r/AskMenRelationships is a subreddit with 42k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses struggling, relationship, boyfriend, dating, and male perspective.
Relationship advice for dating, romantic, platonic, marital, school, work, family, or even neighborly relationships. Ask men for their advice on relationships.
Popular Themes in r/AskMenRelationships
#1
Advice Requests
: "How do guys ‘test the waters’ to see if she feels the same way?"
62 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "Six years after my wife’s affair, I found her diary describing how big the other guy’s dick was. I think I’m done and want a divorce."
4 posts
#3
Money Talk
: "Been with my boyfriend for a year and he hates spending money, I’m not sure if it will work long term."
1 post
Popular Topics in r/AskMenRelationships
#1
Struggling
15 posts
#2
Relationship
13 posts
#3
Boyfriend
: "Been with my Boyfriend for a year and he hates spending money, I’m not sure if it will work long term."
9 posts
#4
Dating
4 posts
#5
Male Perspective
4 posts
#6
Girlfriend
3 posts
#7
Marriage Doubts
: "I can't get over how quickly my 27F girlfriend became sexually intimate with 36M me, and after 1 yaer and 3months it's making me question marriage , do you think I should marry her?"
3 posts
#8
Support
2 posts
#9
Past
2 posts
#10
Sexual
2 posts
Flair Used in r/AskMenRelationships
#1
Dating
: "Men get the “he’s using you for sex” stigma so quick. What are the real signs it’s more (or not)?"
101 posts
#2
Love
: "How do guys ‘test the waters’ to see if she feels the same way?"
54 posts
#3
Friendship
: "Is it disrespectful if a girl leaves her male friend on read for several hours (and is online fairly often), even though they had plans to meet? I’m autistic."
8 posts
#4
Infidelity
: "I 18 M got cheated on by 18 F"
6 posts
#5
Breakup
: "He moved on before I even moved out"
5 posts
#6
Platonic
: "Men over 30 are you sometimes rude to women you genuinely do not like?"
4 posts
#7
Work
: "Men, what’s your read on this? Friendly, touch guy vs low key flirting, showing interest?"
4 posts
#8
Adversarial
: "Gf(23F) has friend (35M) who disrespected me (27M) Question of loyalty"
3 posts
#9
Update
: "I feel like life has no point! Just at this point a career, travel, a family, friends, university, relationships, romance?"
2 posts
#10
Addiction
: "Should I assume that I am correct and he has zero feelings for me even after 6 years?"
1 post
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Last updated: September 7, 2026