r/raisedbyborderlines is a subreddit with 107k members. The community frequently discusses bpd, mom, struggling, mother, and hard, and they frequently recommend/review memoir recommendations, and the most common flair used is vent/rant, advice needed, support thread, *this* is bpd!, and humor.
A survivor sub exclusively for children raised by a toxic parent or guardian with borderline personality disorder/emotionally unstable personality disorder. This is a constructive, supportive space to find healing from your abusive parent and dysfunctional home.
PLEASE READ THE RULES before you participate. We take sub members' safety very seriously.
Popular Topics in r/raisedbyborderlines
#1
Bpd
85 posts
#2
Mom
60 posts
#3
Struggling
35 posts
#4
Mother
24 posts
#5
Hard
21 posts
#6
Hate
21 posts
#7
Nc
19 posts
#8
Guilt
19 posts
#9
Family
13 posts
#10
Parent
13 posts
Products Discussed in r/raisedbyborderlines
Memoir Recommendations
11 reviews
#1
Jeanette McCurdy
5.0★ from 2 reviews
#2
Jeanette Winterson
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Mira Bartók
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/raisedbyborderlines
#1
VENT/RANT
: "Anyone else glad THAT holiday is over with for another year?"
45 posts
#2
ADVICE NEEDED
: "Mom won't stop messaging me triggering stuff while I'm at school/work"
23 posts
#3
SUPPORT THREAD
: "Gift from my mom"
10 posts
#4
*THIS* IS BPD!
: "Sometimes the inner teenager wins and you gotta take a jab"
7 posts
#5
HUMOR
: "The Black Heron"
6 posts
#6
BPD ILLOGIC
: "They'll NEVER understand they can be better than their own parents and STILL be abusive"
3 posts
#7
SEEKING VALIDATION
: "My mom threatened to kill my husband and everyone he cares about, then tried to act like she was justified"
3 posts
#8
APOLOGIES
: "I don't have to forgive someone who isn't sorry for hurting me"
2 posts
#9
TRANSLATE THIS?
: "“I don’t hate YOU, I hate your ACTIONS”"
2 posts
#10
MAKING IT ALL ABOUT THEM
: "My stepmom died and my BPD mom is having a meltdown"
1 post
Member Growth in r/raisedbyborderlines
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Last updated: June 14, 2026