r/LongDistance is a subreddit with 2.5M members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses relationship, ldr, looking for, long distance, and long distance relationship, and they frequently recommend/review cloud storage, video games, and gifts.
r/LongDistance is a subreddit for and about long distance relationships. For anyone considering(but not seeking), currently in, or who used to be, this is the community for you! We are here for support, advice, and community who can relate to your experiences. We are people who met online, students studying across the country and abroad, people separated by jobs and the military, and more.
Popular Themes in r/LongDistance
#1
Advice Requests
: "need advice on very long distance"
27 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "It's tough when you thought you've finally had a taste of what you deserve, only for it to not work out"
1 post
#3
Self-Promotion
: "I built a tool for romantic digital gifts — looking for honest feedback"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/LongDistance
#1
Relationship
21 posts
#2
Ldr
18 posts
#3
Looking For
17 posts
#4
Long Distance
17 posts
#5
Long Distance Relationship
17 posts
#6
Breakup
7 posts
#7
Struggling
5 posts
#8
Advice
5 posts
#9
Apps
4 posts
#10
Job
4 posts
Products Discussed in r/LongDistance
Cloud Storage
7 reviews
#1
Filen
3.0★ from 1 review
#2
Scramble Cloud
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Vult.Network
5.0★ from 1 review
Video Games
7 reviews
#1
Square Enix
5.0★ from 1 review
#2
Divinity
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
Bloons
5.0★ from 1 review
Gifts
5 reviews
#1
John Lewis
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Kendra Scott
5.0★ from 1 review
#3
The Chocolate Box by Charlotte
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/LongDistance
#1
Need Advice
: "I (22F) having trouble with parents when wanting to visit my partner (28F)"
21 posts
#2
Question
: "I F20 cheated, changed, and now my M22 ex says he’ll never forgive me. Is there anything left to do?"
20 posts
#3
Image/Video
: "Drew me and my bf as Walt and Jesse from Breaking Bad for his bday!"
6 posts
#4
Venting
: "Ive cried so hard ive lost my voice."
4 posts
#5
App/Software
: "I built a cozy, private app for my partner and me to track our bucket lists, travels, and tasks."
2 posts
#6
Need Support
: "Fiance Flew Back Home"
2 posts
#7
Discussion
: "[41F/45M] How do you balance planning for the future vs enjoying the present in an LDR?"
2 posts
#8
Other
: "My long distance boyfriend celebrated my birthday"
1 post
#9
Meeting
: "23 [F4R] Anywhere - Introverted nature lover & lifelong learner seeking a deep, monogamous soulmate"
1 post
#10
Milestone
: "My long distance boyfriend and I have been together almost 3 years!"
1 post
Member Growth in r/LongDistance
Yearly
+31k members(1.3%)
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Last updated: July 10, 2026