r/BPDlovedones is a subreddit with 151k members. The community frequently discusses bpd, relationship, relationships, breakup, and relationship issues, and the most common flair used is uncoupling journey, bpd behaviors & traits, focusing on me :redditgold:, getting ready to leave, and learning about bpd.
"r/ BPD Loved Ones" is a support forum and safe space for people to discuss the challenges and abuse they have endured at the hands of an abusive person with borderline personality disorder (BPD).
Popular Topics in r/BPDlovedones
#1
Bpd
122 posts
#2
Relationship
96 posts
#3
Relationships
36 posts
#4
Breakup
34 posts
#5
Relationship Issues
18 posts
#6
Cheating
10 posts
#7
Trauma
10 posts
#8
Abuse
8 posts
#9
Therapy
8 posts
#10
Discard
6 posts
Flair Used in r/BPDlovedones
#1
Uncoupling Journey
: "I have to accept that it's (probably) over."
7 posts
#2
BPD Behaviors & Traits
: "Why is it always someone else’s fault?"
7 posts
#3
Focusing on Me :redditgold:
: "How to rebuild self trust"
5 posts
#4
Getting ready to leave
: "Has anyone had relatively healthy breakups"
4 posts
#5
Learning about BPD
: "Do BPD Regret Marriage?"
3 posts
#6
Quiet Borderlines
: "Quiet/subtle BPD: What was it like for you all?"
3 posts
#7
Divorce
: "No matter what, I am the bad guy."
3 posts
#8
Family Members
: "Sister uses the DSM as instruction manual"
2 posts
#9
Parenting
: "If you strongly suspect they're cheating on you, they probably are"
2 posts
#10
Non-Romantic interactions
: "Missing my Best Friend"
2 posts
Member Growth in r/BPDlovedones
Yearly
+33k members(28.3%)
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Last updated: October 1, 2026