/r/relationships/

r/relationships

3.7M members
r/relationships is a subreddit with 3.7M members. The most common kinds of discussions are advice requests and pain & anger, and the community frequently discusses relationship, trust, commitment, past, and breakup.
/r/Relationships is a community built around helping people and the goal of providing a platform for interpersonal relationship advice between redditors. We seek posts from users who have specific and personal relationship quandaries that other redditors can help them try to solve.

Popular Themes in r/relationships

#1
Advice Requests
: "How to tell my girlfriend I got another girl pregnant?"
90 posts
#2
Pain & Anger
: "My partner (28M) plays twisted mind games, tests me (27F), and uses my pets to mentally break me. Am I crazy?"
11 posts
#3
Money Talk
: "I (25M) am dating a girl (27F) that is 2 years older to me who needs to get married by 28, but I am not financially stable yet."
1 post

Popular Topics in r/relationships

#1

Relationship

20 posts
#2

Trust

3 posts
#3

Commitment

2 posts
#4

Past

2 posts
#5

Breakup

2 posts
#6

Fwb

: "Fwb but he wanted to just be besties"
2 posts
#7

Jealousy

: "My (16), girlfriend (16) is hanging out with a guy I feel uncomfortable with her around"
2 posts
#8

Overreacting

: "Should I (23F) be mad at my boyfriend (24M) for breaking promises over a sandwich, or am I Overreacting?"
2 posts
#9

Break Up

: "Should I Break Up?"
2 posts
#10

Casual Sex

: "Why do I feel bothered by the fact that the person I love had Casual Sex without feelings and how do I resolve it? (22M) (23F)"
2 posts

Member Growth in r/relationships

Yearly
+139k members(3.9%)

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Last updated: August 13, 2026