r/AskMen is a subreddit with 7.4M members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and money talk, and the community frequently discusses men, dating, worst experiences, pain, and relationships, and they frequently recommend/review boxer briefs, brand, and hand tool.
We're a community for men to discuss men's lived experiences. Or, whatever.
Popular Themes in r/AskMen
#1
Pain & Anger
: "I’ve(32m) reached an end with consumerism. What to replace that dopamine with after it’s been my only source?"
1 post
#2
Money Talk
: "How to not feel like a loser when not financially stable at 31 !"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/AskMen
#1
Men
6 posts
#2
Dating
5 posts
#3
Worst Experiences
4 posts
#4
Pain
3 posts
#5
Relationships
3 posts
#6
Women
3 posts
#7
Worst
3 posts
#8
Sex
2 posts
#9
Health
1 post
#10
Self Improvement
1 post
Products Discussed in r/AskMen
Boxer Briefs
97 reviews
#1
Duluth Trading Co.
4.0★ from 6 reviews
#2
Calvin Klein
3.4★ from 5 reviews
#3
Hanes
4.4★ from 5 reviews
Brand
95 reviews
#1
Under Armour
4.7★ from 6 reviews
#2
Pair of Thieves
4.6★ from 5 reviews
#3
Lululemon
4.0★ from 5 reviews
Hand Tool
56 reviews
#1
DeWalt
5.0★ from 5 reviews
#2
Leatherman
5.0★ from 5 reviews
#3
Milwaukee
5.0★ from 3 reviews
Flair Used in r/AskMen
#1
🛑 Answers From Men Only 🛑
: "Dad's and the like, what was it like to see your child being born?"
9 posts
#2
Weird Question
: "How often do you develop a crush on someone based on their competence or personality rather than physical appearance?"
6 posts
#3
Frequently Asked
: "How do you feel during no contact, and why did you decide to do it?"
3 posts
#4
Good Fucking Question
: "I’ve(32m) reached an end with consumerism. What to replace that dopamine with after it’s been my only source?"
2 posts
#5
Literal Shitpost
: "Would you visit sexworker with butterface if she had good body?"
1 post
#6
Existential post
: "How do I know if a guy likes me?"
1 post
#7
How do I human?
: "How to overcome emotional distance during sex?"
1 post
Member Growth in r/AskMen
Yearly
+299k members(4.2%)
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Last updated: September 20, 2026