r/demisexuality is a subreddit with 117k members. The community frequently discusses sexuality, demisexuality, dating, demisexual, and relationships, and they frequently recommend/review fiction books, and the most common flair used is discussion, venting, and meme.
A subreddit about demisexuality.
A demisexual is a person who may experience sexual attraction but only after forming a strong emotional connection with someone.
It's all a spectrum. Some demisexuals may feel very close to asexuality and experience attraction to extremely few people in their entire lifetimes, and each may take a very long time to develop, while others may find attraction develops more frequently and often find themselves crushing on their friends.
Popular Topics in r/demisexuality
#1
Sexuality
52 posts
#2
Demisexuality
49 posts
#3
Dating
47 posts
#4
Demisexual
34 posts
#5
Relationships
33 posts
#6
Attraction
21 posts
#7
Confusion
17 posts
#8
Feelings
13 posts
#9
Experience
12 posts
#10
Relationship
10 posts
Products Discussed in r/demisexuality
Fiction Books
5 reviews
#1
Ali Hazelwood
4.0★ from 2 reviews
#2
Cathy Yardley
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Ivy Fairbanks
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/demisexuality
#1
Discussion
: "Demi² flag"
72 posts
#2
Venting
: "I don’t think I’m ever going to find my person. I’m trying to be okay with that but I’m grieving a lifetime of romantic expectations."
42 posts
#3
Meme
: "Thought this belonged here…"
2 posts
Member Growth in r/demisexuality
Yearly
+12k members(11.9%)
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Last updated: August 9, 2026