r/WomenDatingOverForty is a subreddit with 16k members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses dating, relationships, women, men, and single.
This is a community for women who are 40+ to share their dating experiences, seek advice and learn how to date safely and sanely in today's daunting dating environment. We are unapologetically pro-woman, anti-porn, anti-kink and anti-prostitution. Established July 2022.
Popular Themes in r/WomenDatingOverForty
#1
Pain & Anger
: "New Low: Called Old and Slutty Simultaneously"
9 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "To women who still date, how?"
8 posts
#3
News
: "Bumble moving to AI based matching system"
3 posts
#4
Solution Requests
: "What are the best dating sites for over 40 this 2026, and are any of them actually worth using?"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/WomenDatingOverForty
#1
Dating
: "Dating advice from cats"
141 posts
#2
Relationships
: "Police association chief Dirk Peglow has stirred debate with his advice to women to avoid Relationships with men for safety's sake."
63 posts
#3
Women
: "The more Women earn, the more housework they do: inside the paradox a Wharton economist calls "an existential problem for men""
52 posts
#4
Men
: "Have you actually met Men that are interested in what you do or what your hobbies are?"
49 posts
#5
Single
: "When People Ask Why I’m Single"
30 posts
#6
Age
: "Wants to settle down (Age 55)"
25 posts
#7
Relationship
: "My future - who wants in?"
25 posts
#8
Love
: "I Really Love My Life Without Men"
11 posts
#9
Tired
8 posts
#10
Ghosting
: "I backed out on a date because I was no longer excited about it.Long story"
8 posts
Flair Used in r/WomenDatingOverForty
#1
Please Advise
: "To women who still date, how?"
41 posts
#2
Discussion
: "It feels official"
35 posts
#3
Field Report
: "Are We Dating The Same Guy (AWDTSG) groups are an eye opener"
19 posts
#4
Story Time
: "I started thinking about my dating experience using apps and it just blows my mind"
18 posts
#5
Rant
: "Done they are all pedos"
14 posts
#6
Humor
: "Dating advice from cats"
14 posts
#7
Worst Date Ever
: "Never argue with men on reddit"
12 posts
#8
In the News
: "Walkaway Wives"
10 posts
#9
Why Are Men?
: ""Visiting your area" ie waste your time and be free entertainment for a man you'll never see again"
9 posts
#10
Video
: ""Straight" men celebrating Pride Month on Grindr"
7 posts
Member Growth in r/WomenDatingOverForty
Yearly
+9k members(125.6%)
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Last updated: June 30, 2026