r/ExperiencedENM
9k members
r/ExperiencedENM is a subreddit with 9k members. The most common kinds of discussions are pain & anger and advice requests, and the community frequently discusses polyamory, enm, relationship, breakup, and advice.
A subreddit for in-depth discussion of ethical non-monogamy and polyamory without the same damn questions over and over.
Popular Themes in r/ExperiencedENM
#1
Pain & Anger
: "*Rant* Tired of being people's testing grounds"
15 posts
#2
Advice Requests
: "How to communicate lack of sexual attraction"
11 posts
Popular Topics in r/ExperiencedENM
#1
Polyamory
: "Maintaining Hope In Polyamory"
30 posts
#2
Enm
: "Enm - new adopters."
29 posts
#3
Relationship
: "Transitioning our Relationship because of his gaming."
25 posts
#4
Breakup
: "No script for this kind of Breakup"
15 posts
#5
Advice
: "Sometimes I wish there were a place for more experienced poly peeps to talk and seek Advice"
14 posts
#6
Nyc Poly Cocktails
: "📌 November 2023 Nyc Poly Cocktails Confirmed!"
8 posts
#7
Partner
: "How do I convey in a dating bio that I'm looking for a Partner who wants marriage/kids, while conveying I'm Partnered in a way that doesn't interfere with that?"
6 posts
#8
Meta
: "Dumped for not checking on Metas"
5 posts
#9
Communication
: "Communication Success!"
4 posts
#10
Dating
: "Any experience with Dating online as poly?"
4 posts
Member Growth in r/ExperiencedENM
Yearly
+2k members(30.8%)
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Last updated: June 16, 2026