r/WomenDatingOverForty is a subreddit with 20k members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses tired, dating, men, guys, and effort.
This is a community for women who are 40+ to share their dating experiences, seek advice and learn how to date safely and sanely in today's daunting dating environment. We are unapologetically pro-woman, anti-porn, anti-kink and anti-prostitution. Established July 2022.
Popular Themes in r/WomenDatingOverForty
#1
Pain & Anger
: "Men are offering less and expecting the same results/return on sub par investment"
5 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "Built a doodle widget app to to mix up the usual texting/calling routine with my partner. Would love your feedback."
1 post
Popular Topics in r/WomenDatingOverForty
#1
Tired
8 posts
#2
Dating
6 posts
#3
Men
5 posts
#4
Guys
5 posts
#5
Effort
3 posts
#6
Age
2 posts
#7
Online
2 posts
#8
Settling
1 post
#9
Boundaries
1 post
#10
Subtle
1 post
Flair Used in r/WomenDatingOverForty
#1
Discussion
: "Men prioritize men"
16 posts
#2
Please Advise
: "I’m considering being done with dating forever"
12 posts
#3
Story Time
: "Delusional"
10 posts
#4
Worst Date Ever
: "First date in 2 years..A lot to unpack here."
5 posts
#5
Field Report
: "Men are offering less and expecting the same results/return on sub par investment"
4 posts
#6
Essential Knowledge
: "FB dating dating now allows men who you never swiped right on to message you 😡"
4 posts
#7
Why Are Men?
: "What a successful heart surgery ,By God’s grace am back , how strong do I look fan 💙"
4 posts
#8
Humor
: "What to Do w/ All Those Damned 🍆 Pics"
3 posts
#9
Rant
: "Dating over 40 - Take it or leave it? I’ll think the latter………"
3 posts
#10
Straight from the horses's mouth
: "You all need help. And you won't find it online."
3 posts
Member Growth in r/WomenDatingOverForty
Yearly
+12k members(133.1%)
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Last updated: October 14, 2026