/r/AskMen/

r/AskMen

7.3M members
r/AskMen is a subreddit with 7.3M members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and solution requests, and the community frequently discusses men, dating, relationship, time, and women, and they frequently recommend/review boxer briefs, brand, and hand tool.
We're a community for men to discuss men's lived experiences. Or, whatever.

Popular Themes in r/AskMen

#1
Advice Requests
: "For men that always did the bare minimum in their life, how has it effected you today?"
15 posts
#2
Solution Requests
: "I'm setting up a gym in my garage next week. What extras can I add in to make the space awesome? This can be for luxury reasons or practicality reasons."
1 post
#3
Pain & Anger
: "Every barber I go to seems to stop caring after the first cut. What’s going on?"
1 post
#4
Money Talk
: "What is something you spent a lot of money on but regret it now?"
1 post

Popular Topics in r/AskMen

#1

Men

: "Men, if you ask a woman out for drinks, is it ever just "as a friend"?"
75 posts
#2

Dating

: "For those who casually date, how do you not worry about sexual health or getting your partner pregnant?"
35 posts
#3

Relationship

: "Gentlemen, what’s something you didn’t realize you needed in a Relationship until someone actually did it?"
35 posts
#4

Time

31 posts
#5

Women

: "What are your thoughts on married Women wearing thong bikinis at public pools?"
23 posts
#6

Looking For A Relationship

16 posts
#7

Looking

13 posts
#8

Sex

: "How common is it to not be that interested in the the purely physical aspects of Sex?"
13 posts
#9

Frustrating

12 posts
#10

Relationships

: "Men of reddit in Relationships, why is it so hard for you to do anything else except work and workout?"
11 posts

Products Discussed in r/AskMen

Boxer Briefs

97 reviews
#1
Duluth Trading Co.
4.0 from 6 reviews
#2
Calvin Klein
3.4 from 5 reviews
#3
Hanes
4.4 from 5 reviews

Brand

95 reviews
#1
Under Armour
4.7 from 6 reviews
#2
Pair of Thieves
4.6 from 5 reviews
#3
Lululemon
4.0 from 5 reviews

Hand Tool

56 reviews
#1
DeWalt
5.0 from 5 reviews
#2
Leatherman
5.0 from 5 reviews
#3
Milwaukee
5.0 from 3 reviews

Flair Used in r/AskMen

#1
🛑 Answers From Men Only 🛑
: "Men over 6' tall, how much do you weigh?"
26 posts
#2
Weird Question
: "For those who casually date, how do you not worry about sexual health or getting your partner pregnant?"
8 posts
#3
Good Fucking Question
: "what is something you spent a lot of money on but don't regret it at all?"
3 posts
#4
Existential post
: "How do you appreciate your parents while they're still here?"
3 posts
#5
Frequently Asked
: "What is something that society deems to be “unmanly”, but you don’t care, and you do it anyway?"
2 posts
#6
Men, amirite?
: "Why don’t men dress sexy?"
2 posts
#7
Holy Shit Who Cares
: "Would you want to work at the same place as your wife? Why/why not?"
1 post

Member Growth in r/AskMen

Yearly
+336k members(4.8%)

Similar Subreddits to r/AskMen

/r/Advice

r/Advice

3.0M members
36.2% / yr
/r/AskMenRelationships

r/AskMenRelationships

31k members
100.3% / yr

r/christiandatingadvice

10k members
73.3% / yr
/r/dating

r/dating

6.2M members
0.8% / yr
/r/Kenya

r/Kenya

293k members
31.0% / yr
/r/relationships

r/relationships

3.7M members
3.5% / yr
/r/SingleWomenByChoice

r/SingleWomenByChoice

14k members
146.4% / yr
/r/teenagers

r/teenagers

3.6M members
11.1% / yr
/r/TwoXIndia

r/TwoXIndia

364k members
6.4% / yr

r/WomenOver40

21k members
135.4% / yr

About

GummySearch helps people research Reddit communities by organizing activity, growth, themes, and post-level signals into one place.

This page gives a focused view of r/AskMen, including current member size, discussion patterns, product reviews, and related communities to explore.

This data is synced periodically so insights stay current and useful for ongoing research.

Last updated: June 26, 2026