r/abusiverelationships is a subreddit with 144k members. The community frequently discusses abuse, relationship, abusive relationship, struggling, and leave, and the most common flair used is domestic violence, trigger warning, emotional abuse, support request, and healing and recovery.
For anyone of any gender identity who has ever been in an abusive relationship or is currently in one. This is a place for people to vent, share their stories and offer support to others in similar situations. Anyone who has experienced an abusive situation or relationship is welcome - that includes romantic, intimate, sexual, spousal, coworker, family, and/or friendship relationships.
Popular Topics in r/abusiverelationships
#1
Abuse
93 posts
#2
Relationship
74 posts
#3
Abusive Relationship
58 posts
#4
Struggling
39 posts
#5
Leave
17 posts
#6
Ex
16 posts
#7
Hate
15 posts
#8
Emotional Abuse
14 posts
#9
Help
13 posts
#10
Abuser
13 posts
Flair Used in r/abusiverelationships
#1
Domestic violence
: "He was convicted today!"
16 posts
#2
TRIGGER WARNING
: "Am I being sexually abused by my mom"
14 posts
#3
Emotional abuse
: "Nothing like some time away to look back in horror at what I dealt with on a daily basis"
14 posts
#4
Support request
: "Pray for me yall!!"
9 posts
#5
Healing and recovery
: "first non-essential item i bought for myself after leaving an abusive relationship :)"
8 posts
#6
Just venting
: "When they get offended that you're scared of them"
7 posts
#7
Sexual violence
: "My husband r*ped me and beat me"
2 posts
#8
Update
: "He’s flipping it onto me"
2 posts
#9
Help maintaining no-contact
: "Finally breaking the cycle and learning my lesson to not date religious men with different beliefs to mine"
2 posts
#10
Gaslighting
: "Bf paying for head"
1 post
Member Growth in r/abusiverelationships
Yearly
+22k members(17.8%)
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Last updated: June 2, 2026