r/AmItheAsshole is a subreddit with 24.5M members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses aita, job, friendship, roommate, and struggling, and they frequently recommend/review ubers and pumpkin pie.
A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.
See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered!
Popular Themes in r/AmItheAsshole
#1
Pain & Anger
: "AITA for hiding $75,000 from my wife because I’m tired of being expected to rescue us financially?"
2 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "AITA I could really use some unbiased opinions."
1 post
Popular Topics in r/AmItheAsshole
#1
Aita
22 posts
#2
Job
11 posts
#3
Friendship
: "AITA for not reciprocating my best friend's feelings"
7 posts
#4
Roommate
: "AITA for not considering my Roommate when ordering food?"
7 posts
#5
Struggling
7 posts
#6
Family
5 posts
#7
Annoying
5 posts
#8
Relationship
: "AITAH for being upset ab my bf leaving me out of trip"
3 posts
#9
Looking For A Job
3 posts
#10
Car
3 posts
Products Discussed in r/AmItheAsshole
Ubers
22 reviews
#1
Uber
3.8★ from 22 reviews
Pumpkin Pie
6 reviews
#1
Costco
4.5★ from 4 reviews
#2
Frisch's
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Sara Lee
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/AmItheAsshole
#1
META
: "Notice: Judgement Bot is (partially) down"
1 post
Member Growth in r/AmItheAsshole
Yearly
+395k members(1.6%)
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Last updated: July 7, 2026