r/BPDlovedones is a subreddit with 148k members. The community frequently discusses bpd, relationship, relationships, breakup, and relationship issues, and the most common flair used is uncoupling journey, bpd behaviors & traits, focusing on me :redditgold:, learning about bpd, and non-romantic interactions.
"r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of an abusive person with borderline personality disorder (BPD).
Popular Topics in r/BPDlovedones
#1
Bpd
122 posts
#2
Relationship
96 posts
#3
Relationships
36 posts
#4
Breakup
34 posts
#5
Relationship Issues
18 posts
#6
Cheating
10 posts
#7
Trauma
10 posts
#8
Abuse
8 posts
#9
Therapy
8 posts
#10
Discard
6 posts
Flair Used in r/BPDlovedones
#1
Uncoupling Journey
: "Hope on the other side"
7 posts
#2
BPD Behaviors & Traits
: "Neediness but not emotionally"
7 posts
#3
Focusing on Me :redditgold:
: "How long did it take you to recover?"
7 posts
#4
Learning about BPD
: "BPD and PMDD. Splits like clockwork."
6 posts
#5
Non-Romantic interactions
: "dealing with copycat"
4 posts
#6
Quiet Borderlines
: "People with BPD lacking empathy?"
3 posts
#7
Getting ready to leave
: "Impossible situation to get out of."
3 posts
#8
Healthy romantic & non-romantic interactions postBPD
: "How to suggest to someone they may be struggling with bpd?"
3 posts
#9
Cohabitation Support
: "Mental illness explains the behavior, but it doesn’t erase what happens at home."
1 post
#10
Family Members
: "My sister (24F) has BPD and I’m at my breaking point with her."
1 post
Member Growth in r/BPDlovedones
Yearly
+32k members(27.5%)
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Last updated: September 21, 2026