/r/dating_advice/

r/dating_advice

4.9M members
r/dating_advice is a subreddit with 4.9M members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses dating, relationship, girlfriend, dating app, and looking for a genuine connection, and they frequently recommend/review dating app, dating apps, and website recommendations.
this sub is for advice about specific dating situations not general debates. posts about relationships longer than 6 months post go to r/relationship_advice or if you are married post to r/marriage

Popular Themes in r/dating_advice

#1
Advice Requests
: "nearly got into a motorbike accident because of bf's anger issues, need advice especially from girls"
39 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "21M and honestly getting discouraged with dating — what am I doing wrong?"
6 posts
#3
Solution Requests
: "What’s the best dating app?"
1 post

Popular Topics in r/dating_advice

#1

Dating

15 posts
#2

Relationship

8 posts
#3

Girlfriend

7 posts
#4

Dating App

: "What’s the best Dating App?"
5 posts
#5

Looking For A Genuine Connection

4 posts
#6

Looking For A Friend

3 posts
#7

Friendship

: "Should I ask my friend out?"
3 posts
#8

Looking For A Girlfriend

2 posts
#9

Looking For A Long Term Relationship

2 posts
#10

Looking For A Girlfriend For A Friend

2 posts

Products Discussed in r/dating_advice

Dating App

38 reviews
#1
Hinge
4.3 from 19 reviews
#2
Bumble
3.7 from 6 reviews
#3
Facebook Dating
4.8 from 4 reviews

Dating Apps

26 reviews
#1
Hinge
4.6 from 9 reviews
#2
Feeld
3.5 from 4 reviews
#3
Tinder
3.5 from 4 reviews
#1
YouTube
5.0 from 3 reviews
#2
Meetup
5.0 from 1 review

Member Growth in r/dating_advice

Yearly
+225k members(4.9%)

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Last updated: August 21, 2026