r/datingadviceformen is a subreddit with 46k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses dating, advice, relationship, struggling, and girl.
A subreddit for guys to exchange advice, success stories, get over rejection, or just play with ideas for attracting and interacting with women on both a physical and emotional level.
Popular Themes in r/datingadviceformen
#1
Advice Requests
: "how the FUCK do I get a gf"
38 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "31/M beaten up 6’4” guy - feeling super down and discouraged about the complete lack of female companionship in my life and starting to think it’s my face."
9 posts
Popular Topics in r/datingadviceformen
#1
Dating
: "Basic Dating etiquette: was I M36 too eager in my texts to these women (F36, 37, 44)?"
125 posts
#2
Advice
: "Need some urgent Advice"
49 posts
#3
Relationship
: "Worried about my girlfriend on this Bachelorette trip"
45 posts
#4
Struggling
39 posts
#5
Girl
: "Cute Girl at the drive through at KFC."
23 posts
#6
Rejection
: "23M pursuing 23F | Need objective opinions: is this genuine uncertainty or a polite Rejection?"
14 posts
#7
Interest
10 posts
#8
Hate
8 posts
#9
Tired
8 posts
#10
Worst
7 posts
Flair Used in r/datingadviceformen
#1
Specific situation
: "Weird question - why are hot girls after me all of a sudden and what the hell do I do?"
104 posts
#2
General question
: "31/M beaten up 6’4” guy - feeling super down and discouraged about the complete lack of female companionship in my life and starting to think it’s my face."
60 posts
#3
Discussion
: "I’m so tired of people saying women care more about personality than looks"
26 posts
#4
Advice to others
: "Approaching girls PSA"
7 posts
#5
Post of the day
: "Most people play not to lose instead of playing to win. They hold back in conversation out of fear of saying the wrong thing. When in reality a bit of a polarizing personality makes you much more attractive!"
1 post
#6
Field Report
: "Nothing has changed"
1 post
Member Growth in r/datingadviceformen
Yearly
+17k members(56.8%)
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Last updated: June 30, 2026