r/loveafterporn is a subreddit with 113k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses porn use, relationship, addiction, children, and leaving, and they frequently recommend/review podcast recommendations, self-help book, and self-help books.
🄻🄾🅅🄴 🄰🄵🅃🄴🅁 🄿🄾🅁🄽 - sᴜᴘᴘᴏʀᴛ ғᴏʀ ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀs ᴏғ ᴘᴏʀɴ & sᴇx ᴀᴅᴅɪᴄᴛs.
❤️️ WE ARE GOING TO LOVE YOU UNTIL YOU LOVE YOURSELF! ❤️️
sᴇx & ᴘᴏʀɴ ᴀᴅᴅɪᴄᴛɪᴏɴ ᴀʀᴇ ɢʀᴏᴡɪɴɢ ᴇᴘɪᴅᴇᴍɪᴄs & ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀs ɴᴇᴇᴅ ᴀ ʀᴇsᴏᴜʀᴄᴇ ᴊᴜsᴛ ᴀs ᴍᴜᴄʜ ᴀs ᴛʜᴇ ᴀᴅᴅɪᴄᴛ.
ʜᴇʀᴇ ʏᴏᴜ ᴄᴀɴ ғɪɴᴅ ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀs & ᴇx-ᴘᴀʀᴛɴᴇʀs ɪɴ ᴀʟʟ sᴛᴀɢᴇs ᴏғ ᴅɪsᴄᴏᴠᴇʀʏ & ʀᴇᴄᴏᴠᴇʀʏ, ᴀs ᴡᴇʟʟ ᴀs ᴠᴀʀɪᴏᴜs ʀᴇsᴏᴜʀᴄᴇs ᴏɴ ᴛʜᴇ sɪᴅᴇʙᴀʀ/ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ ᴛᴀʙ.
ᴘʟᴇᴀsᴇ ғᴇᴇʟ ғʀᴇᴇ ᴛᴏ ᴛᴇʟʟ ʏᴏᴜʀ sᴛᴏʀʏ, ᴠᴇɴᴛ ᴏʀ ᴀsᴋ ғᴏʀ ᴀᴅᴠɪᴄᴇ.
Popular Themes in r/loveafterporn
#1
Advice Requests
: "How to deal with the sadness of realizing we have to live like this?"
22 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "The Documentary Brain After Porn Triggered Me"
17 posts
Popular Topics in r/loveafterporn
#1
Porn Use
: "Is his Porn Use problematic?"
7 posts
#2
Relationship
: "He’s in a new Relationship"
6 posts
#3
Addiction
: "Need Advice: Partner with Addiction"
4 posts
#4
Children
: "I’ve been indefinitely holding off having Children due to my PA husband and I’m panicking"
4 posts
#5
Leaving
: "The Final Straw"
4 posts
#6
Pa Partners
: "For those who stayed with their Pa Partners..."
3 posts
#7
Mental Health
: "Somethings not adding up and I’m starting to feel crazy"
3 posts
#8
Betrayal
: "Why does Betrayal via dating sites and sexting feel so different from viewing porn"
2 posts
#9
Self Esteem
: "Worst version of yourself ?"
2 posts
#10
Trans
2 posts
Products Discussed in r/loveafterporn
Podcast Recommendations
9 reviews
#1
Helping Couples Heal
5.0★ from 2 reviews
#2
Podcast
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Sam Tielemans
5.0★ from 1 review
Self-help Book
7 reviews
#1
Be Love Now
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Mindset
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Things No One Taught Us About Love
4.0★ from 1 review
Self-help Books
2 reviews
#1
Michelle Mays
5.0★ from 1 review
#2
Ginger Dean
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/loveafterporn
#1
:Advice: ᴀᴅᴠɪᴄᴇ ᴡᴀɴᴛᴇᴅ
: "I don’t know how much longer I can live in this constant back and forth"
42 posts
#2
:SeekingSupport: sᴇᴇᴋɪɴɢ sᴜᴘᴘᴏʀᴛ
: "Porn to cheating pipeline"
22 posts
#3
ᴅᴇsᴛʀᴏʏᴇᴅ :snoo_tableflip::table_flip:
: "I want to wear a paper bag over my head"
19 posts
#4
:snoo_biblethump: sᴀᴅ
: "he loves me, but he can't make me feel loved."
18 posts
#5
:Question: ɢᴇɴᴇʀᴀʟ ǫᴜᴇsᴛɪᴏɴ
: "Has anyone started seeing their partner as ugly?"
18 posts
#6
🆅🅴🅽🆃
: "What if this is just the reality of relationships?"
17 posts
#7
:Angry: ᴀɴɢʀʏ
: "The Documentary Brain After Porn Triggered Me"
12 posts
#8
:TriggerWarning: ᴛʀɪɢɢᴇʀ ᴡᴀʀɴɪɴɢ :TriggerWarning:
: "I hate him."
10 posts
#9
:AmICrazy: ᴀᴍ ɪ ᴄʀᴀᴢʏ
: "AIO Tipping a Tour Guide"
9 posts
#10
:VerifiedNewPoster: ɴᴇᴡ ᴜsᴇʀ - 𝟷sᴛ ᴘᴏsᴛ
: "i feel like the stupid girls i have always hated. i have nowhere else to turn. pls help"
7 posts
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Last updated: September 4, 2026