r/raisedbynarcissists is a subreddit with 1.1M members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses looking for a job, looking for a therapist, looking for a book, looking for a mother figure, and looking for a therapist to help deal with being a victim of narcissism, and they frequently recommend/review self-help book.
This is a support group for people raised by abusive parents (with toxic, self-absorbed or abusive personality traits, which may be exhibited by those who suffer from cluster B personality disorders). Please share your stories, your questions, your histories, your fears and your triumphs.
Popular Themes in r/raisedbynarcissists
#1
Pain & Anger
: "My mother filled out my ballot for me and turned it in behind my back."
10 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "Hey put together some stats and links on narcissistic people who are experiencing narcissistic collapse due to the midterms."
4 posts
Popular Topics in r/raisedbynarcissists
#1
Looking For A Job
10 posts
#2
Looking For A Therapist
5 posts
#3
Looking For A Book
3 posts
#4
Looking For A Mother Figure
3 posts
#5
Looking For A Therapist To Help Deal With Being A Victim Of Narcissism
2 posts
#6
Looking For A Domestic Violence Shelter
2 posts
#7
Looking For Support
2 posts
#8
Narcissistic Parents
2 posts
#9
Book On Abuse
2 posts
#10
Fight
1 post
Products Discussed in r/raisedbynarcissists
Self-help Book
3 reviews
#1
Karen C L Anderson
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
David Goggins
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Karen Fabrizio
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/raisedbynarcissists
#1
[Rant/Vent, Advice OK]
: "My mother filled out my ballot for me and turned it in behind my back."
40 posts
#2
[Advice Request]
: "I turned down a Disney trip from my parents because there were too many strings attached. Did I do the right thing?"
15 posts
#3
[Question]
: "Why do narcissistic mothers respond to being confronted with insults instead of apologies?"
13 posts
#4
[Supportive Responses Only, Advice OK]
: "My Mother contacted my Trauma Therapist…"
5 posts
#5
[Supportive Responses Only, No Advice]
: "Feelings About My Mom"
3 posts
#6
[Happy/Funny]
: "I call this a win?"
2 posts
#7
[Media]
: "Hey put together some stats and links on narcissistic people who are experiencing narcissistic collapse due to the midterms."
2 posts
#8
[Rant/Vent, No Advice]
: "Turning themselves into the "real victims""
2 posts
#9
[Trigger Warning]
: "[TW:All of the Above] My therapist recommended I write my mother a letter even if she would never read it. This is my attempt"
1 post
#10
[Update]
: "проблемы в семье, помогите советом"
1 post
Member Growth in r/raisedbynarcissists
Yearly
+85k members(8.3%)
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Last updated: November 5, 2026