/r/datingoverthirty/

r/datingoverthirty

1.2M members
r/datingoverthirty is a subreddit with 1.2M members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests, and the community frequently discusses hard time, struggling, frustration, relationship, and dating, and they frequently recommend/review online games.
A subreddit for folks nearing or over 30 who are looking for dating advice.

Popular Themes in r/datingoverthirty

#1
Advice Requests
: "Single, but the thought of social events exhausts me. Anyone else in the same boat?"
5 posts

Popular Topics in r/datingoverthirty

#1

Hard Time

52 posts
#2

Struggling

27 posts
#3

Frustration

26 posts
#4

Relationship

25 posts
#5

Dating

: "Dating someone in his 50s and with 2 older kids...?"
23 posts
#6

Time

9 posts
#7

Struggle

7 posts
#8

Looking For A Relationship

6 posts
#9

Advice

: "Daily sticky thread for rants, raves, celebrations, Advice and more! - November 01, 2026"
6 posts
#10

Dating Struggles

5 posts

Products Discussed in r/datingoverthirty

Online Games

43 reviews
#1
It Takes Two
5.0★ from 3 reviews
#2
World of Warcraft
5.0★ from 2 reviews
#3
GeoGuessr
4.0★ from 2 reviews

Member Growth in r/datingoverthirty

Yearly
+45k members(4.0%)

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Last updated: November 5, 2026