r/WomenDatingOverForty is a subreddit with 18k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses dating, relationships, women, men, and single.
This is a community for women who are 40+ to share their dating experiences, seek advice and learn how to date safely and sanely in today's daunting dating environment. We are unapologetically pro-woman, anti-porn, anti-kink and anti-prostitution. Established July 2022.
Popular Themes in r/WomenDatingOverForty
#1
Advice Requests
: "To women who still date, how?"
6 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "New Low: Called Old and Slutty Simultaneously"
3 posts
#3
News
: "Bumble moving to AI based matching system"
3 posts
Popular Topics in r/WomenDatingOverForty
#1
Dating
: "Dating advice from cats"
141 posts
#2
Relationships
: "Police association chief Dirk Peglow has stirred debate with his advice to women to avoid Relationships with men for safety's sake."
63 posts
#3
Women
: "The more Women earn, the more housework they do: inside the paradox a Wharton economist calls "an existential problem for men""
52 posts
#4
Men
49 posts
#5
Single
: "When People Ask Why I’m Single"
30 posts
#6
Age
: "Wants to settle down (Age 55)"
25 posts
#7
Relationship
25 posts
#8
Love
: "I Really Love My Life Without Men"
11 posts
#9
Tired
8 posts
#10
Ghosting
: "Ghosted After 6 Months"
8 posts
Flair Used in r/WomenDatingOverForty
#1
Please Advise
: "To women who still date, how?"
50 posts
#2
Discussion
: "Center your nervous system"
31 posts
#3
Worst Date Ever
: "The "Can you cook and do my taxes?" date"
13 posts
#4
Rant
: "New Low: Called Old and Slutty Simultaneously"
11 posts
#5
Why Are Men?
: ""Visiting your area" ie waste your time and be free entertainment for a man you'll never see again"
10 posts
#6
Humor
: "Brilliant Post About What Men Find Attractive In Women"
9 posts
#7
In the News
: "Why Do Men Ruin Your Birthday? The Psychology Behind Relationship Sabotage"
9 posts
#8
Story Time
: "I started thinking about my dating experience using apps and it just blows my mind"
9 posts
#9
Essential Knowledge
: "It's just not worth it"
9 posts
#10
Video
: ""Straight" men celebrating Pride Month on Grindr"
9 posts
Member Growth in r/WomenDatingOverForty
Yearly
+10k members(131.5%)
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Last updated: August 15, 2026