r/abusiverelationships is a subreddit with 147k members. The community frequently discusses abuse, relationship, abusive relationship, struggling, and leave, and the most common flair used is emotional abuse, trigger warning, support request, domestic violence, and just venting.
For anyone of any gender identity who has ever been in an abusive relationship or is currently in one. This is a place for people to vent, share their stories and offer support to others in similar situations. Anyone who has experienced an abusive situation or relationship is welcome - that includes romantic, intimate, sexual, spousal, coworker, family, and/or friendship relationships.
Popular Topics in r/abusiverelationships
#1
Abuse
93 posts
#2
Relationship
74 posts
#3
Abusive Relationship
58 posts
#4
Struggling
39 posts
#5
Leave
17 posts
#6
Ex
16 posts
#7
Hate
15 posts
#8
Emotional Abuse
14 posts
#9
Help
13 posts
#10
Abuser
13 posts
Flair Used in r/abusiverelationships
#1
Emotional abuse
: "How can my mum leave an abusive relationship?"
14 posts
#2
TRIGGER WARNING
: "His abuse caused me a miscarriage"
7 posts
#3
Support request
: "How do you love yourself again?"
6 posts
#4
Domestic violence
: "Pics from the years, I feel ruined"
5 posts
#5
Just venting
: "Left abusive home, but struggling so much still"
4 posts
#6
Healing and recovery
: "This happened for me even though it seemed impossible and it will happen for you too!"
3 posts
#7
Help maintaining no-contact
: "I tried leaving for two years"
2 posts
#8
Gaslighting
: "I (29m) felt like I was being manipulated by a (28f)."
2 posts
#9
Help for a friend
: "Need help for a friend that doesn't want to realize she's being abused nor does she want to leave. What more can I do ?"
1 post
#10
Resources request
: "Advice for Filing a Police Report"
1 post
Member Growth in r/abusiverelationships
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Last updated: July 9, 2026