r/abusiverelationships is a subreddit with 150k members. The community frequently discusses abuse, relationship, abusive relationship, struggling, and leave, and the most common flair used is trigger warning, emotional abuse, support request, domestic violence, and just venting.
For anyone of any gender identity who has ever been in an abusive relationship or is currently in one. This is a place for people to vent, share their stories and offer support to others in similar situations. Anyone who has experienced an abusive situation or relationship is welcome - that includes romantic, intimate, sexual, spousal, coworker, family, and/or friendship relationships.
Popular Topics in r/abusiverelationships
#1
Abuse
93 posts
#2
Relationship
74 posts
#3
Abusive Relationship
58 posts
#4
Struggling
39 posts
#5
Leave
17 posts
#6
Ex
16 posts
#7
Hate
15 posts
#8
Emotional Abuse
14 posts
#9
Help
13 posts
#10
Abuser
13 posts
Flair Used in r/abusiverelationships
#1
TRIGGER WARNING
: "Death of the Pastor’s Wife on Netflix"
14 posts
#2
Emotional abuse
: "Dovlet Jorayev"
12 posts
#3
Support request
: "Husband broke work monitor, should I file a police report?"
8 posts
#4
Domestic violence
: "I can feel that the time for me to leave is near. He had that look in his eyes tonight. Like he has nothing to lose."
7 posts
#5
Just venting
: "Text messages"
7 posts
#6
Healing and recovery
: "How do I recover"
3 posts
#7
Sexual violence
: "I made a report"
2 posts
#8
Financial abuse
: "My gf abused me so I broke up with her and got back together with her because she started being so sweet and kind and loving I’m afraid she’s going to abuse me again though"
2 posts
#9
Gaslighting
: "Just so confused and gaslit is this abuse"
1 post
Member Growth in r/abusiverelationships
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+25k members(20.0%)
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Last updated: August 28, 2026