r/abusiverelationships is a subreddit with 148k members. The community frequently discusses abuse, relationship, abusive relationship, struggling, and leave, and the most common flair used is emotional abuse, support request, domestic violence, just venting, and trigger warning.
For anyone of any gender identity who has ever been in an abusive relationship or is currently in one. This is a place for people to vent, share their stories and offer support to others in similar situations. Anyone who has experienced an abusive situation or relationship is welcome - that includes romantic, intimate, sexual, spousal, coworker, family, and/or friendship relationships.
Popular Topics in r/abusiverelationships
#1
Abuse
93 posts
#2
Relationship
74 posts
#3
Abusive Relationship
58 posts
#4
Struggling
39 posts
#5
Leave
17 posts
#6
Ex
16 posts
#7
Hate
15 posts
#8
Emotional Abuse
14 posts
#9
Help
13 posts
#10
Abuser
13 posts
Flair Used in r/abusiverelationships
#1
Emotional abuse
: "Bf threatening to hit me"
11 posts
#2
Support request
: "My adult son is abusive..."
10 posts
#3
Domestic violence
: "im going to the station in the morning. im nervous."
9 posts
#4
Just venting
: "Nikki's behavior in Obsession is how my ex convinced me I was acting.."
8 posts
#5
TRIGGER WARNING
: "Help! Is this abuse?"
4 posts
#6
Healing and recovery
: "strangling"
4 posts
#7
Gaslighting
: "How do I leave?"
2 posts
#8
Help for a friend
: "How to support my sister"
2 posts
#9
Yes, I've read "Why Does He Do That"
: "What happens after you get a protection order?"
1 post
#10
Update
: "I MADE THE REPORT AND HES IN JAIL NOW"
1 post
Member Growth in r/abusiverelationships
Yearly
+24k members(19.3%)
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Last updated: July 30, 2026