r/EthicalNonMonogamy is a subreddit with 45k members. The community frequently discusses enm, relationship struggles, jealousy, fwb, and advice, and the most common flair used is advice needed, general enm question, getting started, enm opinion , and personal story.
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Popular Topics in r/EthicalNonMonogamy
#1
Enm
16 posts
#2
Relationship Struggles
14 posts
#3
Jealousy
14 posts
#4
Fwb
14 posts
#5
Advice
11 posts
#6
Relationship
9 posts
#7
Communication
8 posts
#8
Boundaries
7 posts
#9
Insecurity
6 posts
#10
Partner
5 posts
Flair Used in r/EthicalNonMonogamy
#1
Advice needed
: "Am I unreasonable for wanting a strong foundation before any form of ENM?"
57 posts
#2
General ENM Question
: "Does ENM get easier the longer it goes on?"
20 posts
#3
Getting started
: "Open Marriage with a Twist"
18 posts
#4
ENM Opinion
: "Has anyone else noticed that polyamory often attracts people who don't actually want to build a shared life?"
11 posts
#5
Personal story
: "Lost my husband to the other woman."
11 posts
#6
Other
: "UPDATE: Marital Flaws Spotlighted by Opening"
6 posts
#7
Poly
: "Poly women who date men: how do you stay sane in dating? I can’t find anyone who practices polyamory ethically. I am utterly exhausted."
4 posts
#8
Mods, help me choose a flair for this
: "Ethical Non-Monogamy and depression/lack of self confidence"
3 posts
#9
Swinger
: "Seeking Like-Minded ENM Couples"
1 post
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Last updated: August 12, 2026