r/WhatDoISayNow is a subreddit with 7k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses advice, relationship, communication, friendship, and conflict.
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Popular Themes in r/WhatDoISayNow
#1
Advice Requests
: "My teacher might have a crush on me"
55 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "Working with a bad man"
14 posts
#3
Solution Requests
: "Best IPTV for UK & Germany 2025 – Premium Quality at the Best Price"
1 post
#4
Money Talk
: "my brother just got a check and could only spare 40$"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/WhatDoISayNow
#1
Advice
: "What do I do about my friend who I feel like is taking advantage of me?"
66 posts
#2
Relationship
: "Is this a bad Relationship? What do I do?"
66 posts
#3
Communication
: "What did I do wrong?"
53 posts
#4
Friendship
: "What do I do about my friend who I feel like is taking advantage of me?"
46 posts
#5
Conflict
: "sister is canceling a party because i said the theme she chose was cruel"
32 posts
#6
Family
: "sister is canceling a party because i said the theme she chose was cruel"
32 posts
#7
Confusion
: ""I miss you! ""
24 posts
#8
Help
: "My bf’s dead wife’s birthday is today and idk what to do to Help him"
16 posts
#9
Work
: "my boss (almost ex boss) wants me to let him stay at my apartment and I worry getting into an issue with him by explaining why I don't want him there anymore "
10 posts
#10
Emotions
: "What did I do wrong?"
10 posts
Flair Used in r/WhatDoISayNow
#1
Friendship
: "Oh God I accidentally sounded like a homophobe, help"
10 posts
#2
Relationship
: "Everything has been said"
6 posts
#3
Death
: "My dad, 2nd RTR during the Dhofar War. What tank is he commanding?"
6 posts
#4
Other
: "What do I write to my dean of students?"
6 posts
#5
Crush
: "my boy bsf of 3 years is giving me mixed signals"
5 posts
#6
Breakup
: "I hurt someone I didn’t expect to love "
2 posts
#7
Depression
: "I lied about my result to my friends now force to say my real result what should I do"
2 posts
#8
Sexuality
: "Her parents saw the video"
1 post
Member Growth in r/WhatDoISayNow
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+214 members(3.0%)
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Last updated: August 29, 2026