r/raisedbynarcissists is a subreddit with 1.1M members. The community frequently discusses looking for a job, looking for a therapist, looking for a book, looking for a mother figure, and looking for a therapist to help deal with being a victim of narcissism, and they frequently recommend/review self-help book, and the most common flair used is [rant/vent, advice ok], [advice request], [supportive responses only, advice ok], [question], and [trigger warning].
This is a support group for people raised by abusive parents (with toxic, self-absorbed or abusive personality traits, which may be exhibited by those who suffer from cluster B personality disorders). Please share your stories, your questions, your histories, your fears and your triumphs.
Popular Topics in r/raisedbynarcissists
#1
Looking For A Job
10 posts
#2
Looking For A Therapist
6 posts
#3
Looking For A Book
5 posts
#4
Looking For A Mother Figure
3 posts
#5
Looking For A Therapist To Help Deal With Being A Victim Of Narcissism
2 posts
#6
Looking For A Domestic Violence Shelter
2 posts
#7
Looking For Support
2 posts
#8
Narcissistic Parents
2 posts
#9
Book On Abuse
2 posts
#10
Feeling Frustrated
1 post
Products Discussed in r/raisedbynarcissists
Self-help Book
3 reviews
#1
Karen C L Anderson
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
David Goggins
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Karen Fabrizio
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/raisedbynarcissists
#1
[Rant/Vent, Advice OK]
: "This morning I saw a father apologize to her daughter and almost made me cry"
28 posts
#2
[Advice Request]
: "How do you guys deal with them becoming aggressive and then flipping to victimhood. Sometimes they try victimhood and flip to aggression ?"
17 posts
#3
[Supportive Responses Only, Advice OK]
: "Validating reaction to my nmom publicly shaming me as a child"
11 posts
#4
[Question]
: "Is it possible to have a narcissistic father but, a good mother?"
8 posts
#5
[Trigger Warning]
: "Narcissistic parents dragged me into fights with others."
5 posts
#6
[Trigger Warning: Sexual Abuse]
: "Social services placed me with my sex offender dad"
4 posts
#7
[Rant/Vent, No Advice]
: "My brother became exactly like Nparent"
2 posts
#8
[Media]
: "I accidentally flushed a sock down the toilet and ruined my family"
2 posts
#9
[Tip]
: "Continuous neck pain and stiffness - Reich's armour theory"
1 post
#10
Mod Announcement
: "PSA: No Cross-posting RBN Content (Rule 9 Update)"
1 post
Member Growth in r/raisedbynarcissists
Yearly
+85k members(8.2%)
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Last updated: October 20, 2026