r/EthicalNonMonogamy is a subreddit with 41k members. The community frequently discusses enm, relationship struggles, jealousy, fwb, and advice, and the most common flair used is advice needed, general enm question, personal story, enm opinion , and getting started.
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Popular Topics in r/EthicalNonMonogamy
#1
Enm
16 posts
#2
Relationship Struggles
14 posts
#3
Jealousy
14 posts
#4
Fwb
14 posts
#5
Advice
11 posts
#6
Relationship
9 posts
#7
Communication
8 posts
#8
Boundaries
7 posts
#9
Insecurity
6 posts
#10
Partner
5 posts
Flair Used in r/EthicalNonMonogamy
#1
Advice needed
: "Update on husband and his gf wanting to have a baby"
80 posts
#2
General ENM Question
: "Wife has lower standards for her new partner"
36 posts
#3
Personal story
: "Swinging, to open, to poly and back again. If you are considering poly, please read."
30 posts
#4
ENM Opinion
: "This lifestyle isn't fair"
17 posts
#5
Getting started
: "I hate that I want this: asked him to tell me before he says ‘I love you’"
15 posts
#6
Mods, help me choose a flair for this
: "Rant about other ENM men"
7 posts
#7
Other
: "Final update on my threesome disaster"
6 posts
#8
Poly
: "NRE is intense and i’m exhausted 😭"
6 posts
#9
Mod post
: "I hate that I feel that we need to even post this, but please stop reporting things you disagree with, that's what the downvote button is for."
1 post
#10
Mod Post
: "[ Removed by moderator ]"
1 post
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Last updated: June 13, 2026