r/BPDlovedones is a subreddit with 142k members. The community frequently discusses bpd, relationship, relationships, breakup, and relationship issues, and the most common flair used is uncoupling journey, bpd behaviors & traits, learning about bpd, focusing on me :redditgold:, and non-romantic interactions.
"r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of an abusive person with borderline personality disorder (BPD).
Popular Topics in r/BPDlovedones
#1
Bpd
122 posts
#2
Relationship
96 posts
#3
Relationships
36 posts
#4
Breakup
34 posts
#5
Relationship Issues
18 posts
#6
Cheating
10 posts
#7
Trauma
10 posts
#8
Abuse
8 posts
#9
Therapy
8 posts
#10
Discard
6 posts
Flair Used in r/BPDlovedones
#1
Uncoupling Journey
: "Reminder: you’re allowed to let the chips fall where they may."
17 posts
#2
BPD Behaviors & Traits
: "There's nothing you could've done differently to avoid setting them off."
16 posts
#3
Learning about BPD
: "BPD is the PD most robustly associated with COMMITTING domestic violence. NPD is the least"
11 posts
#4
Focusing on Me :redditgold:
: "girl.. good riddance"
9 posts
#5
Non-Romantic interactions
: "FriendwBPD literally keeps going after sweet men and destroys them"
6 posts
#6
Getting ready to leave
: "They’ve split and regressed so far, that I’ve lost all hope"
6 posts
#7
Divorce
: "Secondary psychopathy"
5 posts
#8
Quiet Borderlines
: "No, they’re not different."
3 posts
#9
Family Members
: "I’m done. I’m going no contact with my BPD sister once and for all."
2 posts
#10
Parenting
: "Projective Identification is a whole entire beast"
1 post
Member Growth in r/BPDlovedones
Yearly
+29k members(25.7%)
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Last updated: July 24, 2026