/r/polyamory/

r/polyamory

467k members
r/polyamory is a subreddit with 467k members. The community frequently discusses relationship, advice, polyamory, poly, and partner, and they frequently recommend/review calendar app, bars/clubs, and podcast, and the most common flair used is vent, curious/learning, i am new, musings, and subreddit suggestions box.
Polyamory is openly, honestly, and consensually loving and being committed to more than one person. This subreddit discusses news, views, and issues around polyamory, and the people who do it

Popular Topics in r/polyamory

#1

Relationship

99 posts
#2

Advice

67 posts
#3

Polyamory

37 posts
#4

Poly

25 posts
#5

Partner

20 posts
#6

Dating

8 posts
#7

Boundaries

8 posts
#8

Communication

8 posts
#9

Jealousy

8 posts
#10

Breakup

6 posts

Products Discussed in r/polyamory

Calendar App

10 reviews
#1
Google Calendar
4.8 from 8 reviews
#2
TimeTree
4.0 from 2 reviews

Bars/clubs

5 reviews
#1
Club Joi
4.7 from 3 reviews
#2
SwingLifestyle
4.0 from 1 review
#3
Freedom Acres
4.0 from 1 review

Podcast

3 reviews
#1
I Could Never
4.0 from 1 review
#2
Normalizing Nonmonogamy
4.0 from 1 review
#3
Making Polyamory Work
5.0 from 1 review

Flair Used in r/polyamory

#1
vent
: "Can’t stand my meta"
17 posts
#2
Curious/Learning
: "Bait and switch or normal kitchen table poly behaviour?"
14 posts
#3
I am new
: "Is this disrespectful?"
11 posts
#4
Musings
: "Update: past trauma from psychological abuse keeps popping up"
3 posts
#5
Subreddit suggestions box
: "Recently opened up my relationship finding frinds Or dates"
2 posts
#6
Cheated on
: "Am I overreacting, my bf send nudes to someone"
2 posts
#7
Happy!
: "Meta friend!"
1 post
#8
Married and struggling with Opening
: "What do now - individual time"
1 post
#9
advice please
: "Moving away from fear"
1 post
#10
Advice wanted !
: "How to deal with family about polyA?"
1 post

Member Growth in r/polyamory

Yearly
+52k members(12.4%)

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Last updated: August 25, 2026