r/raisedbynarcissists is a subreddit with 1.1M members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses narcissistic parents, abuse, looking for a job, mental health, and looking for a therapist, and they frequently recommend/review self-help book.
This is a support group for people raised by abusive parents (with toxic, self-absorbed or abusive personality traits, which may be exhibited by those who suffer from cluster B personality disorders). Please share your stories, your questions, your histories, your fears and your triumphs.
Popular Themes in r/raisedbynarcissists
#1
Pain & Anger
: "One of the cruelest pranks my NDad ever pulled, making my 7th birthday my worst by far."
66 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "Why ISN'T there more content on how to escape nparents?"
12 posts
#3
Money Talk
: "Dad $30M 600 properties while son is homeless 13 yrs"
4 posts
Popular Topics in r/raisedbynarcissists
#1
Narcissistic Parents
13 posts
#2
Abuse
13 posts
#3
Looking For A Job
10 posts
#4
Mental Health
7 posts
#5
Looking For A Therapist
6 posts
#6
Looking For A Book
5 posts
#7
Abusive Parents
5 posts
#8
Struggling
4 posts
#9
Tired
4 posts
#10
Controlling
4 posts
Products Discussed in r/raisedbynarcissists
Self-help Book
3 reviews
#1
Karen C L Anderson
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
David Goggins
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Karen Fabrizio
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/raisedbynarcissists
#1
[Rant/Vent, Advice OK]
: "One of the cruelest pranks my NDad ever pulled, making my 7th birthday my worst by far."
82 posts
#2
[Question]
: "Wasn’t allowed to react"
37 posts
#3
[Advice Request]
: "I finally started seeing what my sister saw"
36 posts
#4
[Rant/Vent, No Advice]
: "Friend's Ndad accidentally killed himself...because of a tantrum."
10 posts
#5
[Supportive Responses Only, Advice OK]
: "My mom took photos while I was in the er and sent them"
10 posts
#6
[Trigger Warning]
: "I'm used to how my parents treat me but I wasn't prepared for a fight for a doctor to show it wasn't just me."
6 posts
#7
[Supportive Responses Only, No Advice]
: "Sour cucumber"
5 posts
#8
[Progress]
: "You can eat Yogurt with out getting attacked!"
3 posts
#9
[Trigger Warning: Graphic Description of Abuse]
: "Not all abuse is obvious"
3 posts
#10
[Update]
: "I got out."
3 posts
Member Growth in r/raisedbynarcissists
Yearly
+81k members(7.9%)
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Last updated: September 6, 2026