r/AmItheAsshole is a subreddit with 24.4M members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses aita, relationship, family, friend, and parent, and they frequently recommend/review ubers, camera gear, and pumpkin pie.
A catharsis for the frustrated moral philosopher in all of us, and a place to finally find out if you were wrong in an argument that's been bothering you. Tell us about any non-violent conflict you have experienced; give us both sides of the story, and find out if you're right, or you're the asshole.
See our ~~*Best Of*~~ "Most Controversial" at /r/AITAFiltered!
Popular Themes in r/AmItheAsshole
#1
Pain & Anger
: "AITA for making my co-worker cry because I mocked her nose-job?"
66 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "AITA for refusing to let my daughter play with my landlord's kids unless they're dressed?"
16 posts
Popular Topics in r/AmItheAsshole
#1
Aita
: "Aita for making my co-worker cry because I mocked her nose-job?"
191 posts
#2
Relationship
: "AITA for leaving the room while my fiancé was watching gun-related videos?"
46 posts
#3
Family
: "AITA for wanting my wife to make her Family move"
23 posts
#4
Friend
: "AITA for cancelling plan with my best Friend who's leaving soon because she last minute decided to meet this guy?"
21 posts
#5
Parent
: "AITA if i'm upset my dad is going to have another child"
15 posts
#6
Job
: "WIBTAH if I got a Job without telling my husband?"
12 posts
#7
Money
: "AITA if i'm upset my dad is going to have another child"
10 posts
#8
Struggling
8 posts
#9
Roommate
: "AITA for not giving my Roommate back her security deposit?"
7 posts
#10
Friendship Issues
7 posts
Products Discussed in r/AmItheAsshole
Ubers
22 reviews
#1
Uber
3.8★ from 22 reviews
Camera Gear
10 reviews
#1
Camera
1.0★ from 4 reviews
#2
NTA
2.3★ from 3 reviews
#3
Nikon
1.0★ from 1 review
Pumpkin Pie
6 reviews
#1
Costco
4.5★ from 4 reviews
#2
Frisch's
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Sara Lee
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/AmItheAsshole
#1
Not the A-hole
: "[ Removed by moderator ]"
31 posts
#2
Asshole
: "AITA for not wanting to split food evenly with my spouse?"
5 posts
#3
Everyone Sucks
: "AITA for making my co-worker cry because I mocked her nose-job?"
3 posts
#4
No A-holes here
: "AITA for letting my coworker believe that my sister is dead?"
3 posts
Member Growth in r/AmItheAsshole
Yearly
+315k members(1.3%)
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Last updated: June 11, 2026