r/raisedbyborderlines is a subreddit with 111k members. The community frequently discusses bpd, mom, struggling, mother, and hard, and they frequently recommend/review memoir recommendations, and the most common flair used is advice needed, vent/rant, share your story, support thread, and other.
A survivor sub exclusively for children raised by a toxic parent or guardian with borderline personality disorder/emotionally unstable personality disorder. This is a constructive, supportive space to find healing from your abusive parent and dysfunctional home.
PLEASE READ THE RULES before you participate. We take sub members' safety very seriously.
Popular Topics in r/raisedbyborderlines
#1
Bpd
85 posts
#2
Mom
60 posts
#3
Struggling
35 posts
#4
Mother
24 posts
#5
Hard
21 posts
#6
Hate
21 posts
#7
Nc
19 posts
#8
Guilt
19 posts
#9
Family
13 posts
#10
Parent
13 posts
Products Discussed in r/raisedbyborderlines
Memoir Recommendations
11 reviews
#1
Jeanette McCurdy
5.0★ from 2 reviews
#2
Jeanette Winterson
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Mira Bartók
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/raisedbyborderlines
#1
ADVICE NEEDED
: "How do you deal with the guilt, if you have any at all?"
9 posts
#2
VENT/RANT
: "My mom wants to publish a parenting book"
8 posts
#3
SHARE YOUR STORY
: "At a loss..."
3 posts
#4
SUPPORT THREAD
: "At 33, I’ve found out I am adopted"
3 posts
#5
OTHER
: "Relief after mother passed away."
1 post
#6
BPD AND ANIMALS
: "I was hostage, dog was hostage"
1 post
#7
*THIS* IS BPD!
: "Manufactured Urgency as the Status Quo"
1 post
#8
SEEKING VALIDATION
: "Rewriting History"
1 post
#9
AGING PARENTS
: "BPD mother has cancer. Am I supposed to be sad?"
1 post
#10
ENCOURAGEMENT
: "Agreed, in parents and life."
1 post
Member Growth in r/raisedbyborderlines
Yearly
+13k members(13.2%)
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Last updated: October 1, 2026