r/DeadBedrooms
577k members
r/DeadBedrooms is a subreddit with 577k members. The community frequently discusses relationship, intimacy, dead bedroom, sex, and looking for, and they frequently recommend/review romance novels, and the most common flair used is vent, advice welcome, support only, no advice, seeking advice, support and advice welcome, and positive progress post.
Support group for Redditors who are in a relationship with sex generally ten times a year or less and one or both partners are unhappy with it. This is a safe place for members of all backgrounds and libido levels to come together for community & support. Comments are to be delivered with compassion and tact. Please review our wiki for a comprehensive breakdown on our rules and community resources.
Popular Topics in r/DeadBedrooms
#1
Relationship
61 posts
#2
Intimacy
48 posts
#3
Dead Bedroom
29 posts
#4
Sex
29 posts
#5
Looking For
23 posts
#6
Sex Life
23 posts
#7
Hard
16 posts
#8
Time
15 posts
#9
Struggling
14 posts
#10
Loneliness
14 posts
Products Discussed in r/DeadBedrooms
Romance Novels
7 reviews
#1
Fanny Hill
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Regency
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Laura Kinsale
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/DeadBedrooms
#1
Vent, Advice Welcome
: "I agreed to take all pressure off of sex and to never initiate"
68 posts
#2
Support Only, No Advice
: "Shot down in flames"
21 posts
#3
Seeking Advice
: "Together 6 years, married 2. Wife confessed she deliberately suppressed her sex drive the entire relationship because “she never thought I’d leave.” Moving out in 2 weeks."
20 posts
#4
Support and Advice Welcome
: "Something I recently heard in therapy that I think a lot of us hear can benefit from."
19 posts
#5
Positive Progress Post
: "I did it"
10 posts
#6
Relationship Ended or Ending
: "She laughed in my face."
10 posts
#7
Success Story
: "My experience finding greener grass"
3 posts
#8
Trigger warning- adultery
: "My husband has ignored me for 8+ years now my ex has reached out."
3 posts
#9
Seeking Advice- From HL
: "Has anyone considered cheating or actually went through with it?"
3 posts
#10
Give Me Constructive Criticism
: "Gents, has your ED set you free?"
2 posts
Member Growth in r/DeadBedrooms
Yearly
+65k members(12.7%)
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Last updated: July 13, 2026