r/DeadBedrooms
583k members
r/DeadBedrooms is a subreddit with 583k members. The community frequently discusses relationship, intimacy, dead bedroom, sex, and looking for, and they frequently recommend/review romance novels, and the most common flair used is vent, advice welcome, seeking advice, support and advice welcome, support only, no advice, and relationship ended or ending.
Support group for Redditors who are in a relationship with sex generally ten times a year or less & one/both partners are unhappy with it. This is a safe place for members of all backgrounds & libido levels to come together for community & support. Constructive comments should be delivered with compassion & tact. Please review our wiki for a comprehensive breakdown on our rules & community resources.
Popular Topics in r/DeadBedrooms
#1
Relationship
61 posts
#2
Intimacy
48 posts
#3
Dead Bedroom
29 posts
#4
Sex
29 posts
#5
Looking For
23 posts
#6
Sex Life
23 posts
#7
Hard
16 posts
#8
Time
15 posts
#9
Struggling
14 posts
#10
Loneliness
14 posts
Products Discussed in r/DeadBedrooms
Romance Novels
7 reviews
#1
Fanny Hill
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Regency
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Laura Kinsale
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/DeadBedrooms
#1
Vent, Advice Welcome
: "I don’t think dead bedrooms are about sex"
52 posts
#2
Seeking Advice
: "Does anyone else still make up scenarios in their head"
42 posts
#3
Support and Advice Welcome
: "Realization"
19 posts
#4
Support Only, No Advice
: "Anyone else extremely jealous"
16 posts
#5
Relationship Ended or Ending
: "I'm done - I've left, and her words during the breakup said it all."
6 posts
#6
Success Story
: "Posting in case it helps: how my wife and I fixed our intimacy/libido gap"
6 posts
#7
Positive Progress Post
: "We finally had sex!"
5 posts
#8
Seeking Advice- From HL
: "Had a conversation about one sided pleasure"
3 posts
#9
Trigger Warning!
: "Empty promises on a Saturday night."
2 posts
#10
Seeking Advice- From LL
: "I am aroused by husband’s physical touch - but I rarely initiate"
2 posts
Member Growth in r/DeadBedrooms
Yearly
+68k members(13.2%)
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Last updated: August 14, 2026