r/AskMenRelationships is a subreddit with 30k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses relationship, men, dating, communication, and advice.
Relationship advice for dating, romantic, platonic, marital, school, work, family, or even neighborly relationships. Ask men for their advice on relationships.
Popular Themes in r/AskMenRelationships
#1
Advice Requests
: "Men of Reddit, what do you love about your wife/girlfriend?"
54 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "Why Did I Let Myself Be Used Like This? A Story I Need to Get Off My Chest"
5 posts
Popular Topics in r/AskMenRelationships
#1
Relationship
: "Is it true men don’t want a Relationship with women who have kids?"
164 posts
#2
Men
: "Do Men learn how to have sex from their male friends? Honest question."
72 posts
#3
Dating
: "3 months into Dating someone, feeling friend vibes vs more romantic - possible to save?"
43 posts
#4
Communication
: "He (30M) made a comment about C-sections and scars and I (27F) broke up with him. Did I do the right thing?"
37 posts
#5
Advice
: "Neurodivergent male looking for Advice on how to interpret this"
26 posts
#6
Breakup
: "Loosing my mind after Breakup"
22 posts
#7
Love
: "My GF is great but i don’t feel in Love, how to handle?"
22 posts
#8
Struggling
20 posts
#9
Attraction
: "Why does Attraction sometimes seem to "click" instantly for men?"
16 posts
#10
Boyfriend
: "Why does my Boyfriend always want to touch me?"
15 posts
Flair Used in r/AskMenRelationships
#1
Dating
: "Why do men say that it’s easy for the average woman to get dates compared to the average man?"
102 posts
#2
Love
: "What keeps men invested, happy, and wanting to stay married for the long haul (beyond the physical)"
65 posts
#3
Breakup
: "I don’t know if not the majority but as a man the biggest turn off in a spouse or girlfriend relationship is the drama about anything and everything, It’s exhausting."
12 posts
#4
Friendship
: "My best friend of 10+ years has apparently been in love with me this whole time. I confronted him, he walked out, and now things are heavy. How do I navigate this?"
7 posts
#5
Family
: "Is it true men don’t want a relationship with women who have kids?"
5 posts
#6
Platonic
: "What would you think of this situation? Is this normal or a red flag?"
4 posts
#7
Infidelity
: "Hi, first time posting."
3 posts
#8
Addiction
: "In relationships , do you still see your partner as “the most attractive person “or does that feeling change over time ?"
1 post
#9
Work
: "If a guy stares at me, alot...."
1 post
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Last updated: June 15, 2026