r/polyamory is a subreddit with 475k members. The community frequently discusses jealousy, book, new partner, apps, and community, and they frequently recommend/review calendar app, bars/clubs, and podcast, and the most common flair used is vent, curious/learning, i am new, musings, and married and struggling with opening.
Polyamory is openly, honestly, and consensually loving and being committed to more than one person.
This subreddit discusses news, views, and issues around polyamory, and the people who do it
Popular Topics in r/polyamory
#1
Jealousy
8 posts
#2
Book
4 posts
#3
New Partner
4 posts
#4
Apps
3 posts
#5
Community
3 posts
#6
Unicorn
3 posts
#7
Kids
3 posts
#8
Breakup
3 posts
#9
Nesting
3 posts
#10
Meta
3 posts
Products Discussed in r/polyamory
Calendar App
10 reviews
#1
Google Calendar
4.8★ from 8 reviews
#2
TimeTree
4.0★ from 2 reviews
Bars/clubs
5 reviews
#1
Club Joi
4.7★ from 3 reviews
#2
SwingLifestyle
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Freedom Acres
4.0★ from 1 review
Podcast
3 reviews
#1
I Could Never
4.0★ from 1 review
#2
Normalizing Nonmonogamy
4.0★ from 1 review
#3
Making Polyamory Work
5.0★ from 1 review
Flair Used in r/polyamory
#1
vent
: "I lost my partner today, and I’m really struggling."
11 posts
#2
Curious/Learning
: "My partner of 7 years wants to go barrier free with the new guy... is it okay to not be okay?"
9 posts
#3
I am new
: "Thought I could handle it"
7 posts
#4
Musings
: "Ten years later, I'm reflecting on a relationship conflict that changed how I think about polyamory, boundaries, and accountability"
3 posts
#5
Married and struggling with Opening
: "Wife wants to open marriage"
3 posts
#6
Happy!
: "It’s my 5 year wedding anniversary, and my wife is with her boyfriend."
2 posts
#7
Rat Union Business 🐀🧀
: "Weekly Rat Union Meeting #70"
1 post
Member Growth in r/polyamory
Yearly
+55k members(13.2%)
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Last updated: October 25, 2026