r/datingadviceformen is a subreddit with 45k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses dating, advice, relationship, girl, and approach.
A subreddit for guys to exchange advice, success stories, get over rejection, or just play with ideas for attracting and interacting with women on both a physical and emotional level.
Popular Themes in r/datingadviceformen
#1
Advice Requests
: "What is the biggest dating mistake men make today?"
32 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "Just friendzoned a girl and now I find the idea of sleeping with her crazy hot. Why?"
6 posts
Popular Topics in r/datingadviceformen
#1
Dating
: "NYC/LA/Chicago Dating apps - Have “serious relationship” tags on Hinge/Bumble become meaningless?"
228 posts
#2
Advice
: "hey girls need Advice.so i have been talking to this one girl for a while now , it’s been a month. her replies are super nice but it looks like she is friend zoning me mostly or considering me as a friend, how do i make sure of it? do i just shoot my shot?"
134 posts
#3
Relationship
: "In this survey on if certain Relationship milestones are serious, the male percentages are much lower than women’s across the board. Why is this? When do you personally consider a Relationship serious?"
70 posts
#4
Girl
: "hey Girls need advice.so i have been talking to this one Girl for a while now , it’s been a month. her replies are super nice but it looks like she is friend zoning me mostly or considering me as a friend, how do i make sure of it? do i just shoot my shot?"
42 posts
#5
Approach
: "For guys that are nervous when Approaching or talking to women"
22 posts
#6
Texting
: "My date texted "you seem like a lot""
20 posts
#7
Struggling
17 posts
#8
Women
: "In this survey on if certain relationship milestones are serious, the male percentages are much lower than Women’s across the board. Why is this? When do you personally consider a relationship serious?"
13 posts
#9
Attraction
: "Attraction is not created by what you logically say but instead by what you emotionally convey. You cannot logically convince someone to like you!"
10 posts
#10
Rejection
: "How do you overcome fear of Rejection on the first date?"
9 posts
Flair Used in r/datingadviceformen
#1
Specific situation
: "This woman was really into me on the first date, but ended up rejected a second date. What went wrong?"
97 posts
#2
General question
: "Is this a nice way to say 'not interested'?"
60 posts
#3
Discussion
: "Between The League and Hinge, which one actually leads to real dates in NYC?"
25 posts
#4
Advice to others
: "For guys that are nervous when approaching or talking to women"
11 posts
#5
Post of the day
: "You can never be rejected if you define success as giving the other person the opportunity to get to know you!"
4 posts
#6
Field Report
: "Analyzing my cold approach"
2 posts
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+16k members(53.3%)
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Last updated: June 15, 2026