/r/dating_advice/

r/dating_advice

4.8M members
r/dating_advice is a subreddit with 4.8M members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses dating, relationship, struggling, advice, and girlfriend, and they frequently recommend/review dating app, dating apps, and website recommendations.
this sub is for advice about specific dating situations not general debates. posts about relationships longer than 6 months post go to r/relationship_advice or if you are married post to r/marriage

Popular Themes in r/dating_advice

#1
Advice Requests
: "Confused mixed signals"
20 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "she is too cold and it is destroying me"
6 posts
#3
Money Talk
: "29M, 28F, married for 5 years. Who should be responsible for household expenses?"
1 post

Popular Topics in r/dating_advice

#1

Dating

32 posts
#2

Relationship

21 posts
#3

Struggling

19 posts
#4

Advice

9 posts
#5

Girlfriend

5 posts
#6

Looking For A Genuine Connection

4 posts
#7

Tired

4 posts
#8

Looking For A Friend

3 posts
#9

Confusion

3 posts
#10

Relationships

3 posts

Products Discussed in r/dating_advice

Dating App

38 reviews
#1
Hinge
4.3 from 19 reviews
#2
Bumble
3.7 from 6 reviews
#3
Facebook Dating
4.8 from 4 reviews

Dating Apps

26 reviews
#1
Hinge
4.6 from 9 reviews
#2
Feeld
3.5 from 4 reviews
#3
Tinder
3.5 from 4 reviews
#1
YouTube
5.0 from 3 reviews
#2
Meetup
5.0 from 1 review

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Yearly
+202k members(4.4%)

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Last updated: July 10, 2026