r/LongDistance is a subreddit with 2.5M members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses long distance relationship, relationship, ldr, long distance, and breakup, and they frequently recommend/review cloud storage, video games, and gifts.
r/LongDistance is a subreddit for and about long distance relationships. For anyone considering(but not seeking), currently in, or who used to be, this is the community for you! We are here for support, advice, and community who can relate to your experiences. We are people who met online, students studying across the country and abroad, people separated by jobs and the military, and more.
Popular Themes in r/LongDistance
#1
Advice Requests
: "Things I can mail my (28F) LDR bf (29M) for his bday?"
34 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "I sold everything, quit my job, and gave up my home for a fiancé visa. Then he changed his mind"
14 posts
#3
Solution Requests
: "Gift for ldr"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/LongDistance
#1
Long Distance Relationship
: "How can I save my Long Distance Relationship?"
98 posts
#2
Relationship
: "LDR Relationship to marriage!"
95 posts
#3
Ldr
: "Things that are actually normal in long distance relationships (3 years of Ldr taught me this)"
81 posts
#4
Long Distance
: "Long Distance rant bc I HATE it"
71 posts
#5
Breakup
: "21F Breakup help"
41 posts
#6
Advice
: "The 6 Month ‘Make it or Break it’ milestone: Did you and your partner make it through the storm? What Advice would you give to anyone going through it?"
28 posts
#7
Boyfriend
: "Guys, I love my Boyfriend"
19 posts
#8
Looking For
17 posts
#9
Communication
: "The distance is showing me our Communication gaps, and I (26M) am feeling like my girlfriend (28M) isn't mature enough to be in a relationship"
16 posts
#10
Ldr Relationship
16 posts
Products Discussed in r/LongDistance
Cloud Storage
7 reviews
#1
Filen
3.0★ from 1 review
#2
Scramble Cloud
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Vult.Network
5.0★ from 1 review
Video Games
7 reviews
#1
Square Enix
5.0★ from 1 review
#2
Divinity
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Bloons
5.0★ from 1 review
Gifts
5 reviews
#1
John Lewis
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Kendra Scott
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
The Chocolate Box by Charlotte
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/LongDistance
#1
Question
: "How did you meet your long-distance partner?"
43 posts
#2
Need Advice
: "Things I can mail my (28F) LDR bf (29M) for his bday?"
41 posts
#3
Discussion
: "Things that are actually normal in long distance relationships (3 years of LDR taught me this)"
13 posts
#4
Image/Video
: "I miss him so much 😭💜💛"
12 posts
#5
Venting
: "Bf upset for hypothetical he made up and now he wants to break up"
10 posts
#6
Breakup
: "Closing the distance in LDR feels almost impossible CA - US"
9 posts
#7
Story
: "Reddit gave me my handsome boyfriend"
7 posts
#8
Milestone
: "We closed the gap!"
5 posts
#9
Success
: "For anyone doubting…"
3 posts
#10
Need Support
: "Beginning 4 years of LDR and I’m sad and scared."
3 posts
Member Growth in r/LongDistance
Yearly
+25k members(1.0%)
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Last updated: June 16, 2026