanic/other skills
: "When did the term gooning start becoming the accepted terminology"
1 post
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Last updated: June 30, 2026