r/etiquette

37k members
r/etiquette is a subreddit with 37k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and money talk, and the community frequently discusses etiquette, gifts, wedding, friendship, and money.

Popular Themes in r/etiquette

#1
Advice Requests
: "Politely decline host gift from guest?"
41 posts
#2
Money Talk
: "What is the polite way to remind someone they owe you money?"
3 posts
#3
Pain & Anger
: "small rant - becoming increasingly annoyed at how lax fellow young people are around etiquette"
1 post

Popular Topics in r/etiquette

#1

Etiquette

: "Least favorite Etiquette rule?"
204 posts
#2

Gifts

: "Kid's party said no Gifts but people brought Gifts."
53 posts
#3

Wedding

: "accidentally added a +1 to a Wedding invite. just now realizing my mistake. do i reach out to clarify?"
33 posts
#4

Friendship

: "Kid's party said no gifts but people brought gifts."
28 posts
#5

Money

: "Friend invitation for a barbecue and charges Money"
27 posts
#6

Party

: "Is this normal to ask of guests for a Party?!"
26 posts
#7

Guests

: "Dinner party Guests who tell the Bangladeshi host they don’t eat chilli and spice just before dinner?"
22 posts
#8

Birthday

: "Cousins invite my two kids to a Birthdayparty involving an activity costing 50$ each."
21 posts
#9

Dinner

: "If you are having a birthday celebration and/or Dinner, who pays?"
19 posts
#10

Family

: "Serving leftovers to Family from a party the day before"
18 posts

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Yearly
+6k members(18.8%)

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Last updated: June 16, 2026