r/AmItheAsshole is a subreddit with 24.6M members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and money talk, and the community frequently discusses aita, job, friend, family, and struggling, and they frequently recommend/review ubers and pumpkin pie.
A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.
See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered!
Popular Themes in r/AmItheAsshole
#1
Pain & Anger
: "AITAH for telling my SO his action don’t match his words?"
40 posts
#2
Money Talk
: "AITA for refusing to give my wedding fund to my sister after she canceled her own wedding?"
3 posts
#3
Advice Requests
: "AITA 25F for asking for help?"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/AmItheAsshole
#1
Aita
21 posts
#2
Job
11 posts
#3
Friend
: "AITA my Friend is avoiding me after a night out"
9 posts
#4
Family
7 posts
#5
Struggling
7 posts
#6
Annoying
5 posts
#7
Roommate
4 posts
#8
Looking For A Job
3 posts
#9
Friendship
3 posts
#10
Dog
3 posts
Products Discussed in r/AmItheAsshole
Ubers
22 reviews
#1
Uber
3.8★ from 22 reviews
Pumpkin Pie
6 reviews
#1
Costco
4.5★ from 4 reviews
#2
Frisch's
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Sara Lee
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/AmItheAsshole
#1
Not the A-hole
: "AITA for going to work this morning and not specifically telling my husband that he needed to take our child to school?"
52 posts
#2
Everyone Sucks
: "AITA for being honest with my 10-year-old daughter about family drama, leading to her confronting my great-aunt at the dinner table?"
5 posts
#3
Asshole
: "AITA for not inviting my girlfriend on a "boys' trip"?"
4 posts
#4
No A-holes here
: "AITA for inviting my best friend (with or without her husband & child) to my birthday trip"
3 posts
#5
POO Mode Activated 💩
: "AITA for asking my parents to use my preferred name?"
2 posts
#6
Not enough info
: "AITA for telling my friend that I want to spend most of our Japan trip exploring alone after he asked to come with me?"
1 post
Member Growth in r/AmItheAsshole
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+528k members(2.2%)
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Last updated: September 6, 2026