r/actuallesbians is a subreddit with 655k members. The community frequently discusses lesbian, looking for a, struggling, relationship, and dating, and they frequently recommend/review sapphic, lesbian book, and perfume, and the most common flair used is question, link, satire/humor, image, and support.
/r/actuallesbians — a place for cis and trans lesbians, bisexual girls, chicks who like chicks, bi-curious folks, dykes, butches, femmes, girls who kiss girls, birls, bois, aces, anyone in the LGBT+ community, or anyone else interested! We're not a militant or exclusive group, feel free to join up!
Popular Topics in r/actuallesbians
#1
Lesbian
89 posts
#2
Looking For A
43 posts
#3
Struggling
39 posts
#4
Relationship
36 posts
#5
Dating
26 posts
#6
Tired
20 posts
#7
Hate
19 posts
#8
Sapphic
19 posts
#9
Struggles
13 posts
#10
Struggle
13 posts
Products Discussed in r/actuallesbians
Sapphic
98 reviews
#1
Girli
4.0★ from 5 reviews
#2
Tamsyn Muir
5.0★ from 4 reviews
#3
King Princess
4.3★ from 3 reviews
Lesbian Book
81 reviews
#1
Casey McQuiston
5.0★ from 4 reviews
#2
Haley Cass
4.8★ from 4 reviews
#3
Kelly Quindlen
4.7★ from 3 reviews
Perfume
34 reviews
#1
Giorgio Armani
4.7★ from 3 reviews
#2
Maison Margiela
5.0★ from 3 reviews
#3
Yves Saint Laurent
5.0★ from 2 reviews
Flair Used in r/actuallesbians
#1
Question
: "Meeting other wlw"
8 posts
#2
Link
: "what does this mean"
5 posts
#3
Satire/Humor
: "Lesbian cars?"
4 posts
#4
Image
: "Lesbian beer! Les-beer-an! 🍻"
3 posts
#5
Support
: "Trans isolation in a s e asian chat with only friends I have"
3 posts
#6
Venting
: "Late bloomer insecure about experienced GF"
3 posts
#7
Text
: "i rlly wish someone would hold my boobs😭"
2 posts
#8
Mod Post
: "Sunday Daily Chat Thread"
1 post
Member Growth in r/actuallesbians
Yearly
+78k members(13.5%)
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Last updated: August 9, 2026