r/widowers

43k members
r/widowers is a subreddit with 43k members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses grief, loneliness, loss, struggle, and emotions, and they frequently recommend/review book and gift ideas.
A place for anyone who has lost a companion to share and heal. Please see below for helpful posts, related subreddits and community guidelines.

Popular Themes in r/widowers

#1
Pain & Anger
: "I’m lost."
18 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "Wife passed away three years, I have a great support system, but several people always try to push therapy on me. I have no interest in it. Am I wrong? Any other widowers not involving therapists in their lives."
3 posts

Popular Topics in r/widowers

#1

Grief

: "Love vs Grief. Pleasure vs Happiness"
154 posts
#2

Loneliness

: "My pain isn’t taken seriously"
53 posts
#3

Loss

: "Dating after wife died, now cancer"
49 posts
#4

Struggle

: "My pain isn’t taken seriously"
44 posts
#5

Emotions

: "My pain isn’t taken seriously"
25 posts
#6

Death

: "He died, then I found out about his multiple infidelities"
22 posts
#7

Memories

: "The sadistic brain - it just loves flashing Memories out of nowhere."
19 posts
#8

Support

: "Not The Journey I Wanted"
17 posts
#9

Widow

: "A Widow as a Muslim"
17 posts
#10

Time

: "Eve of my birthday, the first without him. Holy crap I don’t want to…wee bit of a vent"
17 posts

Products Discussed in r/widowers

Book

6 reviews
#1
Ginsburg
5.0 from 1 review
#2
Jerusha Mccormack
4.0 from 1 review
#3
Megan Devine
4.0 from 1 review

Gift Ideas

1 review
#1
Ring Camera
5.0 from 1 review

Member Growth in r/widowers

Yearly
+9k members(25.2%)

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Last updated: June 16, 2026