r/abusiverelationships is a subreddit with 146k members. The community frequently discusses abuse, relationship, abusive relationship, struggling, and leave, and the most common flair used is support request, healing and recovery, emotional abuse, trigger warning, and domestic violence.
For anyone of any gender identity who has ever been in an abusive relationship or is currently in one. This is a place for people to vent, share their stories and offer support to others in similar situations. Anyone who has experienced an abusive situation or relationship is welcome - that includes romantic, intimate, sexual, spousal, coworker, family, and/or friendship relationships.
Popular Topics in r/abusiverelationships
#1
Abuse
93 posts
#2
Relationship
74 posts
#3
Abusive Relationship
58 posts
#4
Struggling
39 posts
#5
Leave
17 posts
#6
Ex
16 posts
#7
Hate
15 posts
#8
Emotional Abuse
14 posts
#9
Help
13 posts
#10
Abuser
13 posts
Flair Used in r/abusiverelationships
#1
Support request
: "Finally called the cops"
19 posts
#2
Healing and recovery
: "Eventually, you will make it out of this."
14 posts
#3
Emotional abuse
: ""You just need to communicate better""
14 posts
#4
TRIGGER WARNING
: "I finally left"
12 posts
#5
Domestic violence
: "Last straw"
12 posts
#6
Just venting
: "Something is wrong with my partner"
7 posts
#7
Sexual violence
: "Am I crazy? I'm seriously so in denial is this a positive?"
3 posts
#8
Yes, I've read "Why Does He Do That"
: "Can They Actually Change?"
3 posts
#9
Help maintaining no-contact
: "I cant leave this trauma bond and need help"
2 posts
#10
Gaslighting
: "I’m so trapped"
2 posts
Member Growth in r/abusiverelationships
Yearly
+23k members(18.7%)
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Last updated: June 30, 2026