r/RedPillWomen is a subreddit with 87k members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses relationship, dating, marriage, struggling, and advice, and they frequently recommend/review pregnancy books.
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Popular Themes in r/RedPillWomen
#1
Advice Requests
: "What Are The Best Skills A Girl Can Acquire Before Marriage?"
9 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "I feel bad for women who deep down want a soft life but media manipulated them into thinking men want another man"
6 posts
#3
Money Talk
: "Traditional-style money management in today's marriages"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/RedPillWomen
#1
Relationship
: "6 Things I've Learned in 6 Years of Marriage"
94 posts
#2
Dating
: "Relocating to find a husband"
68 posts
#3
Marriage
: "Interesting Thoughts on Marriage"
48 posts
#4
Struggling
30 posts
#5
Advice
: "I had an amazing first date with a very ambitious man but I’m worried he will not have enough time for me , need some Advice"
28 posts
#6
Struggle
24 posts
#7
Relationships
: "Relationships: Money Pits vs Fixer-uppers vs Turnkey"
19 posts
#8
Husband
16 posts
#9
Red Pill
: "I feel like a lot of messages about Red Pill women end up being “women suffer so men don’t get their feelings hurt”"
14 posts
#10
Feminine
11 posts
Products Discussed in r/RedPillWomen
Pregnancy Books
1 review
#1
The Better Baby Book
4.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/RedPillWomen
#1
ADVICE
: "Postpartum and my husband has turned emotionally cruel. Is this abuse or stress?"
38 posts
#2
DISCUSSION
: "I’m a detransitioned woman who used Testosterone from 15 and a half to 21 years old. I need some solid advice on what to do about my appearance. I just want to look and feel normal again"
29 posts
#3
FIELD REPORT
: "Field Report: I haven’t been as good a wife as I thought I was"
8 posts
#4
LTR/MARRIAGE
: "Musings on happiness"
8 posts
#5
SELF IMPROVEMENT
: "What I’ve Learned About “Self-care” in the first 3 Months of Marriage"
5 posts
#6
DATING ADVICE
: "Signs I Ignored"
5 posts
#7
RELATIONSHIPS
: "Finding beauty (or, put on his love goggles for a minute)"
5 posts
#8
THEORY
: "6 Things I've Learned in 6 Years of Marriage"
3 posts
#9
OFF TOPIC
: "I feel bad for women who deep down want a soft life but media manipulated them into thinking men want another man"
1 post
#10
META
: "This sub had a lot more wives posting and the dynamic has shifted."
1 post
Member Growth in r/RedPillWomen
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+8k members(10.6%)
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Last updated: June 16, 2026