r/DeadBedrooms
588k members
r/DeadBedrooms is a subreddit with 588k members. The community frequently discusses relationship, intimacy, dead bedroom, sex, and looking for, and they frequently recommend/review romance novels, and the most common flair used is vent, advice welcome, seeking advice, support and advice welcome, support only, no advice, and relationship ended or ending.
Support group for Redditors who are in a relationship with sex generally ten times a year or less & one/both partners are unhappy with it. This is a safe place for members of all backgrounds & libido levels to come together for community & support. Constructive comments should be delivered with compassion & tact. Please review our wiki for a comprehensive breakdown on our rules & community resources.
Popular Topics in r/DeadBedrooms
#1
Relationship
61 posts
#2
Intimacy
48 posts
#3
Dead Bedroom
29 posts
#4
Sex
29 posts
#5
Looking For
23 posts
#6
Sex Life
23 posts
#7
Hard
16 posts
#8
Time
15 posts
#9
Struggling
14 posts
#10
Loneliness
14 posts
Products Discussed in r/DeadBedrooms
Romance Novels
7 reviews
#1
Fanny Hill
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Regency
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Laura Kinsale
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/DeadBedrooms
#1
Vent, Advice Welcome
: "I'm unable to initiate"
55 posts
#2
Seeking Advice
: "Fetish(CD) killed the bedroom"
39 posts
#3
Support and Advice Welcome
: "At least I know what it takes now"
22 posts
#4
Support Only, No Advice
: "Almost 7 years without intimacy and I think I’m reaching my limit"
9 posts
#5
Relationship Ended or Ending
: "He asked for a divorce."
5 posts
#6
Seeking Advice- From LL
: "I can't bring myself to have sex with him anymore"
5 posts
#7
Success Story
: "We had sex!!"
4 posts
#8
Positive Progress Post
: "Responsive desire"
3 posts
#9
Trigger warning- adultery
: "update: he was cheating"
3 posts
#10
Trigger Warning!
: "Am I being unreasonable? High libido but it's being obliterated. (M55) (35F)"
2 posts
Member Growth in r/DeadBedrooms
Yearly
+71k members(13.7%)
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Last updated: September 7, 2026