r/BPDlovedones is a subreddit with 145k members. The community frequently discusses bpd, relationship, relationships, breakup, and relationship issues, and the most common flair used is uncoupling journey, bpd behaviors & traits, learning about bpd, focusing on me :redditgold:, and parenting.
"r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of an abusive person with borderline personality disorder (BPD).
Popular Topics in r/BPDlovedones
#1
Bpd
122 posts
#2
Relationship
96 posts
#3
Relationships
36 posts
#4
Breakup
34 posts
#5
Relationship Issues
18 posts
#6
Cheating
10 posts
#7
Trauma
10 posts
#8
Abuse
8 posts
#9
Therapy
8 posts
#10
Discard
6 posts
Flair Used in r/BPDlovedones
#1
Uncoupling Journey
: "I finally did it"
21 posts
#2
BPD Behaviors & Traits
: "Can we take a moment to recognize the unsung victims of BPD…"
17 posts
#3
Learning about BPD
: "give yourself the chance at peace."
13 posts
#4
Focusing on Me :redditgold:
: "I finally did it!"
10 posts
#5
Parenting
: "The Emotional Abuse, Lies, and Manipulation are Too Much!"
5 posts
#6
Healthy romantic & non-romantic interactions postBPD
: "The Grass is so Much Greener"
3 posts
#7
Family Members
: "She sent me a Cease and Desist"
3 posts
#8
Divorce
: "Divorcing BPD and just found this subreddit"
3 posts
#9
Cohabitation Support
: "My partner's splitting terrifies me. Don't know how much more I can take."
3 posts
#10
Getting ready to leave
: "Apparently being sick and missing a sleepover at his is worthy of this:"
1 post
Member Growth in r/BPDlovedones
Yearly
+30k members(26.5%)
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Last updated: August 9, 2026