r/WomenDatingOverForty is a subreddit with 15k members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses dating, relationships, women, men, and single.
This is a community for women who are 40+ to share their dating experiences, seek advice and learn how to date safely and sanely in today's daunting dating environment. We are unapologetically pro-woman, anti-porn, anti-kink and anti-prostitution. Established July 2022.
Popular Themes in r/WomenDatingOverForty
#1
Pain & Anger
: "New Low: Called Old and Slutty Simultaneously"
20 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "To women who still date, how?"
2 posts
Popular Topics in r/WomenDatingOverForty
#1
Dating
: "The best reason I have read about why women stop Dating."
141 posts
#2
Relationships
: "Police association chief Dirk Peglow has stirred debate with his advice to women to avoid Relationships with men for safety's sake."
63 posts
#3
Women
: "Believing in fairytale love, twin flames, and soulmates is destroying Women’s lives"
52 posts
#4
Men
: "Men aren't changing in our lifetime"
49 posts
#5
Single
: "5 years Single and decided to dip my toe in the cesspool."
30 posts
#6
Age
: "Wants to settle down (Age 55)"
25 posts
#7
Relationship
: "Want all the perks of a Relationship but without the commitment/accountability"
25 posts
#8
Love
: "I Really Love My Life Without Men"
11 posts
#9
Tired
8 posts
#10
Ghosting
: "I backed out on a date because I was no longer excited about it.Long story"
8 posts
Flair Used in r/WomenDatingOverForty
#1
Field Report
: "It’s official, I’m on the shelf 🎉"
37 posts
#2
Discussion
: "Believing in fairytale love, twin flames, and soulmates is destroying women’s lives"
25 posts
#3
Rant
: "Done they are all pedos"
21 posts
#4
Why Are Men?
: "Men are jealous of women enjoying life :/"
20 posts
#5
In the News
: "Women are now 23% less likely to want a relationship than men"
19 posts
#6
Humor
: "“ I feel that we have a great connection “"
18 posts
#7
Story Time
: "5 years single and decided to dip my toe in the cesspool."
13 posts
#8
Essential Knowledge
: "If you initiate with a man, it will never end well."
13 posts
#9
Please Advise
: "To women who still date, how?"
10 posts
#10
Straight from the horses's mouth
: "Ms Good Enough for Now and Monkey Branching"
8 posts
Member Growth in r/WomenDatingOverForty
Yearly
+9k members(123.8%)
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Last updated: June 16, 2026