r/relationships is a subreddit with 3.8M members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses relationship, trust, past, breakup, and age.
/r/Relationships is a community built around helping people and the goal of providing a platform for interpersonal relationship advice between redditors. We seek posts from users who have specific and personal relationship quandaries that other redditors can help them try to solve.
Popular Themes in r/relationships
#1
Advice Requests
: "I (19F) have been dating boyfriend (20M) for just over a month; I feel physically desired but not romantically. What do I do?"
11 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "I (F20) feel disgustingly dependent on my fiance (M22)"
2 posts
#3
Solution Requests
: "I (21M) have an unresolved and serious communication problem with my gf (21F) that's costing our relationship. How do I solve it?"
1 post
#4
Money Talk
: "My girlfriend (20F) and I (20M) seem to want very different futures financially. Am I overthinking this?"
1 post
Popular Topics in r/relationships
#1
Relationship
22 posts
#2
Trust
3 posts
#3
Past
2 posts
#4
Breakup
2 posts
#5
Age
1 post
#6
Girlfriend
1 post
#7
Relationship Duration
1 post
Member Growth in r/relationships
Yearly
+147k members(4.1%)
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Last updated: September 19, 2026