r/DeadBedrooms
599k members
r/DeadBedrooms is a subreddit with 599k members. The community frequently discusses relationship, intimacy, dead bedroom, sex, and looking for, and they frequently recommend/review romance novels, and the most common flair used is seeking advice, vent, advice welcome, support and advice welcome, positive progress post, and support only, no advice.
Support group for Redditors who are in a relationship with sex generally ten times a year or less & one/both partners are unhappy with it. This is a safe place for members of all backgrounds & libido levels to come together for community & support. Constructive comments should be delivered with compassion & tact. Please review our wiki for a comprehensive breakdown on our rules & community resources.
Popular Topics in r/DeadBedrooms
#1
Relationship
61 posts
#2
Intimacy
48 posts
#3
Dead Bedroom
29 posts
#4
Sex
29 posts
#5
Looking For
23 posts
#6
Sex Life
23 posts
#7
Hard
16 posts
#8
Time
15 posts
#9
Struggling
14 posts
#10
Loneliness
14 posts
Products Discussed in r/DeadBedrooms
Romance Novels
7 reviews
#1
Fanny Hill
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Regency
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Laura Kinsale
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/DeadBedrooms
#1
Seeking Advice
: "Did losing weight and getting in shape help anyone here?"
26 posts
#2
Vent, Advice Welcome
: "just sad how few times i've been eaten out in life"
12 posts
#3
Support and Advice Welcome
: "I've stopped dreaming of him."
7 posts
#4
Positive Progress Post
: "My Therapist changed everything for me."
6 posts
#5
Support Only, No Advice
: "Db for almost my entire adult life, hit a new low this week"
3 posts
#6
NO DMs. Violations will be reported.
: "Blowing up my life today."
2 posts
#7
Seeking Advice- From HL
: "Boyfriend doesn’t “view me sexually”… am I heading towards a DB?"
2 posts
#8
Trigger warning- adultery
: "My wife cheated on me on my birthday after years of DB"
2 posts
#9
Relationship Ended or Ending
: "UPDATE: I think my marriage might be ending, and I’m heartbroken. (25HLF, 31LLM)"
1 post
#10
Seeking Advice- From LL
: "LLM - question for you"
1 post
Member Growth in r/DeadBedrooms
Yearly
+75k members(14.4%)
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Last updated: November 5, 2026