/r/PolyFidelity/

r/PolyFidelity

11k members
r/PolyFidelity is a subreddit with 11k members. The community frequently discusses relationship, poly, advice, triad, and polycule, and the most common flair used is seeking advice, discussion, weekly thread, personal story, and question.
A subreddit for those that practice or are interested in polyfidelity — a form of polyamory where all members agree to be sexually active only with other members of the group.

Popular Topics in r/PolyFidelity

#1

Relationship

39 posts
#2

Poly

36 posts
#3

Advice

34 posts
#4

Triad

33 posts
#5

Polycule

22 posts
#6

Polyamory

18 posts
#7

Relationships

18 posts
#8

Polyfidelity

16 posts
#9

Dating

8 posts
#10

Poly Relationship

7 posts

Flair Used in r/PolyFidelity

#1
seeking advice
: "I’m that classic heartbroken unicorn that should have known better. Feeling alone."
14 posts
#2
discussion
: "Mid week throuple date night"
8 posts
#3
weekly thread
: "What have you and your polycule been up to this last week, and any plans for the weekend?"
5 posts
#4
personal story
: "My Triad Had a Commitment Ceremony Last Weekend (MFM)"
3 posts
#5
question
: "Holidays - a two parter!"
3 posts
#6
news
: "Are throuples and polyfidelity relationships really that rare? Check out the data (and the myths) (and the survey!) about ethical non-monogamy."
2 posts

Member Growth in r/PolyFidelity

Yearly
+4k members(61.0%)

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Last updated: October 31, 2026