r/WomenDatingOverForty is a subreddit with 21k members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses dating, men, tired, guys, and over 40.
This is a community for women who are 40+ to share their dating experiences, seek advice and learn how to date safely and sanely in today's daunting dating environment. We are unapologetically pro-woman, anti-porn, anti-kink and anti-prostitution. Established July 2022.
Popular Themes in r/WomenDatingOverForty
#1
Pain & Anger
: "He (38M) went from "I want to pursue you seriously" to possibly ghosting me (32F) in just days. Am I crazy or is this as bizarre as it feels?"
3 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "I (40F) want to give my number to a barista (30M) at my regular café. Should I risk making things awkward?"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/WomenDatingOverForty
#1
Dating
: "Central New Jersey — What is the Dating scene like for people over 40?"
11 posts
#2
Men
: "UK Bans Choking, Incest, and Kiddie Porn; Men are Upset"
10 posts
#3
Tired
8 posts
#4
Guys
5 posts
#5
Over 40
: "Central New Jersey — What is the dating scene like for people Over 40?"
4 posts
#6
Effort
3 posts
#7
Women
: "Real single Women on here"
3 posts
#8
Age
2 posts
#9
Online
2 posts
#10
Golden Hour
: "Golden Hour street style ☀️"
2 posts
Flair Used in r/WomenDatingOverForty
#1
Please Advise
: "He (38M) went from "I want to pursue you seriously" to possibly ghosting me (32F) in just days. Am I crazy or is this as bizarre as it feels?"
8 posts
#2
Discussion
: "Bi-curious and wanting to venture…"
6 posts
#3
Rant
: "I wasn’t even looking to date but I’ve been feeling extra unhinged and…"
3 posts
#4
Humor
: "A group of men is called"
3 posts
#5
PSA
: "When his “date” suggestions are humiliation rituals"
2 posts
#6
Video
: "Betting on yourself"
2 posts
#7
Straight from the horses's mouth
: "40 year old man"
2 posts
#8
In the News
: "UK Bans Choking, Incest, and Kiddie Porn; Men are Upset"
1 post
#9
Story Time
: "Truth"
1 post
#10
Why Are Men?
: "Origins of Misogyny?"
1 post
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Yearly
+12k members(130.7%)
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Last updated: November 5, 2026