r/raisedbyborderlines is a subreddit with 109k members. The community frequently discusses bpd, mom, struggling, mother, and hard, and they frequently recommend/review memoir recommendations, and the most common flair used is vent/rant, advice needed, encouragement, support thread, and share your story.
A survivor sub exclusively for children raised by a toxic parent or guardian with borderline personality disorder/emotionally unstable personality disorder. This is a constructive, supportive space to find healing from your abusive parent and dysfunctional home.
PLEASE READ THE RULES before you participate. We take sub members' safety very seriously.
Popular Topics in r/raisedbyborderlines
#1
Bpd
85 posts
#2
Mom
60 posts
#3
Struggling
35 posts
#4
Mother
24 posts
#5
Hard
21 posts
#6
Hate
21 posts
#7
Nc
19 posts
#8
Guilt
19 posts
#9
Family
13 posts
#10
Parent
13 posts
Products Discussed in r/raisedbyborderlines
Memoir Recommendations
11 reviews
#1
Jeanette McCurdy
5.0★ from 2 reviews
#2
Jeanette Winterson
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Mira Bartók
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/raisedbyborderlines
#1
VENT/RANT
: "Wrote an article about my bpd mom and she showed up in the comments"
36 posts
#2
ADVICE NEEDED
: "My parents turned a small baby shower bill disagreement into a complete family meltdown"
22 posts
#3
ENCOURAGEMENT
: "Y'all, they don't "love" you unless you are in their pocket."
6 posts
#4
SUPPORT THREAD
: "The mother woman sent an email and I’m resisting the urge to reply"
6 posts
#5
SHARE YOUR STORY
: "The time my mom fed my whole swimteam ants"
4 posts
#6
*THIS* IS BPD!
: "The “me too me too!” Mindset is sooo annoying."
4 posts
#7
SEEKING VALIDATION
: "The breaking point with toxic father"
3 posts
#8
TRANSLATE THIS?
: "uBPD mom has been starting therapy"
3 posts
#9
PLEASE WELCOME...!
: "Hello all"
3 posts
#10
BPD ILLOGIC
: "Did anyone else's parent have the object permanence of a small child?"
3 posts
Member Growth in r/raisedbyborderlines
Yearly
+12k members(12.6%)
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Last updated: August 11, 2026