r/BPDlovedones is a subreddit with 139k members. The community frequently discusses bpd, relationship, relationships, breakup, and relationship issues, and the most common flair used is bpd behaviors & traits, uncoupling journey, focusing on me :redditgold:, learning about bpd, and getting ready to leave.
"r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of an abusive person with borderline personality disorder (BPD).
Popular Topics in r/BPDlovedones
#1
Bpd
122 posts
#2
Relationship
96 posts
#3
Relationships
36 posts
#4
Breakup
34 posts
#5
Relationship Issues
18 posts
#6
Cheating
10 posts
#7
Trauma
10 posts
#8
Abuse
8 posts
#9
Therapy
8 posts
#10
Discard
6 posts
Flair Used in r/BPDlovedones
#1
BPD Behaviors & Traits
: "One of my experience dating a pwBPD"
24 posts
#2
Uncoupling Journey
: "My ex dated a total loser after me and it made me question who I'd been with for 3 years."
11 posts
#3
Focusing on Me :redditgold:
: "Hard to accept what will never be"
10 posts
#4
Learning about BPD
: "The person you loved didn't exist"
9 posts
#5
Getting ready to leave
: "Block them. Leave."
4 posts
#6
Non-Romantic interactions
: "Friend’s mom died: now she’s baiting me in an attempt to reel me in. Advice needed."
3 posts
#7
Quiet Borderlines
: "Don’t feel like quiet BPD gets much attention on this sub"
2 posts
#8
Cohabitation Support
: "Just looking to vent after being around BPD patients"
2 posts
#9
Divorce
: "I Finally Let Her Go … And I Feel Really Good!"
2 posts
#10
Parenting
: "Projective Identification is a whole entire beast"
1 post
Member Growth in r/BPDlovedones
Yearly
+27k members(24.5%)
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Last updated: June 23, 2026