r/raisedbyborderlines is a subreddit with 111k members. The community frequently discusses bpd, mom, struggling, mother, and hard, and they frequently recommend/review memoir recommendations, and the most common flair used is vent/rant, advice needed, support thread, share your story, and *this* is bpd!.
A survivor sub exclusively for children raised by a toxic parent or guardian with borderline personality disorder/emotionally unstable personality disorder. This is a constructive, supportive space to find healing from your abusive parent and dysfunctional home.
PLEASE READ THE RULES before you participate. We take sub members' safety very seriously.
Popular Topics in r/raisedbyborderlines
#1
Bpd
85 posts
#2
Mom
60 posts
#3
Struggling
35 posts
#4
Mother
24 posts
#5
Hard
21 posts
#6
Hate
21 posts
#7
Nc
19 posts
#8
Guilt
19 posts
#9
Family
13 posts
#10
Parent
13 posts
Products Discussed in r/raisedbyborderlines
Memoir Recommendations
11 reviews
#1
Jeanette McCurdy
5.0★ from 2 reviews
#2
Jeanette Winterson
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Mira Bartók
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/raisedbyborderlines
#1
VENT/RANT
: "How, Sway?!"
14 posts
#2
ADVICE NEEDED
: "i think my uBPD mom just broke up with me?!?"
13 posts
#3
SUPPORT THREAD
: "Just broke another uBPD parent rule about Christmas + refusing compliance"
3 posts
#4
SHARE YOUR STORY
: "anyone else's parents keep talking about adopting kids?"
3 posts
#5
*THIS* IS BPD!
: "This interaction between my little sister and my uBPD mom just made me giggle"
2 posts
#6
MAKING IT ALL ABOUT THEM
: "Uplifting birthday voicemail from NC BPD mom"
2 posts
#7
DREAMS AND NIGHTMARES
: "Nightmares"
1 post
#8
SEEKING VALIDATION
: "Just so exhausted. Second likely BPD family member."
1 post
#9
ENABLERS AND FLYING MONKEYS
: "I just want to enjoy my pregnancy and I am so exhausted"
1 post
#10
ENCOURAGEMENT
: "Celebrate with me!!!!"
1 post
Member Growth in r/raisedbyborderlines
Yearly
+13k members(13.0%)
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Last updated: November 5, 2026